i dunno have any sympathy for her.so please dunno say things like talk to her or so....
please give me ideas to give her a taste of her own medicine....
2007-06-07 18:31:19 · 20 answers · asked by rahul s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How about a lesson on how to type English instead?
Two wrongs don't make a right. Don't do anything stupid to 'get back at her'. You want to get back at her? DIVORCE HER.
Grow up. You're a married man.. You should be a lot more mature that you seem to be.
2007-06-07 18:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know about 10 years ago I was married to a woman for 13 years that cheated and I was like you she was my life and I wanted to be with her she also apologized several times said she would never do nothing like that again so I give her another chance only to find out 8 years later that she is doing it again so the saying once a cheater always a cheater is very very true and believe me you think it hurts now the second time is much worries because then it your fault for wasting your life on a piece of trash and after you've had time to think about you'll know that's what she is sorry but that's the cold hard truth
2016-04-01 09:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't know that you know, and you still love her & aren't sure of a divorce...arrange a romantic night for the two of you, give her the best sex she will EVER have, and get her pregnant. She will be in complete and total hormonal agony sweating it, not knowing who the father is...she may do the honest thing and fess up...and beg for forgiveness. Since you will know the child is yours, be the hero and tell her to keep it and you will raise it as your own. You will have her by the short and curlies for the rest of her life, and she will worship you for sticking by her. (Your BJ points will be off the chart!) Too easy to leave...FAR better revenge making her pay again and again plus you will get some happiness out of it. Like Belle Watling said in ,"Gone With the Wind", "The child's worth ten of the mother."
2007-06-07 18:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by MElissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A taste of her own medicine? Why? A marriage built on hatred and getting back at each other would never be a marriage.
End it, that for sure would get back at her, or seek counsiling together to find out why she cheated.
Don't get me wrong, it is not your fault she cheated on you. You didn't make her do the things she did with someone else and that could never be her excuse, no matter how bad you were. Unless of course you beat her, that is not acceptable.
have you confronted her about your discovery?
Good luck.
2007-06-07 18:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very angry & hurted right now... but I don't recommend sleeping with other women to get even because that would just be plain UNCLASSY.
If you want to teach her a lesson she will never forget, divorce her right away. The BEST REVENGE is LIVING A BETTER LIFE THAN SHE IS.
Divorce her in a gentle & calm manner (so she will regret losing such a gentleman). Move on with life. And get a much better woman than she is (one that you truly love and will be happy with, not just for rebound). She will see that you're living better than her and she will regret for the rest of her life.
2007-06-07 18:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Coquette 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same scene before and i know how it feels, infact thats what usually comes to mind first (revenge). But then when you think of it, you realize its not worth the time and energy. The best thing to do now is to leave immediately before such thoughts overpower you.
2007-06-07 22:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to let her go. Playing games and plotting revenge will only hurt you in the long run. If you don't think she wants you anymore..I say Call A Lawyer.
2007-06-07 18:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by mopjky 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking like that then you should save yourself the time and trouble and just get a divorce.
Revenge only deepens the hole.
Then there will be no trust from either one of you.
You will probably fight all the time.
What you once loved about one another will soon diminish.
:-(
2007-06-07 18:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
divorce her, but before you do that go down to your local bank, grab a trusted friend, make receipts saying you sold all your personal items to him (therefore she cant take them in the divorce, since you dont own them anymore) leave her ***, and "buy" back your things from your good friend.
if you dont want to divorce her, then take the passive aggressive approach like i do, go out and screw around with as many women as possible, damage her personal items, in a way that way just make her think "how the hell?"
hire a private investigator to track her, and make sure shes cheating, IE: get surveillance footage, photos, etc etc.
i can go on for hours. lol
2007-06-07 18:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by iamking 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i know that you are angry for what has happen but trust me
two wrong dont make it right. the best lesson is to move
on and let her know that you can do much better with out
her trust me. , what go around will come back around. and
no luck will come to her,but life will be so much better for
you when you allow the angry and hurt to go away. dont
lose your sprit for her or any one else.
2007-06-07 18:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋