I am young. But I met a man on the internet who is 7 years older than
me! But I think I love him. Should I go and meet him?! I need your
advice. Thanks! I meet him here, http://www.freewebs.com/love4olderandyounger ,a nice and free place for Younger Women and Older Men, or Younger Men and Older Women, to interact with each other.
2007-06-07 23:04:28 · 16 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never if you are under the age of 18. That is the worse decision in your life you could make, you might end up dead.
2007-06-07 23:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lee P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just say that you are younger, but not how old you are, okay, if you are a mature female and honestly believe that you can handle anything this "man" you met on the internet can dish out, then by all means, do your thing. But if you are a young girl, just learning to fly, I would say Babygirl, be careful, even to the older experienced female, I would say Babygirl, be careful. There are nuts, weirdos, pervs, etc., out there, lurking, but then again, some say Mr. Perfect is on the internet, like everything else, you have to be careful because the chances you take and choices you make can determine whether you live of die. Be mindful of what you do at all times. God Bless.
2007-06-08 06:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention how old you are.....If you are only 16 then I would say it's not a good idea. If you're 25 then there is no problem. Yoy should be able to judge what is right. Please don't say you love him. He may be a liar, he may be 17 years older than you. Or 27. And thats disgusting. You really don't know anything about him. Why should you go and meet him? Why doesn't he come to meet you....somewhere where you are comfortable and safe or better still, take someone along with you. Be very careful.
2007-06-08 06:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by adriana_971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are younger then 18 don't you dare go meet that man he can seriously hurt you. If you are older then 18 then go for it. I'm serious men can lure you in and act like they are charming over the computer when really the plans they have when meeting you are to chop you up and kill you. Again if you are a child do not meet this man.
2007-06-08 06:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by Beeg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recently met up with a man who is 9 years older than me, we hit it off and get on great...we're even kinda seeing each other now, just taking it slow.
Age is something you honestly can't judge, 9 years sounds pretty huge, but to be honest, when i'm with him and we're talking and go out together, the age gap doesn't stick out one bit and we're very compatable.
You'll never know unless you try, but be careful as you're meeting him on the internet, tell someone where you are, who you're with and also give someone his number (just incase) but i'm sure this won't be needed if you're sensible.
Just be yourself with him, don't try and act older.
Good luck x
2007-06-08 06:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Yellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say "your in love" when you don't know anything about this guy?
In the first place make it safe. You don't know if he's some kind of nut case or not, he could be lying to you.
Meet him in a public place, like a busy coffee shop or bring a friend along the first time. He shouldn't mind, in fact he should feel well about it, thinking how safe you are.
2007-06-08 06:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you an adult? Also I have met men from the Internet be careful. Things are not always what they seem. The man one knows via net is different from the one you meet in the real.
2007-06-08 06:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are younger than 18, that is a really bad idea! besides, it's all on the web, he may be acting really nice towards you all of a suddden but how do you know if he really is the Mr Right for you?? you dont know if hes a good guy or not do you? how you think he is may not be how he really is. remember, first impressions are not always right!! these stuff are in the news!! what will you do if he rapes you??!!
2007-06-08 06:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Just Silleh*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old you are. If you are younger than 18, i would suggest you don't meet him. And if you are only young, why are you going on to a website for Younger/older people to meet. Meet people your own age.
2007-06-08 06:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love? and you never met? wow. i'd say at least give it awhile before you start naming you kids. he's older than you, but if you guys do decide to see each other, don't let him walk all over you. i'd also say don't put too much faith in this online thing. not to insult your judgement but as far as online dating goes, you can't take everything at face value.
2007-06-08 06:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by this g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋