Family & Relationships - 7 June 2007

i like this girl and she liked me. but today i turned her down because i was scared that i wouldnt be a good boyfriend to her.(although i didnt tell her that)

Now im mad cause i really do like her and i want to tell her but she said she wont giv me another chance.

2007-06-07 14:03:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 13:55:13 · 9 answers · asked by <3/nicole. 1 in Singles & Dating

... emailed me several times, and now yesterday we had what I thought was a good IM convo for about 3 hrs. I wanted to go in and 'review' the emails he had sent me on the site (before i gave him my personal email) and noticed that he had gone on to that site today, too. Made we wonder if he was still 'playing the field' and looking at responses from women or searching for them. It's too soon to be concerned about that, right? I haven't even met him yet...

2007-06-07 13:54:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets say your moving to the another country or state soon and your good friend comes up to you and say"can you do me a favor?" and you asked them what it is and they say"can you not leave?" do you think this is cute and orginal?

2007-06-07 13:54:07 · 10 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Friends

My parents have helped with everything. His parents are not as financially stable as mine. We are both college students.

2007-06-07 13:53:44 · 30 answers · asked by babygyrl1106 1 in Weddings

ok, so iv'e been going out with this guy on simple dates for a few weeks. these dates were all about prom stuff, since he was my prom date. at the end of everydate, we just hugged; he didn't seem like he was going to kiss. At prom, he wasn't "touchy", and when we danced, he wouldnt look right at me-he only talked into my ear. so come to the end of prom, i get up near him so our shoulders are leaning against eachothers, yet he doesnt really make any move other than talking to me. yeah, so at the end i gave him a kiss on the cheek. he seems really shy and intimidated by me, but when i ask others about him they just say that he's nice. so is he shy or just not interested in me..he only needed a prom date?

2007-06-07 13:52:22 · 1 answers · asked by becca 3 in Singles & Dating

are you out of school? If so, when did you get out?

2007-06-07 13:51:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was dating my boyfriend for 2 years in an open relationship. Now we are committed. Then I dated other men. Now he can't stop harping on it. He is very upset by what I have done. I never had sex, but I did fool around. What can I do to move our relationship forward? Can I do anything?

2007-06-07 13:51:31 · 10 answers · asked by Behappy 1 in Singles & Dating

YAHOO deleted a question of mine because I mentioned interracial relationships. I didn't realize they found it so offensive. I'm thinking of suing, what do you think?

2007-06-07 13:51:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

O.K well this this like huge promblem that i have w/ a guy and long story short hes just been like a total jerk lately but 4 some reason i like still like him we liked eachother 4 like 2 years and i find it like realy hard 2 move on, and i've had boyfriends scine then but its just like not the same and im like really stuck on what to do?!?!?

2007-06-07 13:49:20 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Feeling unhappy, been crying all the time in the loo for the past few months, all my bf does is nothing.
Feeling neglected, feel taken for granted. Been doing his stupid laundry, all he does is pamper his stupid car and tells me "without the car, how do you think you can get to work?" yeah right, i take the bus and i walk 2-3 km per day.
Yesterday, left me waiting for him when he said he'd pick me bcos he wanted to go out with his friends, yet he left me there waiting, with the excuse that his phone got jammed. Yeah right, i suppose his other cell got jammed too. In the end i took another bus back.
Go ahead, knock some sense into my thick skull and bloody idiotic loyal heart, perhaps i'll wake up and smell the roses.

2007-06-07 13:48:53 · 8 answers · asked by Raven Hood® 4 in Singles & Dating

I chat to this guy (that I obviously know) through im. I think he likes me because he asked me to dance once and he told a friend of mine that he thinks I'm "cute". He was also saying stuff that suggested to it. Well, at the end of our chat, he usually says "luv ya" or something like that when I am about to leave (like sign off). I don't know if he is just playing or if he wants me to get a clue that I should make a move or what. Also, what should I answer to that?? I don't want to say ily back to him because that might just seem like I really love or like him too and I want to hook up or something.
But I just want to stay friends so I don't want him to get the idea of hooking up.
How should I reply to his "ily" through im.

2007-06-07 13:46:42 · 5 answers · asked by Diamond 3 in Singles & Dating

im 14 and iv NEVER had a boyfriend! my friends say its because of who i am. i try to fit in, and not completly change me. what do i do!? my friend is close to her 4th bf and im mad cuz i nver had 1! all the boyz judge me for who i was last year and not for who i am this year. girls i need advice! plz help me!

2007-06-07 13:45:20 · 15 answers · asked by cutegirl67 3 in Singles & Dating

i recently went to a wedding in Jamaica. It was for a long time best friend and few friends and family attended. However there is a reception in our hometown. I was the best man in the wedding and am wondering whether or not to get a big gift or just a card and some money. I have already spent alot of money going to the wedding, but I will feel bad if I don't give them something?

2007-06-07 13:43:09 · 9 answers · asked by johnboy 1 in Weddings

i have two kids ages 2 and 4 they have lived with me since birth. their father was suppose to pay childcare for the kids but he stopped paying in march so i filed for child support. at the child support meeting he decides he wants custody of the kids. he does not call and check on the kids let alone come see them how does he feel he can gets custody of them. he was keeping the kids for me every other weekend while i worked but he stopped doing that , the kids have never, ever spent the night with him. can you see a judge giving him custody or even joint custody?? should i get a lawyer, i dont think he is getting one but not sure. thanks in advance.

2007-06-07 13:42:54 · 9 answers · asked by I love dooneys 6 in Family

2007-06-07 13:42:37 · 14 answers · asked by dyu_an18 1 in Weddings

we were unofficially going out (i didnt want him to ask me incase things some how got awkward...) from febuary to mid april...but alot of my close friends said i diserved better, and that he wasnt that good looking, and that he would cheat on me(he kissed another girl in truth or dare when he was dating some one else...theyd been going out for a day.). but the problem was he was soooo sweet to me and i reallly liked him, but other people just WOULD NOT SHUT UP!! and so i sortof dumped him. but i hung out w/ him yesterday for the first time sece the "breakup" happend. and i still really like him and i know he used to still like me but i dont know if he really does...and even if he does, wether or not he'll take me back...what do you think??

2007-06-07 13:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 in Singles & Dating

Or is it just the vast and overwhelming majority that make it appear that way?

2007-06-07 13:41:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how much $ can a familie get for every babi you have? My girlfreind has 2 kids already but i was wondering if i married her and had some more we could move in to a bigger place. our rent is about 250 everymonth. how much money can you get and for how long with new babis? she's pregnant now and we ar planing on haveing too more soon. would it be enogh money to rent a bigger place and maybe a newer car ( i want one of those mustages like everyone else in our neighborhood) for us? Thanks! I didn't want to call the govermnet center to ask them becasue they might be mad at me or stop giving us the money. is their a way to get as much as you can?

2007-06-07 13:40:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

were beautiful athletic woman. it doesnt mention anything about me his wife or our son. all this after he said how stupid i was for having a page. my argument was that my whole page is about our family and supporting the troops. now i finally talked to him and he swears that he didn do it and someone else (he thinks one of his army buddies did it) did. its all kinda fishy. should i believe him? i am hurt and pissed all at once. i have thought about pretending to be someone else but i am nervous he;ll find out and it will make things worse. any ideas or advice?

2007-06-07 13:39:28 · 36 answers · asked by Me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If a man and a woman are in a happy marriage for 'x' number of years, they have kids, and one fine morning one of them discloses that he/she had physical/emotional relationships with somebody before he/she got married, how should the other person react? It is understood that it would not be cheating as he/she was single at that time, and also what happened before the marriage is not at all of any concern to the other person, but I am not sure what would be the best and optimal reaction, keeping in mind that both of them want to stay married. Neither one of them is trying to leave the other, it is just a piece of information that one of them wants to share with other.

2007-06-07 13:38:39 · 3 answers · asked by oneandonly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 21 yr old sister has been living with my husband and I, and our 3 children since Jan. (this is her 2nd stint livin with us) We told her prior to allowing her to move in she had to help out. She has a job and her only bill is $101.00 car insur, $40. cell phone and $25. gym membership a month. She doen not pay us a dime, buy anything for the house, or lift a finger. We are getting fed up! How do I approach her to get her to start contributing something like $50. a week or helping with chores.....anything? She should be contributing right? She is a waitress/bartender at a popular steakhouse.

2007-06-07 13:38:05 · 10 answers · asked by melissa p 1 in Family

Because you couldn't afford a gift, didn't have something to wear or just couldn't afford to buy a dress/suit?

Or have you been asked to too many weddings at the same time, and did you go to them all, or just a select few?

Your thoughts.

2007-06-07 13:37:14 · 12 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Weddings

Please dont lecture on the married part. I think he is interested but do not know for sure.

2007-06-07 13:37:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There are two girls in my life the one I am dating right now that I have been really good friends with or do I choose the girl that I previously dated for 3 years? Noah is the girl I am dating now and I love her and would never want to hurt her but then there is Emilie the girl that I also love and dated for three years and is extremely desperate to get back with me.

Please Help me...

2007-06-07 13:37:02 · 6 answers · asked by jon 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are planning to be married in December. It's his third marriage, my second; he's 40, I'm 39. We both feel it's in poor taste to register somewhere for gifts. We don't really need anything. Is it proper to state on the invitations "your presence is your gift" or something to that effect? We are only having a private ceremony with a celebratory reception the following day for well-wishers to attend if they like.

2007-06-07 13:35:48 · 20 answers · asked by gincon63929 2 in Weddings

Long standing animosity, bitterness, resentment, weeping , wailing , and gnashing of teeth. Should I give up ? Is there ANY HOPE to bring people and families back together that would sooner dance with the puny devil and go to hell before they forgive and forget ? Do you know of families like that ?

2007-06-07 13:34:55 · 9 answers · asked by dave777 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've heard that 92% of guys like it when the girl makes the first move.is that true?if so what should i do?

2007-06-07 13:34:25 · 12 answers · asked by Samuel 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do most women go after the kinda guy who is either
A.) A total Jerk
B.) Lives at home with his parents (we're talking over 18)
C.) Has the worst body odor ever
D.) Is a total lush
E.) has no license, no job, and no car

What Gives? I have personally seen each of these happen and find it very odd.

2007-06-07 13:31:39 · 30 answers · asked by weezer.rammstein 1 in Singles & Dating

We decided to drop all the stress of trying to have a big wedding and going to Las Vegas next week. Any recommendations? I just want this to be amazing experience for both of us and have great pictures and a CD of our wedding. My family will celebrate with us when we return.

2007-06-07 13:31:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings