Family & Relationships - 7 June 2007

Is it better to tell someone you have cheated on them or is it better to not tell them. This is if you did it once during a bad fight and feel bad about it and would never do it again.

2007-06-07 12:18:27 · 31 answers · asked by *Rumer*Severin* 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this boy at school was like my best friend. We always hung out together and I knew at times he would act like he liked me but when I asked him he'll be like no I don't like you. But now me and him go together. And I know this sounds a lil promiscuous but, how do I tell him I wanna have sex with him without just straight out saying it?

2007-06-07 12:18:27 · 8 answers · asked by $Baby Gurl$ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been celibate for two and half years now. i am (false modesty aside!) considered to be very attractive and alot of people think I am "wasting" my looks or that I am gay and in denial. (which I am not!) how can I make people see this is who I am?

2007-06-07 12:17:07 · 5 answers · asked by Antonio 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 12:16:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would It Be Less Weird If They Was Your Boyfriend??

2007-06-07 12:15:15 · 30 answers · asked by Pebbles 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 12:14:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When ever I break my budget and use credit cards without consulting my husband he goes ballistic and now is threatening to spank me like a child if I don't obey.

He is in charge of the money and I do screw up his system when I don't tell him I spent more than my allowance. I forget or sometimes just don't want to hear him nag me so I keep it from him until the credit card bill comes and I have to face the music. This time I charged over $1200.00 and he said next time I would be spanked since I am acting like a spoiled brat!

2007-06-07 12:10:55 · 50 answers · asked by TERI Sexton 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont want to be the bad guy. my daughters 7 her father has never helped me financially. He has a new baby with another girl and never goes out of his way for our daughter. We try to be friends and it always ends up in a fight. Hes always telling me Hes nt paying for me to do things with his money! Thats not what I want he dosent realize everything I pay on my own for his child. He says he wont talk to me if I file.. Is it worth it.. Or show I just say screw it and file and get the help I deserve. After all I didnt make her by myself...

2007-06-07 12:09:31 · 40 answers · asked by Rootie tootie 1 in Weddings

my boyfriend doesnt really know how to please me, i was wondering if there was another one that we could use?

2007-06-07 12:06:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 12:05:32 · 20 answers · asked by alwayshappy921980 1 in Weddings

My b/f and i have been dating for awhile and he dropped the love bomb when he was on his way of drunkness. he said he was scared to tell me how he felt cuz he thought that i would push back off of him. Since then hes only says it when we are parting, in texts and after we do the deed. im a lil cunfused. i just cant tell if he means it or if its cuz he feels like he has to now cuz he said it once before. If anyone can help me out with this, it would be great. thank you

2007-06-07 12:02:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and my future husband are atheist.. so we are just having like a theme wedding party after the civil court wedding but i want a cool theme... any ideas for something fun???

2007-06-07 12:00:48 · 15 answers · asked by cupids_victim11 2 in Weddings

I get my feelings hurt even though I know I did something wrong. I'll dwell on it for a week. Silly, huh?!

2007-06-07 11:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by Buff 6 in Friends

I am married with 3 kids a gorgeous women I am, but my husband does not seem to notice all he does is work,sleep play that horrible xbox360 and Rap yes I said rap with his friends while I am bored out of my mind , I work too and take care of 3 kids all day all i want is some quality time ,some romance and attention I ran into one of my old friends from highschool and he makes me feel wanted again ,I mean I dont hardly get any at home so I figure why not get some while I am still young .what would you do?

2007-06-07 11:59:01 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you do, i need to know
why do guys think two girls making out is hot, i just dont understaand???

2007-06-07 11:56:43 · 3 answers · asked by pinkh2oboarder 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and I'm going through the stage were peer pressure gets to me and people my age, and everybody seems to have to fit into some little group, and have a silly label attached to themselves. The thing is, I don't want a label, but I can't seem to choose a personal style because when I meet people, they are always a specific label, and I'm always worried if they are judging me because I don't look like them, because I dress a different way. I hate the pressures of image are so strong in todays society. I also have no confidence around the opposite sex, with girls I get on great because I seem to have a bubbly fun personality, but I get all shy around guys and constantly think they are judging me about how I look. I've never been comfortable with the way I look. Guys always go for my friends anyway. No one has ever fancied me really or asked me out. Facially, I'm not that bad, I don't seem to have a horrid appearance, I try to maintain myself. What's up with me! Help please!

2007-06-07 11:56:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think it's pretty safe to say that I just don't do it for her, she's just not that into me. Either I just plain suck in bed or she's got somebody else on the side and just doesn't care anymore, either way, something is VERY wrong. Suppose there is an issue with affection and intimacy and has been for a long time. Things change briefly but always revert back to the way it always is. Is this normal or is my marriage over?? At night she rejects me...freezes when I touch her and never initiates anythign with me. I literally end up lying there crying it hurts so bad..yet she goes to sleep as if she doesn't care. Then in the morning she gets up, leaves me in bed, alone...and goes to the shower and gets herself off with the shower nozzle...like three or four times a week..... So is it safe to say that she's either got somebody else she's fantasizing about, or having sex with, or is she just not attracted to me anymore.... is my marriage pretty much over, am I a complete fool? Help me.

2007-06-07 11:55:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

who has a large "instrument".

2007-06-07 11:51:38 · 11 answers · asked by zOe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

On saturday night i met a woman ten years older than me . I'm 26 and of course she is 36 . We got quite close in just a few hours and exchanged numbers . All her friends have told me how she is totally besotted with me and keeps talking about how hot i am ! The problem is my family don't like it and have told me it will never work and i'm kidding myself if she will really go out with me . We were supposed to go out over the weekend but now i feel so confused because my family have made me feel so worthless.

2007-06-07 11:49:53 · 37 answers · asked by Chris G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 11:49:42 · 17 answers · asked by Nina 1 in Weddings

He's tall and big..
needs to be funny

2007-06-07 11:47:35 · 33 answers · asked by sydkid93 2 in Singles & Dating

I've seen a couple of responses to the old adage "Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?". Now I think it's time for an informal poll. Did you or someone you know have a sexual relationship with another person and then get married afterwards? How did the marriage fare?

I have my own thoughts on this matter, but all responses are welcome. Just keep in mind that I want to hear stories about people's experiences, not diatribes about why the adage is right or wrong.

2007-06-07 11:45:21 · 6 answers · asked by Demon 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-07 11:45:04 · 14 answers · asked by smoothlyrics81 1 in Singles & Dating

the guys that treat them like crap over the ones that treat them like princesses?

2007-06-07 11:45:00 · 35 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 22, just graduated college, and I enjoy being in a solid relationship with a woman. I was engaged previously, but that didn't work out. So, since then - I've been back to the world of dating for the past year. I don't like that it has so much instability.

My problem is that I either have nobody or everybody at once. Right now, I've got tons of people that want to date me - but I have no idea how to manage that. These girls don't like the idea of sharing me either.

2007-06-07 11:42:56 · 10 answers · asked by mukwonago53149 5 in Singles & Dating

accepting the fact that we men, like to think and talk about sex! is in our genes and you will never understand it until maybe you get to have a peanuts yourself!

But seriously, why you get so offended? and also, yes we would like to screw as many women as possible (granted we are single) but women really get all emotional about it and I don't see the point. Oh yeah, just because women have to be emotionally attach to a men to have sex and we just see it as a normal physical need (like taking a leak).

So ladies, stop with all the drama about how men are menwhores, std catchers, ***$holes, jerks etc. just remember that next time you have sex chances are you will be having sex with one of us! LOL.

2007-06-07 11:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay i don't know about you other wifes have the same promble. I'm pregnant and you know that some woman become more horny and some become more less horny. well i'm one of the ones that aren't that horny that much anymore. and my husbands wants to have sex every day and i don't want to if i don't give him sex than he gets in a pis*** off mood all day. most of the time i give in but i just dont understand why he has to have sex every freakn day. and if he don't get his way than he is in a bad mood for the rest of the day because he didn't get what he wanted. but the more he pushes me that he wants to have sex the more i don't want it and more when he gets mad about it its bullshit

2007-06-07 11:41:58 · 6 answers · asked by lydiasmommy10806 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She left me for another man just over 3 months ago after 23yrs being married. After she left I used to text her or e-mail at work we used to have good conversations, nothing lovey dovey just about general things. But she left work and could not e-mail her anymore. Anyway whilst texting her one day, she sent me her new e-mail address, so we started e-mailing again. However this was very sparidick. I later found out that this man she is with does shift work, nights & days. Some days she would e-mail during the day others at night. So me thinks she ony e-mails me when he is at work ? Still can't work out his shift patterns though. Also met her a few weeks ago for a drink & chat, and i sware there was still something in her eyes for me. But maybe this was just wishfull thinking. Talks broke down when I saw she was wearing his engagement ring. She as been cold with me since with hardley any e-mails or texts.

2007-06-07 11:40:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is like the perfect boyfriend. He is loving, kind, caring , generous , good looking and gets on with my parents! Everyone loves him, including me (VERYmuch!) I can't imagine my life without him. But he is quite conservative and doesn't really have a wild side. I on the otherhand do and enjoy socialising and going to the pub, etc whether he would rather stay at home. I am not attracted to 'bad' boys at all. Still I do tend to find myself a bit bored at times?? Why do think this is so? Last night i had a dream that i was being intimate with another guy. Do u think thats a meaningless dream or could mean something?

2007-06-07 11:38:59 · 38 answers · asked by allyspringflower 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend & I just got engaged & we live together. We've been living together for a little more than a year now (been together for 2 years) and we just got engaged (YEY!) :O)
In order to get married at my church we have to go through a 9 month pre-marital class. BUT as Christians, it is against the "rules" for us to be living together before marriage. The church suggested the following: 1. we stop living together until we get married (neither of us can really afford to live on our own) 2. we get married (civil), take the course, then get married in the church.
How would that work? Does that take away from the experience? do we wear rings & tell people we're married and then (a year from now) have a wedding??
I'm a little unsure about how I feel about all of this. I feel like it's the right thing to do as a Christian but won't it kinda complicate things? Any thoughts/suggestions?

2007-06-07 11:31:05 · 19 answers · asked by zO. 1 in Weddings