Marrying a man with unsteady job, What I mean is that he might become unemployed within 1-3 yrs and may be its hard for him to find a job again so easily. would you be able to be a woman that can handle this.
He is a hard worker and hold a degree and not bum, but its difficult in some places to get employed very easily.
Would you be ashamed if he considers a profession less of him just to support his family.
Plz be honest you don't know me and I don't know you so plz be honest, this important.
2007-06-07 02:00:30 · 26 answers · asked by SomeGuy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It does not matter what financial situation you are in if there is true love there. When you love someone, you love them no matter what.
2007-06-07 02:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by I am woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be ashamed at all if he took a job that was less of him to support his family. I would be more ashamed if he wouldn't take the job. A real man is someone that will do anything to support his family and do what he has to do, you sound like this kind of guy. If the man is worried about losing his job in 1-3 years he should start looking for a new one, now.
2007-06-07 02:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't mind what kind of job a guy has or how much money he makes. What really matters is that he is a hard worker and will do his best to be all that he can be. As long as he doesn't settle for less than he is capable of. I understand the supporting your family situation, too. I would consider it. I don't think it is that big of a deal. Some girls, though, look for a guy w/ a good job so that the guy can support them when needed. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just keep working hard and you will find a girl who likes you for you.
2007-06-07 02:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think with a degree, you should have a more positive outlook, if you are in a place that doesn't have many jobs, then consider moving, before your time in your current job is up. No, there's no shame in marrying you. You know your circumstances, it's what you are willing to do about it. If you are a go getter then hey, it will all turn out right in the end. If you expect her to support you after your job ends, then yeah that could be a little rough.
2007-06-07 02:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a very personal question as some women would never date a man with out stability and others would not care. If you are hard working and do your best to provide for your family then I would say you are a good catch no matter what your job is or how much you make.
2007-06-07 02:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't say why he would lose his job in 1-3 years but any man who wants to work and will work any job (legal) to support himself and his family is a man of worth and you shouldn't be ashamed. Consider relocating if he has a degree.
2007-06-07 02:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would marry him. If I loved him and knew that he was willing to try, then that would be ok. Why throw a man or woman away for that matter, just because of their financial worth? Money helps make life easier, but being with the person you love makes even that a lot better.
2007-06-07 02:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could happen to anyone, couldn't it...we don't always see it coming like you do in your situation.
If someone marries under the assumption that their spouse will always have a certain monetary income and then that changes and they become unhappy because of it, then they were what is known as a gold digger.
I would feel disgust at anyone who held income too highly in the list of reasons to marry, but I realize some shallow people do it all the time.
What is important is that if our spouse does lose their employment, is that they continue to do their best. "a profession less of him just to support his family" is honorable and definitely trying to do their best.
2007-06-07 02:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter if you are working in your degree or if you are working a low income job? As long as you are there to support your family and are a hard worker somthing good will come of you eventually. I wouldn't question this what so ever. Hope that helps.
2007-06-07 02:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jill knows best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate..you need to find someone real to run this scenario with,
if you are honest, hard-working and all the rest of what you say - you're fine!
If you have personality issues, get them sorted before you go looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with.
Hard days work for a fair days pay is an ethic many a country
was built on.
2007-06-07 02:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care if he had a job or not as long as I loved him and he treated me right... Thats like saying if you didn't have a job he shouldn't be with you since it seems that you are really worried about that fact. But you must see this as -- We can all tell you that we'd marry him and that everything will be ok, but you are still going to have your own opinion and have an issue with it.. since you already do and he hasn't even lost his job and you are worried!! Good Luck to you!
2007-06-07 02:11:35 · answer #11 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋