2007-06-07 19:42:16 · 13 answers · asked by kalon_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's the one that calls me most of the day and ask me how come I never have anything to talk about, and I dont want to tell him maybe it's because you call me all the time cause then he want call. I want to talk but I just don't know what to say.
2007-06-07 19:51:03 · update #1
Stop talking on the phone. It will only highlight the fact that you two have nothing to talk about. You don't want him to think you're a total bore, do you?
2007-06-07 19:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this only on the phone or in person too? Don't talk on the phone so often and maybe give each other some time apart for let's say a day or more(from the phone calls not space from each other) and then see if that changes the conversation a bit when you get to talking again. If it does, then you know that you shouldn't talk on the phone on such a constant basis. If it doesn't change then maybe this person isn't for you. Talk to him about it if you want and see what he says, if things don't change. Communication is always very helpful. Good luck! :D
2007-06-07 19:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you don't need to say anything, knowing someone that cares about you enough to stay on the phone saying nothing is better then words.
If you don't want to waste time on the fine with you boyfriend now, then maybe you're wasting you time with him all together.
2007-06-07 19:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk every night then take a break from the phone for awhile....Or if you just talk ever now and then perhaps he or you are shy?? and if that isnt the case then maybe you shouldn't use the phone?
2007-06-07 19:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by sportsstarcutie11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've faced this situation.
very embarassing to tell him that i dont wanna talk to him everyday.
talking on the phone had become a routine.
-1st i kept silent on the phone n he told me i'm strange with him, which made me angry.
-2nd, i told him ive lost my mobile (ive changed sim card), not to phone me @home coz parents will listen to convo.
-3rd, i got bored looking for the same excuse. i realized that wasnt love. then i told him i'm no more in love. dont wana lie, but i cant do as if i was in love. so i need to break up.
i was relieved. ouf !
maybe that u arent really in love.
2007-06-07 19:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by eMJy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a few minutes to list some things you could talk about such as whats your favorite color? What did you think of American Idol? etc. If the conversation lulls, say 'I have to go for now, see you tomorrow ' or something like that.
2007-06-07 19:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somthing that you and your boyfriend like and then start from there or talk about the furture.
2007-06-07 19:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out more find common interests built a relationship not stress about it.
its a phase it will pass.
2007-06-07 19:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by ViRgO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a bad sign. I have no advice. Sorry.
2007-06-07 19:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't answer the phone.
2007-06-07 19:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋