have sex? After how long dating/knowing the person would be normal? Aged 19?
2007-06-07 18:08:04 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how you feel about the person. Only you will know when the time is right. Just trust your conscious. Don't have sex until you feel right about it. Otherwise, you will hate your self for allowing yourself to rush into it.
By the way, I don't care what they say or do, do not have sex without protection!!! You don't know where that horny dog has been before you. Carry some yourself if need be. You can get condoms at your local health department if you can't afford to buy them.
2007-06-07 18:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think "normal" is never really real. Each person and each couple is different. Most people say 3 months. But most people who actually are truthful tend to have very varying answers. I know couples that have been going on for years and they had sex within the first month. I also know married people who waited two years until they got married to have sex. I think it varies with each person. If you feel comfortable having sex with your partner and they are ready, then do it. Be safe, of course. But remember that sex is an intimate thing where you are very vulnerable. Make sure you feel comfortable being in such a vulnerable and weak state with that person. I'm not say be in love, just know the ramafications of your actions. And don't feel odd if you want to wait or if you want to dive in. The truth is, as long as you are fully ready (know you're not going to regret it down the line), any time is the right time. Have fun! Practice safe lunch; Use Condiments! ;)
2007-06-08 01:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by PetRescuer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you know that there might be a future with that person and you plan on staying with them and have no plans of breaking up or thinking about anyone else, and they feel the same way. It doesn't have to be the guy you know for sure you're going to marry, however it should always be someone special so when you look back on it you don't feel like **** and you know what you did was important.
2007-06-08 01:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Blythe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter the age. as adults we have that say in what we do with ourselves. Just dont do it for any reason. give a bit of time and follow your feelings.
2007-06-08 01:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no time table for this, it is when both you and your partner feel comfortable doing so. Just wait, take your time and don't rush it.
If you do, believe me, you can set off a whole lot of other questions and doubts.
2007-06-08 01:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by hairy silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever u feel ready, dont do it if ur not comfortable or not ready, everyone always siys wait for the one, so do it that way and make sure its perfect in ur mind because the first time together you'll always remember
2007-06-08 01:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by brandyn n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it on the first night. I don't plan on wasting to much time waiting for what I want.
2007-06-08 01:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by EWSA_Tricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you both commit to each other==marriage
2007-06-08 01:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by crazysk8tr15 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when things feel right between you to
2007-06-08 01:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you say "I do"
2007-06-08 01:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sherbs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋