Family & Relationships - 10 June 2007

My boyfriend broke up with me because of the long distance, and I can't blame him if he stopped loving me or changed his mind, but the way he broke up with me was awwwful and horrible, he yelled and blamed me of cheating (never happened!!) etc.. and was mean to me... He lied, saying he didn't brak up for the purpose of playing around with other chicks in his area, and lately I found out he's dating this chick and he even said he loved her..

I don't wanna get revenge the immature way.. I prefer to let him go, mend my heart and love again... BUT I WANT HIM TO REGRET IT SOONER OR LATER. I loved him and was very faithful to him... In about 6 months I'll go back to the town where I used to live (where he's living..) how do I get him to regret?

a guy friend tells me if u igore him and he sees how beautiful you are, how much you don't care about him anymore and how happy with your life and with somebody else, he'll regret it even if he doesn't love you... IS THAT TRUE?

2007-06-10 03:31:31 · 34 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am cab drive ;last night . the young lady had no money to pay ;her fare. it was '£20 .she ask me would i like to have my way; with her .what should i have done .

2007-06-10 03:30:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i haven't seen him for about a week or something and officialy he said to a friend that we're together but every time i call him he doesn't answer or someone else answers and tells me that they got his phone and that they'll take it back tomorrow...i don't know what to think because when we are together he's very nice to me and stuff.....oo and one more thing i got some things at him and i really need them back but i can't talk with him....what should i do?

2007-06-10 03:30:17 · 3 answers · asked by indie*kt 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-10 03:25:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 03:24:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Thats what my ex wife told me after she asked for a divorce.I was attatched to HER.I was emotionaly available,i MARRIED her. She is a NON PRACTICING Catholic.What the !!! I don't get it at all. I was a good husband,i love and respect her.I treated her like a queen.We had good comunication,so i thought,what happened to her ???

2007-06-10 03:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am writer and so I did a little bit of mischief. I only wanted to know how different people reacted to a given situation. Thank you. You all have been great help. And as far as she goes-she's purely fictional I hope you'll read her out when the book comes. If I caused any trouble, I'm sorry. You must think I'm an idiot but...

2007-06-10 03:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by Robin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm male. I've moved in the somewhat recent past. I can get a date now and then with the opposite sex, but I've had a hard time making guy friends to socialize with. Any suggestion on how to make guy friends?

2007-06-10 03:16:54 · 14 answers · asked by Zloar 4 in Friends

I am going through a divorce in a somewhat small town where things spread like wild fire. I work in a place where a lot of people from this town come in and I hear a lot of rumors. I have 2 children that go to school and do activities here. Does nobody care if things get back to them? Its hurtful. I can't believe the untrue things I have heard about why my marraige split. The people I thought were my friends are saying such horrible things and they have no idea what they are talking about. I always feel like I have to defend or explain myself. Rumors are like opening a bag of feathers in the wind...you can only grab so many to get them back but the rest are spreading so far that you can't collect them. I know I know I shouldn't care what others think but I think everyone does to an extent.

2007-06-10 03:16:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex was seeing me and had met someone else. He dumped me when the other girl found out about me, i was devstated and have not spoken to him since (i thought it was the best way to get over what had happened). he always did say that we would keep in touch, but i didn´t take any notice. recently i was drunk, on a night out and i text him to say hi and then said that i shouldn´t have cos he is on the forbidden list. A week later he texts and says that he is my area, he hoped that i was well, and that if i fancied a chat, he would meet me.

I couldn´t meet him cos of other plans, and i haven´t heard from him since - is he confused, does he want a friendly chat, sex..........? (don´t know if he still with the other girl, she was devastated when she found out he was seeing me, I didn´t know about her, so he really played us both)

Any helpful thoughts would be apppreciated.

2007-06-10 03:14:39 · 9 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been having a relationship for a couple of weeks and I have now come to the conclusion that he's using me, and I'm not playing anymore
I have decided to get out and start dating, and meet new people,
Have you got some quick tips on how to meet new people
And how to date without getting hurt or too involved

2007-06-10 03:12:23 · 16 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6 in Singles & Dating

In 29 days I leave all my family and friends and basically everything I have ever known in my life to go move to the other side of the world in Australia. Although i am very excited at a new chapter of my life is opening I am also very scared of the unknown and have huge fears about that, i've tried talking to my family but they just get upset as do my friends so I am asking on here instead. Thanks

2007-06-10 03:07:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was the one to open the secret to her, but now its a year and she doesn't want to let go. He is in a trap which could lead him to legal proceedings and bankrupcy. I am the only one for him as his family to has left him, after knowing about this affair. His wife is firm and is making all efforts for him not to get back to me. she had known him for many years before the marriage, and now cannot accept the fact that he has betrayed her. He says it will take a few years to get back together and in no way he wants to get back to his wife. We love each other too much.

2007-06-10 02:48:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance is catholic (though not very deeply into it) and I am so very not. I do not want to have a catholic wedding (stand, kneel, stand, kneel...). But his mother will have a fit if he's not married by the church. How do I get out of having the long catholic wedding.. but still be married by the church?

2007-06-10 02:44:09 · 14 answers · asked by Rebecca 2 in Weddings

Have you ever been to Japan,what do you think of them?

2007-06-10 02:42:09 · 29 answers · asked by swordxka 1 in Friends

i just want to know how many years is concederd a common law marriage

2007-06-10 02:39:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

at first she said it would take some time to get use to the idea ,but that was 3 years ago and now we are married and she cant handle it because every time she sees my child she sees my ex-wife so what do i do

2007-06-10 02:34:03 · 32 answers · asked by mebowers2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

husband was hurt i a work accident and had surgery but the doctor did the wrong surgery so he is off work longer than he should have been

2007-06-10 02:34:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When i was born my fathers parents my grandparents brought me up as a child untill 13years old then my parents took me back and moved to another country and i do not get along much then i would love to with my parents also siblings and things with my mother arent good either we argue constantly and i have left home several times because of this now i have a child and its kind of difficult

2007-06-10 02:27:52 · 6 answers · asked by ahylei17 2 in Family

My bf seems to change positions a lot, it doesnt bother me or anything. I was just wondering why he does it?

2007-06-10 02:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father makes fun of his mother and father-in-law all the time. I know its natural for people not to like their in-laws but come on, my grandmother is 88 and my grandfather is 92. Even though I don't agree with everything they say, I still believe people should respect there elders. What should I do in this situation?

2007-06-10 02:19:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

its an affair, it make us suffer cos we still can seeing each everyday in work place. we both trying hard to bury the feeling and sometime avoiding each other but the feeling still strong. Is he feeling the same as me? cos i'm hurt and sad when made decision to stop but we still missing each other. how to let the feeling gone?

2007-06-10 02:16:46 · 3 answers · asked by sarah@520 1 in Marriage & Divorce

iam working with her for last 4 years , she is 7 years elder to me , there is a good relationship between us i really dont know is she also has a same feeling for me , is this right from my part please give some good answer no bullsheet

2007-06-10 02:15:17 · 14 answers · asked by bunty 1 in Singles & Dating

My father refused to be discharged from the expensive private hospital . But his own saving can only support him for two more months medical bill. If he insists to stay there as he needs oxygen for 24 hours. Will the hospital ask me to pay the bill though I am not in that country? My father is angry and cut my phone when I called him because I told him that I would not pay his bill . It is U$250 per day. I know he knows that I can afford it and I wouldn't give him up because of face problem. So he enjoys staying in the private room with 4 nurses looking after him. What can I do? It bothers me so much ? Please give me advices . Thanks for all who have answered my previous questions.

2007-06-10 02:15:11 · 9 answers · asked by psmom2006 4 in Family

My husband of 15 years left me on May 6th. All of our common friends have pretty much stopped talking to me but still stay in contact with him. Well, last week he said he wanted to work on things but didn't want me saying anything to anyone. This weekend he took our daughter to the lake. I was pretty distraught because there was going to be drinking and partying and people I don't trust there. So, the husband calls me and asks me to why don't I go ahead and come to the lake. I drive the hour over there friday night and stay. Saturday I spend most of the day with my daughter and husband, but around 4 or 5 he says his mother is coming and would like for me to leave because it will cause problems with my being there. He says I can come back if I want to.
Anyway, all of our friends that keep saying "we are there for both of you" were there at the lake and know he asked me there and know he asked me to leave b/c of his mom. Not him or any of them called to say "hey are you okay?"

2007-06-10 02:09:31 · 6 answers · asked by Airlantiss 2 in Friends

I am a 27 year old male, college graduate, ( Hotel Restaurant Management ...HRM.

I am currently employed and am from the Philippines.

I would like to meet some nice girls from the United states. Dating services doesn't work for me.

Could anyone, please, help me find one?

My e-mail address is : ryanb1214@yahoo.com. I would greatly appreciate it if answers/responses will also be sent to my e-mail.

Thank you in advance.

2007-06-10 02:04:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If we have sex once a month I feel lucky. She says that sex is gross and she doesnt even enjoy kissing because it also is gross. I would not have thought to ask if she felt this way before marriage, and these parts of our relationship are important to me. What can I do?

2007-06-10 01:57:07 · 29 answers · asked by Bitcasso 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have recently visited an online guide on how to convince your wife to become hotwife i.e. have sex with other men, it was a downloadable format. BUT i have misplaced that link, if anybody knows about such stuff kindly let me know.

2007-06-10 01:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by phantom 1 in Singles & Dating

OK would someone like to explain what that is

2007-06-10 01:46:34 · 10 answers · asked by trey98607 7 in Marriage & Divorce

His dog Ellie mae in a little dog that seems to now have a problem His own master sleeping under the covers with me. And when we try to be inmate with each other she is starting to growl at us, well mainly at him!

2007-06-10 01:44:36 · 24 answers · asked by mrsalramey 4 in Marriage & Divorce