i just tell it how it is and am not afraid to call or text my guy and say straight out lets f**k or i wanna f**k you. but he acts like i may be a little to straight up about things. is this a turn off to some people?
2007-06-07 01:44:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. Why waste time?
2007-06-07 01:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this works for your guy then great However most people would find your language vulgar and behavior crude. There is nothing wrong with being truth full and voicing your op ion when asked but you can be a more taste full in the way you speak and still get your point across.
Hope this helps.
2007-06-07 08:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things you should be blunt with and some things you should just lead up to it. My hubby hates it when I say lets screw. But if I tell him, hey meet me in the room in a few and wink at him, he gets more excited about it. Some things are just a little bit more sexier when you beat around the bush about it. Leaves more to the imagination.
2007-06-07 08:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a huge difference between blunt and rude. What you have described is like saying to him come service me and if you don't perform I may go find someone who will.
What you do is very disrespectful to him and yourself.
Sex is great and fun but it is supposed to be an expression of love.
2007-06-07 08:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some people that may be too forward for them. As for me, I like that! I do not have to wonder what someone is thinking. Plus getting that in a text would definately get me to your house in a hurry!
2007-06-07 08:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mike G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if "some people" are offended by your vulgarity...what matters is what your guy thinks. If he doesn't like it, tone it down. There are other ways to express your feelings upfront without scaring people. Just tell him you are "hot for him"...that is less intimidating.
2007-06-07 08:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blunt is good but some people don't like it......... Are you 1 of those people?
2007-06-07 08:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by remi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Takes the guess work out of things.
2007-06-07 08:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by Atlanta29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a woman like that...
2007-06-07 08:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats cool, my chik says that stuff sometimes....I always tell her im gonna do her wrong.
2007-06-07 08:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by MCK_23_L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋