my other half has been staying down his parents because his grandad died last week all ive done is be nasty we have 3 children so ive got to stay at home so im unable to go the funeral but now ive got it in to my head what if one of his ex gf is there and they start getting cosy what if he doesnt come home because ive been so nasty he has got alot to deal with has he is carring the coffin all the other granchildren have gone with there partners and i havent what must they think of me i dont feel like family
2007-06-07 00:42:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Is there any chance that you might be able to at least get a babysitter so that you can go to the funeral?
If not, send a message. Flowers..fruit basket...something to the family home..Do phone your husband and apologize to him as well.
You know that your thinking is screwed up....but yes...I can see the frustration and anxiety!
2007-06-07 00:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have no idea why you and the children couldn't have attended. But thats your situation. Do something active every day with your kids and get this nonsense out of your head. If you are so insecure that you are upset when your husband attends a funeral then you need to consider counseling.
2007-06-07 08:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋