also did it work out? or did it happen again?
2007-06-07 22:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by evets3423 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, yes, and no.
It really depends on the reason that the cheating started. Usually it's a REALLY bad choice on the cheaters part that comes due to a problem within the marriage. Instead of focusing on the marriage and trying to fix the problem there, they look outside the marriage and make it worse.
Expect it to take a minimum of TWO YEARS to forgive the cheater. This seems to be the average. Expect it to be hard work. Expect there to be a lot of emotions. Expect to need marriage and individual counseling to make it through.
2007-06-07 22:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by starrrrgazer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes and No: it didn't work out because it happen yet another time. I'm to old to give a darn now, who cares. I did tell her that if I take a turn, I may not be coming back. She worries about it now that were getting older. She just doesn't realize what she did to the feeling I had for her at one time.
I almost feel guilty that I don't feel close like I once did. I didn't do this and didn't give her reason to, she claimed she couldn't help it, she was stupid in her thinking, that was all. Well, I'm sorry to but, that's the way it goes.
I may die a one woman man but, I know what I want in life.
2007-06-08 06:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did. She cheated on me during a rough time, we were separated , a separation that I didn't think meant seeing other people, but she went to another. It totally crushed me & broke my heart when I found out. I forgave her, the forgetting part was not so easy, & its always there in the back of you mind. It didn't help matters that she kept going back to him. It takes a spouse that is willing to give you 100% commitment & do whatever they can to help you heal. I never got that!!
2007-06-08 18:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,no and no, and I agree on what Stephimm says. It depends on what the reason is and yet it doesn't justify what mine did. I forgave my husband for some of it but I can not forgive him for getting emotional with this married woman and because I discovered his affair he suddenly don't love her anymore and wants to work on our relationship.
We all human being and I have my own feelings to think about and I can't force myself to forgive him because it wasn't I that pushed him to cheat after so many years. And because of this I can't trust him anymore....
2007-06-08 07:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, who else, but did it work out. No, because I was leaving. I was leaving, and I've moved out. No running around, and found another, but the stress is unreal, and the divorce does bring closure.
2007-06-08 05:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, NO, don't care That worthless piece of ________ isn't worth my time, patience, worries or forgiveness. I found a man who treats me right and forgot about that_____ ____ _____ ______ _____!
2007-06-08 12:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Rae Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋