Right my ex is pregnant by a bloke she has known for 5months. We split after 8years because I stupidly cheated but I had forgiven her for the same in the past. She moves out in her new place this weekend & has told him she doesnt want him living with her. She knows I still love her & has said she still loves me.But am I just being played as a fool, is my love for her making me to be used? x
2007-06-07 02:13:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when ur in love u could be weak with the one ur in love with and that's what love is all about....but my advice to u give this love and its weaknesses to someone who deserves it...leave her alone...lovesomeone with ur baby
2007-06-07 02:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you should take a look at how the relationship used to be was it good bad if most was good then yeah go back if it was bad then dont 1 thing i will say is you both cheated so if you went back there would be major trust issues you would need to work through i know you say you love her but can you cope with bringing up someone elses baby, if you can and you really want to take things slow see how they go just have fun with each other
xx
2007-06-07 10:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Linh N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being used....she will be in a highly emotional state...and will be feeling lonely and vunerable given she has a kid on the way...and despite this she feels that she can't live with its father [if indeed he is the father]....
Offer her a certain amount of support...as a friend....but do not go over the top as she will ask more and more of you and you will be dragged in.
And don't think of getting back with her...the kid issue is too serious and too damaging to ever consider that now...you had a long time together and it didn't work out...so move on if you haven't already...
Good luck.
2007-06-07 09:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Robbo31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a weakness, but you are not in love. Both you and the person that you claim to love cheated on each other. That is not love. Whatever you feel for each other, it is not worth pursuing.
You both need to find people that you truly respect because the two of you together are not good.
Take care,
Troy
2007-06-07 09:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may well love one another but trust has been betrayed it will take an awful lot of hard work to build it up again so for now just try and be friends if that is what you want and try to repair the trust if you can,. If you can not what is the point
2007-06-07 09:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Scouse 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer is YES, YES and YES. She got herself into this fine mess, and now she is just jumping from one lover to another. Don't you be stupid, if you really love each other you will be together, but she must have some time to think her actions through and do you really want to be responsible for some1 Else's kid if you doubt that she loves you or if she is just using you to get by and not be alone?
2007-06-07 09:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sonell 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You definitely need a new definition of the word "love". Here, use this one:
Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
2007-06-07 09:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is so sick I can't even answer it without wanting to puck.
Love isn't a weakness but a gift from God and when misuesd desurtion will take place.
2007-06-07 09:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want to know how a poseur with a name "Kaye" and a female profile picture ends up being a guy.
2007-06-07 09:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no Ur not being played she loves u but can't trust u
earn hes trust n may b thing will work out
love is a feeling a blanket we all want to cuddle with ......
just b there for her .. she know who she can count on ...
2007-06-07 09:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋