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... emailed me several times, and now yesterday we had what I thought was a good IM convo for about 3 hrs. I wanted to go in and 'review' the emails he had sent me on the site (before i gave him my personal email) and noticed that he had gone on to that site today, too. Made we wonder if he was still 'playing the field' and looking at responses from women or searching for them. It's too soon to be concerned about that, right? I haven't even met him yet...

2007-06-07 13:54:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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People are just people. Dating site or not, if they are genuine they would be genuine everywhere. There are some people who are always on the look out for better things even when they do not know what they want in life! Its easier to put on a front when one is hiding behind that computer. Just listen to your instinct, if that voice inside you rings an alarm bell LISTEN to it with both your ears :)

2007-06-09 01:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 3 · 0 0

90 percent of people who date over the Internet are not serious. Know that the same way he met you, he could meet other lonely girls. My advice is to stay away from Internet dating and go out and have some fun. The best way to meet someone is to meet them in person. The eyes never lie.

2007-06-07 14:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by RealTruth 3 · 1 0

He's probably still paying the feild but that doesn't mean he doesn't like you. I mean hey you both signed up for an internet dating site which is like interviewing someone for a job. Think about it a boss interview lots of people before they pick the one that is the best. Once they find the one hopefully they stop looking. I wouldn't worry though maybe he was checking up on you too.

2007-06-07 14:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by anglzndskyz2 2 · 0 1

it's too soon. i imagine the other guy thinks the same thing about you. i mean come on, on an internet dating site, i'm willing to bet the females have more of an option with guys. nothing set between you 2 yet. he's playing it casual and so should you. if you guys go on a couple of dates and you find he's still doin it, then you should be concerned.

2007-06-07 14:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by this g 2 · 1 1

If I were that guy I'd run far far away from you. Give me a f%&king break already. You haven't even gone on a date yet and you think he is cheating. Women are f**kup. He has every right to keep looking. You are probably not the only one he's been talking to. You need your head examined...

2007-06-07 14:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

For crying out loud, it's DATING site! A few emails and a "good IM convo" doesn't committ you to just one person. Calm down before you scare him away!

2007-06-07 13:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by half_cowgirl_half_angel 4 · 1 1

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2016-11-27 00:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by whetstone 4 · 0 0

Chill out! You may have had a good conversation, but you're in no way an exclusive item... yet.

Keep talking to him and let things happen as they will. Who knows, maybe he had logged on to read -your- messages to him?

2007-06-07 13:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Frenzy 3 · 1 0

he may be --- are you still looking for someone?? --- at this point all you have are some emails and a conversation --- unless its love at first sight (and it does happen even on IM) you are both still getting to know each other ---- dont worry too much at this point

2007-06-07 14:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0 1

it is not safe to talk to anyone on the internet. especially to give them any personal information. you never know what they are lying about and what they are planning to do. i definitely would not give him or anyone else my email address. i hope you take my advice it could save you from lots of harm in the future.

2007-06-07 13:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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