Y cnt we jus b 2gether?

Question

Theres a guy dat loves me & i luv him baq but ders 1 prob....were not allowed 2 b 2gether, shoot not even tlk on da phone. My family dsnt lyk him cuz hes 17(im 14) but hes a really nice guy & is basically my other half (evrytin im missin)....my mom tlkd 2 him on da phone 1 day & said she lyked him but hated him for wat "he did".....we made a big mistake & had sex....it was my decision cuz i really luv dis guy, i jus dnt understand y my family thinks they can take him away from me when they didnt do it wit him...i did :(

Answer 1

If he loves u back he should at least tries to see u everyday tap on ur window at night and stuff :)

Answer 2

You can't be together because you slept together. If you really loved this guy and wanted to be allowed to see him, you should have kept your pants on. No responsible parent would allow their daughter to see a boy after they had sex.

You're not in love with this boy. Its called infatuation. I know that sounds harsh, especially given that you have already slept with him. But you do need to understand that in a few years you will regret this stupid mistake. The only thing I can say is that time REALLY does heal, and that one day you'll look back and realize the difference between being young and naive, and being mature.

So sorry you've been through this.........

Answer 3

From the way you write - it's because your grades stink.

And if he's everything you're missing - i hope it's brains.

And a 14 - you're too young for a boyfriend - much less to be taking young men to bed.

Grow up. Concentrate on your studies and wise up a little.

Answer 4

Just move on PLEASE. Don't waste anymore of your life. I married the man I had dated since I was 14yrs old and he was also 17. He just told me he wanted a divorce because we just "grew apart". I don't think you should get married or date just one person through your highschool life because you will either end up like me with a child and alone, or you will always wonder what you missed. Trust me, don't jump off with the first person you "fall in love" with... you still don't know what you want and you have a lot of time ahead of you so don't rush it. Your family is just doing what they think is best for you and you should definately listen to them.

Answer 5

I'm sorry for you. But at your age, it's still your parents who makes the decision regarding your life. Especially they are to be blamed if something untowards happen to you. The best thing to do is bear it out. Try to make use of your youth. There are so many things that you can still do. The world does not consist only of this guy. There's school, there's housework (yes, housework...show your parents that you can contribute around the house.) Show them that you can be responsible not only of yourself but you can be a useful member of society. Only if you convince them that you are ready for the world that you can get wat you want without your parents interfering.

Answer 6

some women human beings exchange after marriage simply by fact they have captured their mate. The entice of having him is over considering she has him so for some unusual reason the floor between her legs produces some form of great glue that retains them jointly after marriage. the exciting seems to vanish and the guy would look for exciting if he cant chisel throughout the great glue.

Answer 7

He probably doesn't speak fluent retard like yourself.

You're 14 years old, don't be in such a rush to grow up, the real world sucks.

Answer 8

I totally agree with your parents and I hope they make you see sense.Sex will never change......10yrs from now it'll still be the same,so slow down hun!

Answer 9

that's cuz they care about u.. they don't want u to get pregnant or anything.. y did u tell your parents u had sex already!!?? r u crazy? or stupid?? that was a big mistake.. you're way too young 4 your parents to know u had sex!!!