Family & Relationships - 7 June 2007

I thought thats all i have to worry about. Well, finally we hit it once last month when he had an erection! But now while lookng thru his emails, i found out he's joined this website for hot singles and read his profile, but he has not subscribed to it permanently, cause he will be billed monthly for that. god....i couldnt believe it, althou in websites like these do men really say the truth? or do they invent stuffs? Like he said he is heterosexual, and goes for swings,voyeurism, almost everything, you name it.... I am a good wife and and i can bad if i want to but because i love him so much, i feel so bad and its breaking my heart!!! Is there something wrong with him, i need some medical advise. He loves watching playboy tv and i also enjoy watching it with him, althou it doesnt make him horny. Everytime he comes home from work, i stare at him and ask myself was this d man i married? He's 68 and seems he wants more action!! there are more secrets and this space is not enough. HELP!

2007-06-07 03:00:30 · 10 answers · asked by eigger57 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need cheering up so has anyone got any good jokes or comforting words as my hearts just got broken

2007-06-07 02:59:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have my own opinions but i want to see what others think too.

I am 5'6" and average/athletic build with pale skin strawberry blonde hair and blue eyes. what dress should i wear

http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2925&prodgroup=127&nav=next

http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2294&prodgroup=127

or anyother ideas

updo or not?
http://www.curly-hair-styles-magazine.com/images/wedding-hair-styles-for-curly-hair-05.jpg

http://www.curly-hair-styles-magazine.com/image-files/curly-wedding-hair-b-14.jpg

http://www.raphaelinternational.com/bride1.jpg
veil - long train or short

location- childhood church or family farm

who- preacher or grandfather

it will be in the fall what kind of decorations?

food?

anything else

2007-06-07 02:58:47 · 7 answers · asked by The Wondeful World of ME! 1 in Weddings

this guy has told his boss and co-workers that we have had sex while at work. True or not true, there is no proof. I went to superviser and told him that it was not true and that I was upset about the rumers. Is there any thing I can do to cover my ***? Can I get in trouble because of what this guy is saying?

2007-06-07 02:56:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A mutual friend of ours that I told I have a crush on has grown and I can not seem to get my mind off of him. I don't want to leave my husband, but I don't know what to do. My husband told me whatever I decide he will stand by my side and that he is there for me. I have the best husband in the world, but I can not seem to control how I feel, please help.

2007-06-07 02:52:39 · 43 answers · asked by mom2abigsis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-07 02:52:30 · 15 answers · asked by love and peace 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26 and feel like no one outside of my family and friends has loved me. I have been in relationships with people but nothing that I think of as serious. I try to let people in but they just treat me like crap.

2007-06-07 02:50:33 · 19 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I only ask this because it goes along the lines of my previous question. I recently married a guy from India, I'm from the US, born and bred. I've got many well meaning people telling me how to treat him; and lay the seeds for a good marriage 20yrs down the line. Then I ask him if that's what he needs, and he tells me that I'm doing fine, and that if he needs something from me, he'll let me know. Then when I tell others, they come back with...welll, that's what he'll say, but he doesn't mean it. I'd like to think my man is being as honest w/me as possible. I've told him I only respond to directness, and he's reciprocating; but others want me to be more romantic and thoughtful(I will, just not yet...I think). Then they come at me and tell me that they're telling me what Indian guys expect and that they won't tell u these things because they expect their wives to know their needs. We're ok w/sit. but I don't know how to shut others up. They can see I'm in love, y do I need to show it?

2007-06-07 02:49:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found out my husband is emailing other women on the net. He says that its just chatting its no big deal, that he just misses stimulating conversation. But its all women and some of the emails are things you should only say to your spouse. Is this really consider cheating or should I not make a big deal about it?

2007-06-07 02:43:44 · 32 answers · asked by watress1972 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do? I am in love with my volleyball coach!
I am 18 years old and I have a volleyball coach who is a bit older than me. I like him but I don't know what to do next. Don't worry, we are not going to break any rules if we date. We are perfectly allowed to date but I dont know how to take it to the next level. How can I shift from student to girlfriend? I got his cell number from his friend but he doesnt know about it, Should I text him or would it scare him? He is a quite a shy guy and I am also shy. How could I talk to him more so he would open up to me? He's single and i really want him.
I just want to make it clear that we arent off limits to each other. I assure you that his reputation would not be tarnished. He only teaches volleyball in the summer and I have no reason to see him after the summer. We are just really shy around each other
He only seems shy around me and I notice that he lingers near me.
The summer is over and I have no reason to see him. Help!

2007-06-07 02:43:34 · 14 answers · asked by varnaliah 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone, in a nutshell I have 2 kids, son is 7, daughter is 4 (turning 5 in July). I'm second guessing myself putting my daughter in summer camp b/c its from 8-4:30. It's a really good camp but I'm thinking now she might be too young to stay so long. She would normally get out at 3:30 but since her older sibling is there they allow them to stay that extra hour. She hasn't been in school yet so I just wanted her to socialize a bit before entering kindergarten. I also didn't want her spending those nice summer days cooped up in her grandmas house while I work full time and wanted her to have fun with other kids her age. Its just the time factor, i'm wondering if its too long a day for a little girl who's used to being "spoiled":-) at grandmas or home 24/7? Thanks to all of you who took time to read my long ramble.

2007-06-07 02:42:39 · 21 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in 24 days and the closer it gets the more I am dragging my feet. See I am moveing in with him just before the wedding because he owns his own place. And he also lives in another town and I have yet to tell my lanlord is this because it is all familiar here? He is a great and loveing guy some say I am only getting cold feet. When I am with him everything feels right when I am not I start to question everything. Someone please help!!!! Also people have been trying to place doubt in my head as for me getting married

2007-06-07 02:39:11 · 7 answers · asked by me 2 in Weddings

be honest are there times when you wish you where still single??

2007-06-07 02:37:35 · 52 answers · asked by jackmeeko 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-07 02:28:06 · 7 answers · asked by Abhi 1 in Friends

My sister is 20 yrs old and I'm 22 for the past couple years (ever since she started college) she hasn't liked me as much as she used to. I feel like a ratty stuffed animal she's outgrown. She acts like I'm an embarrassment and talks to me like I'm a mentally retarded 5yr old! She's become very shallow. I tried talking to her-that doesn't work. Would a head to toe makeover w/ weight loss help? I know I'm kind of old to care what she thinks but I can't help it, I want to be liked by everyone. I'm open to any suggestions that'll at least get her talking to me like I'm normal person.

2007-06-07 02:24:43 · 8 answers · asked by Luxecashmere 1 in Family

I recently discovered that my husband, whom I have been married to for a long time, is watching and ordering porn on his computer. I did some research and discovered he has also been chatting with other girls online. I know our sex life has not been great lately, either. I know he is playing with himself when he thinks I'm asleep or gone. He is also lying about his activities when he stays up later than me. I am really worried that this can lead to something more that can end our marriage. Should I be concerned? How do I tell him without accusing him of cheating?

2007-06-07 02:21:12 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well check this, my uncle has been married 4 17yrs, and his wife is a crazy b i t c h! she's always fighting with him, argueing, nagging, and jealous as hell. he's 42yrs old. he called me today upset and crying telling me that he is fed up and that he was dating another woman for about a month. the other woman is married. my uncle has a daughter that is 16yrz old. his daughter does not respect him at all cuz her mom brainwashes her saying that my uncle is no good. my uncle wants to leave his wife cuz he's fed up. the relationship with that other woman is over. the woman told him that she couldn't deal with him being married. my uncle asked me 4 advise. and i really don't want to get into it, but when i heard his tone of voice i felt real bad. i was brought up that infidelity is a sin and it is sumthing that shouldn't be done. like i said he's 42yrz i'm only 24. what can i tell him???

2007-06-07 02:19:46 · 12 answers · asked by oh_yeah_cinco_de_mayo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-07 02:17:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Jerry used to live in Poole, Dorset before moving with his pal Sonny (Sunjit) to Fort Wayne, Indianna in 1996. His ex wife and two kids, now in their 20's lived in Poole, they might still be there? I need to get hold of Jerry so he can be there when we scatter my husband Chic's ashes in Scotland. Anyone help? I'm getting desperate!!!

2007-06-07 02:17:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been internet gambling and hiding it for 6 months. I found out without him even telling me. He lied to me when I asked him what he was doing so long on the computer. Now, he has a bunch of bills to pay because of it and says he will work two jobs to pay them off. I am mad and upset with him. I have been married 13 years and known him for 20, and I never thought he would do anything like this-

2007-06-07 02:16:53 · 9 answers · asked by sara l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Right my ex is pregnant by a bloke she has known for 5months. We split after 8years because I stupidly cheated but I had forgiven her for the same in the past. She moves out in her new place this weekend & has told him she doesnt want him living with her. She knows I still love her & has said she still loves me.But am I just being played as a fool, is my love for her making me to be used? x

2007-06-07 02:13:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have arranged for someone to "act" as a bar tender to keep an eye on the things with alcohol. Is this enough?

I was told that we have to have a party or an event licence to have even champaign at the reception. Can anyone give me some real information?

Please real Answers and not some of these shmucks that just want points.

2007-06-07 02:06:56 · 16 answers · asked by Firebreather 5 in Weddings

Did you know that it is more common for men to be physically abused by their wives, than it is for wives to be physically abused by their husbands?

2007-06-07 02:05:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My son aged 15 years is an internet addict and not only that he is ben viewing websites that conain sexual explicit material what should i do???

2007-06-07 02:04:13 · 15 answers · asked by regen j 1 in Family

Marrying a man with unsteady job, What I mean is that he might become unemployed within 1-3 yrs and may be its hard for him to find a job again so easily. would you be able to be a woman that can handle this.

He is a hard worker and hold a degree and not bum, but its difficult in some places to get employed very easily.

Would you be ashamed if he considers a profession less of him just to support his family.

Plz be honest you don't know me and I don't know you so plz be honest, this important.

2007-06-07 02:00:30 · 26 answers · asked by SomeGuy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Persons whom everybody likes? If yes, what did they do to become like this: were born like this, learn how to charm others, and so on?
Did you meet them in real life, and did you like them, as all others did?

2007-06-07 01:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by natte 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been giving reply to lots of questions regarding marriage, divorce & other legal matters regarding families etc. It came in mind to write a book regarding such issues with respect to legal aspects covering Indian marriage & divorce issues in particular. My purpose of writing this book will be to bring more legal awareness amongst the Indian people with regard to such issues & they need not consult any Lawyer/Advocate for such matters. This book will be written in simple English & explaining all the legal provisions with regards to marriage & divorce of Indian people irrespective of their religion or caste whatever is. What is your opinion about this? What all you seem should be discussed in such a book concerning only the legal aspect or even social aspect? Anyone like to be a part of this book along with me or contribute in it? Please give your frank opinion & no jokes for this very serious issue concerning all of us & our families.

2007-06-07 01:53:57 · 18 answers · asked by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now and I really like him and he seems to like me but.......we've only gone out like twice. I've mentioned this to him and he's even brought it up himself that we need to do somethings, but nothing has happened yet. I am faithful to him but there are plenty of guys trying to talk to me and take me out all the time. Should I call it quits with him and just date around or what? It's hard 'cause I really do like him but, work is pretty much the only reason I see him on a regular basis......(we work at the same place, but not in the same department).....Also, he has this myspace page and I'm in his top 8 but all his other ''friends'' besides his top 8 are like girls showing their a$$ and tit$, should I call him on it?

2007-06-07 01:47:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just tell it how it is and am not afraid to call or text my guy and say straight out lets f**k or i wanna f**k you. but he acts like i may be a little to straight up about things. is this a turn off to some people?

2007-06-07 01:44:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my uncles ex-girlfriend is about 22 and used to take me up to her house and do my hair and take me to town but they broke up last year and she only says hi and goodbye now! i really love her and miss her is there any way i can let her know? sometiems i brake down and cry! they where going out for 6 yrs! the have a child together is it something that i did wrong that makes her not want to talk to me? before she told me that she loved me as much as her child and i really miss her!

2007-06-07 01:44:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce