long story cut short
Me and my boyfriend have only been together around 2 months. last week was a bad week for us me for my PMT and he kinda took the flack for it. He said he understood and just ignored me. He started being distant wed night and on friday he broke up with me. Telling me he doent no what he wants anymore, he wants to be alone and needs me time. I was devastated. And kept calling friday crying on the phone to him. saturday i tried so hard not to call but i had to and started crying again to him. i wen out sat night to take my mind off things and i told him i was going out. Sunday everything seemed a little easier and it felt like i was coping so much better. So i didnt feel the need to call him. But at 3pm the phone rang!!! It was him calling ME. 4TIMES. Just wanting a general chat i played it cool didngt cry or mention anything about the break up and sounded happy. is he missing me. do you think he will realise he does want me.
Sensible answers please.
xxx
2007-06-10 23:56:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this is hard for you, but I'm sure it's hard for him too. 2 months isn't a whole lot of time together, and maybe he just doesn't know how to handle the "flack", especially if it was the first time.
Give him some time. Since he did call you back, there are still some feelings there. But don't try to force something or make him feel guilty either...that will turn him off.
Just try to be patient, and take it as it comes.
2007-06-11 00:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter where you are in a relationship, and no matter how close the two of you may be, both you and your partner will want personal space at some time.
Each of you will have different interpretations of what that means, and how it is to be achieved, but it is important that this space be given.
You both should understand the need, and be willing to share your feelings with each other.
Open and honest communication is the most vital part of any relationship. Start it early, make it work for both of you, and then build on it.
2007-06-11 07:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ef Ervescence 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he doesn't know what he wants and maybe playing a game with your feelings and just might have been a good idea that he broke up with you and find someone that cares about your feelings. I wouldn't answer the phone when he calls for a while which will make him start thinking about things.
2007-06-11 07:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the space he needs, and wait it out, may be a temporary thing, but maybe not. whatever the reason u have to accept it and be willing to move on if he doesn't come back. just take it easy and be friends for awhile, don't try to push anything back to where u want it to be.
2007-06-11 07:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GF you are sounding tooo clingy. dont depend on a man for your happiness. get some self esteem. Sounds to me like he is manipulating you because he can.like you are second choice.give him space so he can decide.Then realise its not your fault whatever he does decide.
2007-06-11 07:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he misses you or he wouldnt have called... I think he's starring to come around, stick it out and you 2 will be back together again
2007-06-11 07:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with needing space from your partner... everyone needs time to think and just be by them selves.. by you keep calling and calling him is not going to help... it is going to make him turn more waway from you... give him the space that he needs and when he is ready he will caome back to you...if he calls you to talk then great but just keep your distance till he comes and tells you that he is ready to get back together....
2007-06-11 07:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to what he says. anything in contrary will make him more frustrated.
2007-06-11 08:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋