Family & Relationships - 7 June 2007

Ok, I recently got some concert tickets and my female friend was supposed to be going. Well, she cancelled. Any way, I asked him if he would like to go in her place. I mean, I had excellent tickets.. practically front row. Well, after everything was over he acted as if he expected "something" in return. However, I totally played it off. I know that he is upset, bc he has not talked to each other in about a month. I don't understand why he would act like that. Not every female believes in having sex freely. What do you think his problem is?

2007-06-07 18:36:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man cheated on me, when we where dating for 2 month, with someone he had been seeing for about 2 years on and off.
He broke their relationship off, and when I wanted to leave asked what he could do to show how sorry he was. I replied that I was so hurt, and wanted him to feel the pain, so he cut himself in the palm of his hand, and bleedingly apologized, begging me to stay.

Later on I fell pregnant, and have been living together peacefully, but yesterday when I was speaking to the neighbored, he accused me of cheating on him. I can’t say the thought hasn’t entered my mind, but I’d never cheat on anybody, considering I know the pain it causes, and the trust it breaks.

Why is he doing this to me, and why won’t he stop?
Why doesn’t he belief me, of i have never broken his trust?
Why does he make me feel so cheap?
Why won’t he come near me any more?

I feel so guilty, even though I haven't done anything wrong. & I’m so agree, I wish I did. What’s going on? Is he cheat?

2007-06-07 18:34:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have my own hunch that it does somewhat, but would like to get others' thoughts for consideration also

2007-06-07 18:33:46 · 9 answers · asked by 4Down 1 in Friends

I'm just curious to see how many Americans guys would want multiple wives.

2007-06-07 18:33:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Had a bad date with him (1st). Was so turned off. Void of social skills & wasn't a gentleman. Maybe I was expecting too much. The details... had dinner together & from arriving to the restaurant & placing our order, it took 45m. Dinner & date over! Didn't ask me what I wanted from the menu, he practically inhaled his food, ordered his dessert while I was still eating my dinner & didn't ask what I wanted for dessert, ate his dessert. He's done! He gave me the cherry from his sundae dessert, that was nice I must say. He wants to take me to dinner on my birthday, I said I'll think about it. I know I should feel grateful for a generous gesture but the our first dinner together was a total turn off, except the cherry give away. I like the ice cream thing because I would assume there'll be very little or nil disappoinment social interaction from him. Short date, less agony for me.

2007-06-07 18:32:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how often do rich girls date guys that are more middle class?

2007-06-07 18:32:09 · 2 answers · asked by warrenG 1 in Singles & Dating

i dunno have any sympathy for her.so please dunno say things like talk to her or so....
please give me ideas to give her a taste of her own medicine....

2007-06-07 18:31:19 · 20 answers · asked by rahul s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I'm really getting confused about the upcoming divorce of mine. Note: My soon to be ex and I have a 3 year old daughter. Everyone says we should work together for her and eventually develop a friendship for her best interest... my confusion stems from the fact that if we could work together and be friends wouldn't we still be married? (In our case - he just blew up and tried to attack me then has constantly threatened me with our daughter since I left.)

I'm trying really hard to help - call every night so she can talk to him, meet him for dinner several times a week just so she can see him, meanwhile I'm gritting my teeth at the situation.. I truly love my daughter and want what is best for her - but don't understand why everyone expects us to be friends... I filed for divorce for a reason.

FYI - I never intended to have a child with him - once I was pregnant with my angel I tried to deal with him...

How can I be friends with someone who treats me like he does?

2007-06-07 18:29:16 · 12 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Marriage & Divorce

We both work, my mother (widow) is in illhealth (75) we have two kids 9 f and 3m. We have a full time nurse for my mother, my in laws ( their only son (Army) was killed by Muslim separatists) too stay with us they are a boon as they look after the kids.
I just cant find time with my wife. It makes me emotionally unsatisfied. Although I don't show it. i guess my wife too is not able to cope up with it. But there is no quality time with my partner

2007-06-07 18:29:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I will not be including our parent's names on our invitations but do want to include our daughter's name.
Danielle
and
Edward
together with their daughter
Darcia
invite you to share with them
a celebration of love...
How does that sound?

2007-06-07 18:28:47 · 14 answers · asked by Pinky 2 in Weddings

If a jerk buys you chocolates to win back your good favor and make you forgive him, and you don't...do you still get to eat the chocolates?

They're Godiva.

2007-06-07 18:27:21 · 27 answers · asked by Kat Hopkins 3 in Singles & Dating

i know this is random but im just curious!!! which gender is hard to understand when it comes dealing with love. think about it!!!!

2007-06-07 18:25:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long story short: High school sucks. I hate being a junior....
Ok here's my story on a list about a guy I know:

1.) We both have each others number
2.) I gave my number 2 him on paper
3.) I Think he likes me too. It's completely obvious even my friends notice it. (You know what i mean...)

4.) All my girlfriends said I should call him first. (Hes really quiet all the time, he never really talks that much in class.)

~~~
I called once but then chickened out during the ringing so I hung up. I called again the other day and no one picked up. It's been two days since I did that, you think he would of checked his phone. So....my question is, do I give up or call again? Or do I give the benefit of the doubt? He's not outgoing, super shy, you know. I don't know what to think anymore. Help a poor junior teenage girl out. Was it always this difficult when you were in highschool? (Also, wouldn't his cell say "missed call"?)

2007-06-07 18:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been married for 5yrs together 9, we have 3 kids, a sucessful business,a dream home together and i love him. But i'm so hurt by this all i do is cry dont go anywhere dont want to be around no one.And to make the situation even harder is the woman lied to me when i heard about it also she knew he was married and he told her he didnt want her to have the child because he didnt want her he couldnt have a child outside his home that he couldnt be a father to but she insisted that she was doing it to break up his marriage she wanted tobe with him and she knew if she did what she was doing i would leave my husband and she would be happy she won. What should i do? Our marriage has not been the same since and now that we know for sure the child is his im torn apart my mind wonders daily i cant get this out of my head no matter what i try to do this is dragging me ruining my life.It's 1thing to know your husband had another child on you but for the woman to think she can get away with r

2007-06-07 18:23:12 · 18 answers · asked by Spice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I knew this girl back in high school, and we were kinda flirty with each other, but I never had the courage to ask her out back then.
Yesterday, I just got a friend request from her, and I need some advice on what to say to try to start something with her romantically

2007-06-07 18:22:16 · 13 answers · asked by willster 2 in Singles & Dating

not asking for dates not wanting to get hit on...

i'm just a girl,
sweet (mandy moore like) mixed with an other side thats wierd (angelina jolie)
I'm strong, i don't let people walk over me
I have an dark humor and i am just goof
I just know i need respect and freedom to do my own thing.I lI have liked people like me but they don't like me they just want to be friends.
what type should i look for
some one like me or some one more clam

2007-06-07 18:21:41 · 4 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 18:19:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is my ex-girlfriend, and now we are close, platonic friends. (Yes, that is possible.) She just told me that she has been seeing a married man for 3 months, and his wife just found out. Married man is divorcing his wife, but she is fighting it. My friend did this once before, while she was still married to her first husband. When both relationships fell apart she became suicidal. I hate to see her make the same mistake twice, but she is an adult and her decisions belong to her. Is there anything else I can do besides wish her luck and tell her that if she ever needs me I will be there for her?

2007-06-07 18:18:13 · 12 answers · asked by idahoturkey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend are back together after a hard breakup for both of us a year ago. Trust is definently a big issue towards him, for he cannot be trusted easily. We have been together for two years besides this break up and love each other no doubt. How can i learn to trust him again? It seems as though we fight so much now over nothing important at all, i really want the arguign to stop its tearing us apart and ruining things. Neither one of us wants to throw this all again, how can we rebuild this relationship.

Please dont say counceling thats not an option.

2007-06-07 18:17:25 · 22 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Singles & Dating

have no self-respect? Why chase after guys who obviously aren't interested, or settle for guys you don't really want? Are you so terrified of being alone? How do you expect to have a good relationship someday, if you are immature, clingy and insecure?

2007-06-07 18:16:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 18:14:49 · 15 answers · asked by naan 2 in Singles & Dating

just wondering

2007-06-07 18:13:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I absolutely hate children - can't stand being around them.
A woman said that I was a hypocrite because I was a child once too.

But am I really?

2007-06-07 18:11:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

On this site I hear people saying how easy it is, normal looking girls just have to go up to a guy and say hi and he'll be going after them blah blah is it true? I haven't noticed it but so many guys here say it, would they be like that/

2007-06-07 18:09:02 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2 in Singles & Dating

have sex? After how long dating/knowing the person would be normal? Aged 19?

2007-06-07 18:08:04 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2 in Singles & Dating

It would be at an old abandonded house with drinks and lots of a crazyness going on. Any tips of how to not get caught?

2007-06-07 18:07:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She wants to remain friends etc and who knows perhaps get togther again but it hurts me too much seeing her and not holdin g her SHES MY WIFE and i love her so much,so if i just thumbed a lift anywhere then any surgestions,i cant do this,it hurts too much please help.

2007-06-07 18:06:05 · 7 answers · asked by steve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

aghh...my boyfriend's birthday is very soon and i have no idea what to get him!...
1.he already has everything
2.anything that he decides he wants he buys
i know that we're going to do something, probably be dorky and go ice skating (but hey, those things are still fun right?) i just dont know what gift to give him. it doesnt have to be anything super elaborate just a cute thoughtfull gift...and im all out...i have NO IDEA!...lplease help!

2007-06-07 18:05:14 · 17 answers · asked by madaboutyou55 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you do n think, if he made you feel like he was discussed by you? and when you told him you were hurt by him words if he ignored you and responded by saying "so" or "truth hurts. " I've left him alone and haven't talked to each other for 5 days now? how long do I wait

2007-06-07 18:02:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My nephew who's 6-years-old just asked me what were the "stuff" hanging from the dog. I dont know how to answer him, I cant just tell him its the dog's balls because it would be innappropriate. So what should I tell him?

2007-06-07 18:01:56 · 36 answers · asked by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 in Family