My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now and I really like him and he seems to like me but.......we've only gone out like twice. I've mentioned this to him and he's even brought it up himself that we need to do somethings, but nothing has happened yet. I am faithful to him but there are plenty of guys trying to talk to me and take me out all the time. Should I call it quits with him and just date around or what? It's hard 'cause I really do like him but, work is pretty much the only reason I see him on a regular basis......(we work at the same place, but not in the same department).....Also, he has this myspace page and I'm in his top 8 but all his other ''friends'' besides his top 8 are like girls showing their a$$ and tit$, should I call him on it?
2007-06-07 01:47:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way, we really are together because we talked about it and agreed to be together. it's not like i am just assuming.
2007-06-07 01:56:20 · update #1
Move on.
2007-06-07 01:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has a woman or doesn't want a serious relationship with you. The Myspace page is nothing, not even an issue, it's only decoration. You should see other people because he's definitely not seeing you exclusively, He's a show off and thinks he's the man because he has all these women wanting him. When he comes to your work area tell him you're busy and you'll talk to him later, this will throw the red flag up, and soon he'll be asking you out on a date. You dictate from now on how far the relationship is going to go and if he's really interested in you he'll change the way he does things, if not, your relationship will dwindle down to just "Good morning". Let him know the game is over and you want results or else.
2007-06-07 02:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Neenah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have only been out only twice in two months I wouldn't call that dating him, or as having him as a boyfriend. A boyfriend is a person who you see and go out with on a regular basis. If you want to stay with him then why can't you be the one to make plans and ask him to do something. If you are going to break up with him, leave his myspace alone. If you are going to stay with him tell him it bothers you.
2007-06-07 01:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Merrill L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand you. I guess that, first of all, you should press him to go out more. I mean, you should try to make your relationship work out, you should give it a chance. Afterall, it's not easy to find a person who worths nowadays. And, believe me, most of times it's an ILLUSION thinking that dating around with other guys will make you happier or more satisfatied.
BUT, if your boyfriend doesn't make any movement to improve your relationship, well, that's another story. Then, I think that you should look for someone who returns your expectations.
So: try to make your relationship work out. If it doesn't happen, try other possibilities ;).
And about MySpace: If I were you, I would call my boyriend on it... It's a little bit rude with you... If he REALLY loves you, he wouldn't bother about changing it... Take this calling on him as a test.
2007-06-07 02:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Blueberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you're kind of just his girl friend at work. Two dates in 2 months is bad. He doesn't seem to be all that serious about the relationship so go ahead and date around!
2007-06-07 01:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is not a boyfriend, get rid of him. Don't bother about his "myspace" page, and hopefully you know that grown men don't do stuff like that. Also, never get involved with someone you work with.
2007-06-07 01:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you said it sounds like you are better than him. If he really likes you he'll do something. If i were you i'd give him a week to improve, and if nothing happens your done. It is all your choice though. If you like him that is great, but remember there is always going to be someone better out there. =)
2007-06-07 01:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by TKD 4 LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time with this guy - If you like him, that's great, but maybe you should just be friends! you don't sound too passionate about him - and if you've only gone out twice?!
yawn...
You sound much too young to be wasting yourself away on this boring guy who is too busy to make real time for you!!!
2007-06-07 01:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by FIGJAM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel its your decisions. most likely yes you should cal it off if you feel that you all dont spend alot of time togehtere.and on his myspace page he has females before you and your his "girl"..most likely he might have something going on but if you really want to be with him talk to him about the situation again and see wat happens
~gud luk~
2007-06-07 01:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by tiddie14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it like this,make him a bit jealous go out with friends,if he want to talk with you say what you are busy at the moment....
Same relationship I'm hawing but mine its already one and half year and we newer went out but i made him jealous its works :-)
2007-06-07 02:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by saga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you are not in his list of priorities at the moment.. i would advice you to move on.. try dating the other guys who are interested.. maybe that could make him jealous.. have fun dear and move on with your life.. dont let yourself love someone who dont love you..
2007-06-07 01:56:25 · answer #11 · answered by stelee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋