mine really gets me with her stupid remarks. she boils my blood whenever she shows up
2007-06-07 00:22:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stay away from what you dislike!
2007-06-07 00:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by FIXIT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is ignore her. Act like she doesn't exist. Blow by her when she is present, no eye contact, no words, no acknowledgment-- NOTHING. She is probably doing this to irritate you and get you riled up--IGNORE HER. In that, once she realizes that she is not getting the reaction from you that she is looking for, then she will probably approach you with the "what is the problem" thing--and then you can let her have it!!! Tell her that you are tired of her being a B I T C H and have no desire to have a relationship with her because of it. This way you are not stressing out, and you aren't giving her the satisfaction. Good Luck!!!
2007-06-07 07:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming from used to be treated that way by a relative.
Well I just ignore her and I tell myself that if I show how terrible she makes me feel then I lose. I also believe in karma so finally her bad karma came and she eat every single bad thing she said about me.
So stop thinking of how you can get back at her. Don't waste your time, energy and happiness on her cuz she doesn't deserve it.
Be happy your time will come and you'll shine like a star :)
take care
2007-06-07 07:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by chloe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that she is very biting in her remarks about you and what is her hidden agenda? As her remarks hurt and they do not endear her to yourself in any way so why does she persist? Have a good day.
2007-06-07 07:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the Academy award goes to....
Pretend that you think she is kidding all the time. Laugh your *** off at her! Let the tears of laughter run down your face!
That will really make her mad.
And if you can't laugh, develop a hearing problem. Ignore, ignore, ignore,remove yourself as her audience and don't take her seriously. That will blunt the arrows! It will really make her mad to think that she has no power to manipulate you!
(there is medication for this ....stupid bully!)
PS...you may have to keep this up for a long time because she isn't going to give up on a behaviour that has worked for her all her life!
2007-06-07 07:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Every family has one of those. I find the best way is just ignore and move on.
2007-06-07 07:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by chiara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, when you greet her, walk up and give her a hug and then say, "Did you take a bath today, you smell funny",,then make a weird face and walk away,,,,,,,
2007-06-07 07:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the room when she turns up.Stick earphones on, and get someone to call you when she's left.Never liked my aunties either.;o)
2007-06-07 07:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by CMH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She like to see you get mad, so she will do it even more.
Smile and just show you don't care.
2007-06-07 07:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mom of 2 great boys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aks her why she its makeing stupid remarks at you?
2007-06-07 07:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋