is this a case of child abuse?

Question

-my dad used to hit me with a belt (he never does that now,but he used to,the unfair thingy was that he never did it to my my elder sister and kid sister.i’m such an unlucky girl.)
-my mom hurts my feelings
-someone once took an incessant picture of me
-my dad slaps me
my gramma said something bad about me and i felt bad and my mom told her not to bother me coz i'm not normal
(this hurt my feelings)
-someone i know(cant tell who)once hit me with a broom
-many kids atschool call me weird and bully me verbally
PS.this morning as I was lying on the bed,with me face buried on the pillow,my
dad whipped my butt with a belt
without any reason.
it didn’t leave any scars or anything but I had done nothing drastic.i wonder why he did it.probably for a joke.we were talking about a picture and I didn’t say anything offensive.and he was smiling as he did it to me.
i'm eleven now and rarely abused,but when i was younger i was abused more harshly.
what do you think?

my sisters were as naughty as me sometimes(mostly they're more naughtier
than me)but they were never hit

stephen r,i'm a peson.Persons make mistakes.

Answer 1

yeah......you should talk to a counselor at school or something because your paren'ts arent right. something is definitely wrong in that house

Answer 2

Oh my, how come your daddy treat you like that? He shouldn't.. To teach a children, punishing is not the best way.

Are you really naughty? Why don't you change to be a good girl, I'm sure your daddy won't hit you so much.

I was a naughty girl when I was a teenager. My daddy asked me to stand still and use a steel ruler to hit me for about 20-30 times. I was mad and hate him so much, I don't respect him and disobey him all the time. But when I grew up I knew I was wrong. Although he's the kind of easily get mad people, but all he did was for my own good. Now he passed away, there's nothing I can do, even just a sorry. He'll never has the chance listen to it.

So change before it's too late, love your family always, there are millions of people in the world, but they are your family, it's God who make all of you together. Appreciate them.

Answer 3

hitting with a belt several time is violence - thus, child abuse.

incessant pics 'once' from 'someone' is just a someone with a pervert mind.it is like when i'm walking on the road n several men r lookin at me as if they wanna eat me. this is child abuse at least the man has removed ur clothers with intention n taken a pic with private parts knowing that u dnt like what he's doing.

saying something bad isnt child abuse. bad things can be said by anyone to anyone. n often ppl dnt realise whats coming out of their mouth.

ur mother telling u r not normal--> ask u the question if its u who arent normal or she ! she treats u unfairly. instead of saying all bad things abt u, she should support u, care for u n give u the everlasting&unconditional love of a mother. irresponsible mom !

once hit with a broom- maybe it was done with anger, but its not continuous action, so, not a child abuse.
if u have been hit very severely n got severe pain n blood out, then i think it is c.a .

kids @ school isnt c.a . this is normal in many schools.

ur dad is a pervert, something upside down in his head.

u have very bad parents. i'm myself revolted when reading.

u need to talk to them when u r facing probs. tell them to stop treating u badly, not to put a finger on u. tell them they hurt u. u feel bad. let them know all ur feelings.
if when u try they react with physical violence, then go to the police n to the social welfare for children

seek help frm an adult somewhere (psychologist) , someone who can support u in these situations, light up ur way, give u good advices.
even if u r a child, n u dnt have money to pay, i dont think the psychologist will refuse to help u, unless he/she is very money-minded n inhumain.

good luck !

Answer 4

i would not say that it is child abuse but i think your family does a lot of partiality. they prefer your other sisters over you.and that has had an effect on your mentality in such a way that it seems to you that you are being bullied.do not care about what these bullies say to you. they are not close to being a human.try tell your aunt or a family friend to talk about this partiality thingy with your parents and let them know how it is affecting you.whatever they do just do not do anything bad to yourself.you are your own caretaker.you have come to this world alone and you will leave the wolrd alone so do not have aby expectations from anybody.

Answer 5

i assume you're interior the united kingdom and refering to toddler P? My very own view is a toddler does no longer be a toddler devoid of the peculiar bump on the pinnacle or scraped knee, thats what young little ones do. yet for the injuries that those little ones have inflicted upon them it does make you ask your self how every person would have neglected that, how can a GP omit broken ribs, cigarette burns, lacking fingernails and so on and so on I foster little ones so I unquestionably have a honest theory of ways the Social paintings equipment works, and to be truthful they're fairly stretched. yet thats no excuse and that i do see their failings contained whilst it comes to toddler P and Vitroia Climbe. the ingredient that incredibly unquestionably horrifies me is that if a social worker solutions a record and are met with a violent be certain, they do no longer ought to gp back to that handle in case they arrive to any harm. if so they want a police escort i think of GPs ought to hold an identical rights as hospitals at present, To hold a toddler they have self belief is being abused until eventually social centers and the police can get there to evaluate the placement.

Answer 6

Please confide all of this in an adult you trust and respect. You should not be abused for any reason. You deserve a better life even if it means loseing the family you have. Which isn't a family at all. Do it now as you get older you'll harbor hatred and it will get ugly. Good Luck sweetie, don't let your life go on as is, do something to help yourself.

Answer 7

Sounds like a normal childhood to me.
If life was an easy thing mankind would not have lasted as long as we have because we would be to wimpy to survive.
Don't understand though you said your dad doesn't spank you anymore but then you add "p.s he whipped me with a belt this morning". Only weird thing to me is the picture if you mean what I think you do and not someone is constantly taking pictures of you. But there are sickos out there and our society is feeding them with their media and magazine.
No I do not think anything seems wrong with your life. Seems much better then my childhood was and I don't consider myself to of been abused unjustly.

Oh and by the way to all you people who think she needs to talk to an authority. Let me tell you about what will happen if she does this. SHE IS ONLY GOING TO HURT HERSELF DOING THAT! I know she wants to hear that she should turn them in but it WILL backfire I know kids who have and severly regret it now. My wifes aunt is a fosterparent and if you want to see abuse you need to go over there sometime. Heh and guess what her foster children have complained to authorities about the foster parnents and there is nothing the authorities can do about it because Fosterparents are protected by the state and get paid to watch those children. In fact neither parent works because the state pays for everything. So those kids are stuck. They could be murdered and the state would not press charges. Trust me on this one. And once you turn your parents in it will be very hard for you to go back to them even if you shed tears.
Foster parents special privelages over parents...
3- COURTS SHOULD LOOK FOR AND WEIGH POSSIBLE SYSTEMIC RETALIATION AGAINST A FOSTER FAMILY WHEN THAT FAMILY IS IN CONFLICT WITH ANOTHER PARTY ABOUT A FOSTER CHILD’S CASE.
4- A FAIR, SWIFT GRIEVANCE PROCEDURE FOR FOSTER PARENTS SHOULD BE DEVELOPED IN EACH COUNTY, COMPOSED OF COMMUNITY MEMBERS WHO HAVE NO COMMERCE WITH HUMAN SERVICE DEPARTMENTS.
5- POLICE OFFICERS AND OTHERS INVESTIGATING ABUSE AND NEGLECT ALLEGATIONS IN FOSTER HOMES SHALL HAVE TRAINING ABOUT CHILDREN WHO ROUTINELY AND FALSELY REPORT ABUSE, AND THEY SHALL HAVE ACCESS TO A CHILD’S HISTORY OF SUCH REPORTING BEHAVIOR.

Answer 8

wtf is wrong with your family???!!!!! how can they single you out for no reason?! sweety i suggest you go to a consular at school and go into a foster home or something. i know it sounds scary but is more terrifying then living with those @ssholes? DO IT NOW!!! you never know what will happend to you. Your school has to do something about it they cant ignor this! if you are outta school go to the police get yourself outta there! PLEASE!!!! do it for yourself! EVen if you love them (and bravo to you if you still do) BUt you have to do it before something happends!!!!!

Answer 9

You need to talk to the school counselor. I think that you may need some help to get over these feelings.

Answer 10

That is abuse. You need to contact your local Child Protective Services and report it or go to your counselor at school or contact your local Crisis Center and let them know what is going on. Please don't let it go on any longer.