Cheating??

Question

Is there any other ways to tell if your spouse is cheating, besides lack of sex.

Answer 1

You can tell a difference in behavior or behavior patterns. If he starts paying more careful attention to the way he dresses, his hair, if he is more secretive about his cell phone, if he communicates less, appears resentful or angry, working longer hours, he avoids you more..

Here are more signs of cheating:
http://www.womansdivorce.com/signs-of-cheating.html

Answer 2

O.k. I know I'm going to get some thumbs down here I always do when it comes to these sort of Q, but here I go, 1st how old is he? age does play a part in low sex drive for men (just like in woman) how come if a man asked this Q most of the comments would be not about she is cheating but more on hormones or menopause, well men go through male menopause as well..they do look it up...men also start to loose testosterone when they hit 30 (look it up) just like anything else in life everyone is different as so it will effect everyman differently...loss of this hormone can and does lead to lower sex drive....also it can lead to depression that is why I asked how old he was... I feel badly that the very first thing that pops into people's heads when a guy has slowed down is he must be cheating.....if you have more reasons to believe he may be cheating other than lack of sex than I am sorry....talk to him/her COMMUNICATE with your significant other and tell him/her that you are worried about them and your relationship........good luck to you

Answer 3

Go searching for evidence and you may just find what you wish to find.The mind is a very potent instrument.Have you eliminated all other options.High blood pressure,depression work related exhaustion.You will be surprised that lack of sex is not a good predictor of cheating.

Answer 4

Some people have more sex with their spouse while they are cheating, so that one doesn't always hold true. The only way to know is to snoop (emails, phone records, PI) and prove it if you suspect something.

Answer 5

Watch your check book.
Is he always late
Is he dressing up before going out. Wearing colonge when he did not before.
Look at the miles on his car. No how many miles he should be traveling each day.
Smell of perfume on his clothes that is not yours.
Look for receipts
Check him out at work and watch and see who he goes to lunch with.
If he is staying late at work. Go park near by and watch when he should get off and see what happens. It is better if you get a friends car . Make sure you wear a hat and sunglasses. Follow him if he leaves and see where he goes.
Put at GP unit on his car and find out where he is going.
Get a detective. If you know where and about when he is going he can get pictures for you and it won't cost you as much if you have an idea where he is going and about what time.

Answer 6

Many things can be tied to a lack of sexual desire. The only advice I can give is to be careful with your heart. If you start snooping then the trust is already broken. Be careful, you may find something you wish you hadn't. I am not telling you to stick your head in the sand, just protect your heart.

Communication in any relationship is the key.

Answer 7

besides lack of sex here are a few ways..... always leaving the room when talking on the phone or turning phone off or on vibrate when they get home, accusing you of cheating or wanting someone else, if he already holds you at night he might be a little more distant about it,doesnt let you touch his phone, always avoiding coming home by telling u that on the way home my buddy called and im going to stop by there before i come home, "getting too drunk to drive home" " lost my phone"......ect.......try to fool around with him first thing when he gets home and see how that goes. the list goes on what you should do is just ask him and see how he acts you can kinda always tell by just the way they act when u ask them.... just tell him what you feel is going on, or what you are afraid of what might be going on and just talk ....... its all about communication......

Answer 8

Not that I would know, but.....check his cell phone, cell phone records if you have a joint account, check his computer history, break into his email, check and see if he has an online personal ad, google his name, show up at his job and see if he freaks (if it's a co-worker) ck bank and credit card statements for flowers, hotels, dinners out, etc.

And oh yeah. If you have to do all this, you probably shouldn't bother bc he probably is. Most will lie even when caught.

Answer 9

Instinct
Change in behavior
Unexplained time away
Evidence like email, phone records, letters etc.

You could also just ask. Maybe there is no cheating going on and there is another problem that needs to be worked out.

Answer 10

If you are pondering it, it probably is happening. My husband got a myspace account, which I was fine with cause I have one too. But he had his pretty private, doesnt show contacts or comments. So I knew he was hiding stuff. But he started cutting his hair when it was still short, shaving more, buying new clothes. having phone on silent ot vibrate. He even starting accusing me (guilt). But I did find out he was talking to girls cause of our cell phone bill. So ask him, if he is lying as him to see his pone/email. if he doesnt want to show you right away , he is hiding something.