I have been dating 2 girls at the same time for the past 4 years. I see one of them on the weekdays and the other on the weekends. One cooks for me and one does my laundry. I love the benefits since I don't have to do housework but somehow I feel that this is not right. They love me very much and I love them both. Is this natural for me to feel that this is wrong?
2007-06-07 15:53:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't feel right because it's not right. You are going to hurt them both and remember what goes around comes around.
2007-06-07 15:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kymica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. Do they know that they're both dating you? If they don't this is wrong, this means that your a player, or a cheater. If they do know and are ok with this, it's still normal to feel that it is wrong.
P.S. If you take offense to any of my answer I did not mean to offend anyone. Sorry :'( if I did. It's my honest opinion.
2007-06-07 16:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends. Are you deceiving them? Do they know about each other, or do they believe that they are your only one? If you are lying to them to keep them both, then you have every reason to feel as if you are doing something wrong, because you are.
2007-06-07 15:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, this is your conscience speaking, it must have been mute for 4 years!!! this is not good, this is wrong and mean to both your 'lady friends' anyway better think of something quick
2007-06-07 15:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because it is wrong you have to leave one and stay with the one you the love the most not. dont just stay with one because they wash your clothes stay with her because you love her. you should tell them too so maybe that will make you fell less gulit then you already fell
2007-06-07 15:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is natural the feeling that you are getting is perfectly natural just tell them they might understand the might not
2007-06-07 15:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! You cant have 2, you are meant to only have one true love.
2007-06-07 15:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yuo need to choice you using them both
2007-06-07 15:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by sexymama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you are wrong. Make up your mind, and bite the bullet.
2007-06-07 15:58:30 · answer #9 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you need to fess up. you're conscience is telling you something. listen to it.
2007-06-07 15:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by Chilon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋