confused - am i being unreasonable - odd situation plz help?

Question

If you and ur boyfriend were having problems and because of exams u didn't talk about it. The girl has reason to believe the boy cheated on her, and the boy says he is distant because of their different religions. I'm pretty sure it's the girl thing.. anyway he seemed like he wanted to break it off but was waiting till after my exams.

Exams are over but i have been diagnosed with cancer. He's been calling a lil more than before but still is distant. He kept saying he will come meet me but he is very far so i said no. He passes my house at the weekends so i asked if he would meet me today on his drive home. He said yes but won't tell me what time. He's always been bad with time.

It's not nearly 11 and he hasn't told me what time we are meeting. Would u be so relaxed if u were in this situation? Knowing that i'm not well and that we got things to talk about would u not get down here early to spend time with me?am i being unreasonable? what does this mean?how does he feel?

Answer 1

I think he is being unreasonable and very selfish and thoughtless. I think you need to concentrate more on yourslef and getting better than on what this man thinks he's playing at. Your health is more important than him, so concentrate on you as worrying will not improve your health, but make it worse.

All the best. xx

Answer 2

no i wouldnt be relaxed if i were you but im the jittery-type of person. im always seated at the edge of my seat when i am expecting something important. your bf is important and you feel he needed to do an extra mile bc of your condition.
Dont worry to much about him bc whatever the outcome of this situation, it will always be both to your advantage. Religion is a serious issue to be considered esp when you are thinking of the future. I feel for you, i really do. My ex is a muslim and i am a christian, future always looked shady for us and we broke up several times bc of that---in the end it didnt work out because we both dont believe the other's beliefs.
Relax, let him call you and wait. Read a book or do something to keep you preoccupied while youre waiting.
Im sorry about your condition and hope you get well soon.

Answer 3

I would tell him your time is important to you & you only need truly supportive people around you, my partner is bad with time aswell but in a situation like yours I know he'd be there straight away. Sorry but it sounds like your boyfriend is the one being unreasonable here, maybe he's afraid to tell you its over as he doesnt want to upset you while your ill. Good Luck & Bes Wishes, I hope things work out for you x

Answer 4

I just you end it with him.....he is NOT supporting you and from your msg he never has been very attentive or considerate towards you!

Tell him its over...........then concentrate on yourself. Look after yourself and do what you need to do to live a healthy happy life. You are young.....there are plenty more fabulous guys out there to meet and fall in love with who will be worthy of being with you.

take care and I hope all goes well for you.....

Answer 5

No he's giving you clear signals
1/ he's not interested
2/yiou have cancer so don.t need added stress
3/ he's with someone else now
so move on

Answer 6

He may be scared about your cancer diagnosis, ask him straight out how he feels about you and your relationship. he may say he cant cope with the cancer and end it. you don't need to be worrying about him you need to look after yourself.

Answer 7

Ask him if he is trying to break up or what. Tell him that you don't need his pity, and his lies.

Answer 8

so unreasonable ......... i can't believe this ......... come to my smoke party ... haha