My man cheated on me, when we where dating for 2 month, with someone he had been seeing for about 2 years on and off.
He broke their relationship off, and when I wanted to leave asked what he could do to show how sorry he was. I replied that I was so hurt, and wanted him to feel the pain, so he cut himself in the palm of his hand, and bleedingly apologized, begging me to stay.
Later on I fell pregnant, and have been living together peacefully, but yesterday when I was speaking to the neighbored, he accused me of cheating on him. I can’t say the thought hasn’t entered my mind, but I’d never cheat on anybody, considering I know the pain it causes, and the trust it breaks.
Why is he doing this to me, and why won’t he stop?
Why doesn’t he belief me, of i have never broken his trust?
Why does he make me feel so cheap?
Why won’t he come near me any more?
I feel so guilty, even though I haven't done anything wrong. & I’m so agree, I wish I did. What’s going on? Is he cheat?
2007-06-07 18:34:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will tell you one thing, cheaters always try to cover their sin full deeds by putting such arguments. Some even may say that it was you who pushed then in to doing the cheating. Nobody in their right full mind should to such a thing by basing it on an arguments they have with their partners. Its just not justied.
2007-06-07 22:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he doing this to me, and why won’t he stop?
he is doing this to you because he does know the pain he caused you and, probably doesn't understand why you would give him a second chance...(only saying this cause my wife does this sometimes she cheated on me long ago we have been married for 12 years now)..or it could be a way to direct the attention of him cheating on you again away from him....
Why doesn’t he belief me, of i have never broken his trust?
when a person has hurt someone and broken their trust they want that other person to do so...why i dont really know maybe to make them feel better...to put the blame on someone else for a change....
Why does he make me feel so cheap?
just trying to make you feel bad thats what i see...
Why won’t he come near me any more?
maybe he is cheating on you again..he knows how much it hurt you last time so he is trying every way to keep it from you this time around....
I feel so guilty, even though I haven't done anything wrong. & I’m so agree, I wish I did. What’s going on? Is he cheat?
your going to feel like you did something wrong he is putting it in your head like you did..when all you did was talk....your going to feel angry as long as he keeps this up and it may very well drive you to want to do what he did to you but two wrong dont make a right.....like i said above he is probably cheating again
2007-06-07 18:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by adrik c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok he's just being an insecure dick. I recomened that you listen to Dane Cook(a commedian) and listen to his cheating joke. It will explain how when guys cheat on girls, they become parinoid and think that because they cheated so did you. it's just a mental flaw that guys have. I'd just knock some sense into him and make him remember why you to got married "hint hint"
2007-06-07 18:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by silvery102792 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really sound like he still playing the cheating game and that
why he doing everything to make it like it you that doing the
cheating that way he can justify what he is doing , with out
trust in a realtionship then you dont have much of any thing
any way. and with a child coming you dont need this in
your life.
2007-06-07 18:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That maybe what it is, he is cheating on you again. Find someone else. You should be married to a man before you live with him. Marriage is committment.
2007-06-07 18:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have no idea what men are like you must have leaved a sheltered life you need to stop and learn the ropes of relationships and understand men if not they will continue to run you crazy
2007-06-07 18:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me he wants an exuse to cheat again.
2007-06-07 18:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cheaters dont have a consioses . . and it.s called the blame game he is putting on you for what he done you can do better than that . in my opion?
2007-06-07 18:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋