O.K well this this like huge promblem that i have w/ a guy and long story short hes just been like a total jerk lately but 4 some reason i like still like him we liked eachother 4 like 2 years and i find it like realy hard 2 move on, and i've had boyfriends scine then but its just like not the same and im like really stuck on what to do?!?!?
2007-06-07 13:49:20 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, you need to mentally seal that chapter so you can move on. Remind yourself of the bad things he done when you think of him and you should find that he will become easy to forget.
2007-06-07 13:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the best advice I EVER got about men was given to me by an old Cuban man when I lived in Miami at the age of 18. What he said was SO true then and it still is today. It is human nature! He said this: "Always remember that a man is a hunter and the game that is hardest to catch is always the one that is most prized!"
Never sell yourself short and never settle. There is also another passage that I love in the Bible and it says: "Don't cast (throw) your pearls (yourself) before swine (pigs)." It's not that the swine are evil or anything, they just don't appreciate how precious pearls are! I hope that helps. It's not easy but it is pretty simple. Be the strong woman you can be and someone who deserves you will come along and you'll be happy you held your ground.
2007-06-07 14:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Smurfster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation. You think it's better and easier just to stay in the situation, but it's going to hurt you more in the end if you stay with it. You don't deserve to be treated like that. You may have liked each other for a long time, but liking should be about a lot of things--including respect. If he's been acting like a jerk to you, he does not respect you. It WILL be hard to move on, but you can do it. It takes time. You'll find someone soon enough that will treat you right and you will be truly happy.
2007-06-07 13:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u continue to allow him to jerk u around,or go the all foolish things that make him a jerk. that's a question u need to ask ur self. U Don't need a jerk in ur life thats going to continue to be a jerk. If need to let it go. If he's going to change then he'll come back correct. If ur still avaliable.
2007-06-07 13:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by jazzy2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a jerk to you it's because he moved on so you need to do the same...sorry but there is not much you can do.
2007-06-07 13:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worring about boys and go to an english class.
2007-06-07 13:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by ~♥~lover~♥~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U SHOULD LIKE GET OVER IT AND LIKE MOVE ON
2007-06-07 14:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with your life
2007-06-07 13:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by queencoleman32 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋