Girls, how would you most like a guy to approach you in a bar?

Question

If your in a bar or a club and a guy comes over to you how would you most like him to start the conversation - offer to buy you a drink, use a cheesy chat up line, pay you a compliment, not approach and wait for you to make the first move or some other way?

Answer 1

I think they want you to say, "Hi, I'm George Clooney..."

Answer 2

Honestly, I personally don't like the roundabout. If a guy is interested spare me the pick-up lines. Depending on where you are and how crowded it is this is what I would want. If it's a bar and crowded, buy me a drink and sit somewhere at the bar that I can clearly see you, also be careful what you order I can't tell you what drink to buy, but you should be able to tell when you look at a girl what she wants. If it's not crowded I would prefer if you came up and sat next to me trying to make conversation and slipping in compliments. It would also be nice if you bought me a drink (or two).

In a club it's harder because it's loud, but if I was at the bar getting a drink, it would be best if you chatted me up while I was drinking or asking if I'd be interested in dancing. It really depends on what is going on, but I really don't want a pick-up line. It makes me laugh, but it's not romantic...I'll prolly date the guy that makes me laugh, but I won't take it seriously.

~~Also, I think it's the best when a guy is confident and just comes up to me and tells me straight "I noticed you and you are so sexy, I can't help but offer to buy you a drink...." It's a great way to start a conversation and it makes me feel good that you were that confident to just tell me like it is.

All women are different that was just my point of view. Hope I helped :D

Answer 3

I gave up meeting men in bars in high school - they all used awful pick-up lines, and they were all a bit weird or wanted to take you home the same night. So if you want a meaningful relationship you might want to join a club or religious gathering or take a class rather. But here goes:

Very few women will want to make the first move on a stranger, but they don't want you to be too pushy either. No pick-up lines. No "I never do this, but-". Don't call her 'baby'. Compliments might work, but not over-the-top: "I really like your style" is better than "Did you just drop from heaven?" A safer bet is just "Hi, I'm Bob." Buying a drink is nice - but make sure she doesn't have a full one already. If it's a posh bar you could even ask the waiter to offer her a drink from you. Ask her about herself: what her job is, does she live in this city, about her family, anything. Don't volunteer too much info about yourself or it might look like you're self-centred. Don't talk about how much money you have, how clever you are, or spend ages telling her about your new car.

Answer 4

someone with freaking confidence, knows what they want and works for it (even if they fail, its flattering to our egos so thanks!), and knows what theyre talking about. Whatever it is it all then depends on the girls facial expression and body language. If it looks good, whether it be a cheesy pick up line or offer to buy them a drink, your in!

Answer 5

I think I'd prefer a smile and a "how are you?" I'm not one for compliments or chat-up lines, they make me uncomfortable. Just initiating conversation is a lot more respectable.

Answer 6

Just walk up and say can a buy you a drink? or say hey how are you .. or hey would you like to dance? just any thing nice but dont use a cheap a*s pick up line hehe laters good luck

Answer 7

Um do girls hang out in bars a lot. Why do people ask these bar questions? I mean I don't go to bars but still.

Answer 8

You know what, I was in a same situation like you.
Anyways, Try the following site

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I think, it can really help you.

Good luck

Answer 9

i would just like him to start a conversation he dosent need to buy me a drink he should just be genuinal and have a laff.

Answer 10

dont approach girls at bar plz