is that normal...shes always thretens me that if i keep on with my attitude then shell make me move with my dad!and i dont wanna be with him!
2007-06-07 22:13:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you don't want to live with your dad - you are gonna have to kiss your mom's booty. It sucks, but you will have to "lose the attitude." If she is not abusive and pays for your food shelter and clothing - why an attitude anyways?
2007-06-07 22:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that you don't get along well with your mom. It mostly happens when we are in teenager. For me as well. We are in different ages. Sometimes there is a gap between our attitudes.
However, one day I got a new idea from an old man. He asked me an interesting question that how much would I like to sell my finger. I said "No" I won't sell it. He then asked if he gave me 1 million dollar, will I sell my life. I said "no" I won't sell it, even bigger money than that.
Then he asked who gave life to me. This question reminded me every time before I got bigger fight with Mom or Dad. I always slow down or escape from that.
At least they gave me "life" which worth enough than million dollar.
So, my dear, keep you head up and keep yourself away from fighting. Be positive and do some other interesting activities than this!
2007-06-07 22:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Rungrat C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you do have a smart mouth and need to watch it. I know i did when i was a teenager. I assume you are b/c your still living at home. One day you will regret all the mean things you said to your mom, trust me , i did. Just have some respect and be nice. There are always gonna be things you dont agree on but thats just life. Good luck!!!
2007-06-08 04:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you want to live a long time with your mum and you don't want to stay with your dad, right? If you like your mum I think you must be change your attitude. Why you don't think that why your mum want you to change it, maybe it is not good for you and not possible for you so she wants you to move it. You know all the mum in the world always want their kids always look is good and better than other kids so you must be follow her.
I hope you and your mum have a good relationship forever.
Good Luck
2007-06-07 22:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by happy2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly what do you argue about??? Why are you being disrespectful to your mom--??? Don't tell me you are innocent--that is silly--all teens are smart mouth brats--you just don't like her having control of you. Keep your mouth shut and act a bit more mature--grow up and talk like a human--your mom is in charge--not you. When you are 18 you can go and do whatever it is you want to do--till then--you do what she says--it will get better if you try to tone it down. If you were mine--your mouth would be sore and off to dad you would go.
2007-06-07 22:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal for everyone to fight once in their life that's how the love gets stronger and she only thretens you to make you get scared to obey her and her rules but she really isn't gonna kick you out unless it gets to the extreme which it won't cause it's hard to let go of your kids!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-07 22:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange for young ladies to always fight with their mom's,why don't u talk to her as u r talking to your friend at school?did u tried once to understand her attitude?just put your self in her shoes,may be she is under pressure.try to be her friend not only her daughter,start giving her a hand in the kitchen ,try to arrange her breakfast in her weekend,show her your appreciation that she is your mom,introduce love,and see what would u get instead,good luck
2007-06-07 22:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by meeso6y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should work on your attitude. Show your MOTHER more LOVE and RESPECT. How this helps. Remember you only get one chance to be with your Mother.
2007-06-07 22:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by juangal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to figth with her because she can /will do that if the fighting keeps going on so even though it might be hard ignore her and go to your room and listen to music, read a book, watch t.v. for/so the both of you to cool down
good luck:)
2007-06-07 22:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by manny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then I suggest that you try to get along better with her. It is normal to disagree with things that our parents say and do. It is their right as parents to do whatever they feel is best for us, as long as they do not abuse us. Your mother is just looking out for your best interest, and it would be wise to respect her for that.
2007-06-07 22:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋