Family & Relationships - 10 June 2007

My girlfriend and I both signed a mortgage for a house about a year ago. Now my girlfriend wants to move out and "find herself" and take our 3 year old daughter with her. I love my girlfriend and my daughter and I don't want to lose my house. I can't stop her from leaving but I want to know if she can just take our daughter. What rights do I have if she's the one who wants to leave?

2007-06-10 13:06:10 · 24 answers · asked by shar123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she constantly phones them and me looking for help and monay also unfortinuatly she had an afare with a heron adict is constantly beeing told by doctors there is no reson why she canot look after her kids but will not admitt to doctors about her afare or drug habbit how can i explane to my kids that whant her back that she is only intreded in monay

2007-06-10 12:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-10 12:59:01 · 3 answers · asked by ashley s 1 in Singles & Dating

Thanks for your opinions and experiences.

2007-06-10 12:56:46 · 26 answers · asked by gerardo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 19--went to my first bachelorette party this past friday at mandalay bay in vegas. a male dancer came over and the bride ended up doing 0ral on him in front of us and then stuff with him alone in the bathroom--LOL. anyone else ever do this or seen it happen? (im in a bet with my friends and i say it does)

2007-06-10 12:56:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just curious...

2007-06-10 12:50:40 · 55 answers · asked by Micquie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a single dad with custody of my 2 kids. I have a girl(10) and a boy(6). Normally I do all the things around the house after I put them to bed. They are wanting me to give them an allowance. I only give them money when they do out of the ordinary, like clean the yard with out me telling them to do so, or if my girl does the laundry with out me asking.

So, What are some reasonable chores for them to do everyday?

What do you think the allowance should be? For my girl, I thought $1.25 a day and the boy $1 a day. Should they get the same or what? Thanks for any help.

I am getting tired of doing everything myself but I will do what ever it takes. I do ask them for help every now and then. They make their beds every morning and they do keep up with their own rooms. I will not clean them, but I will help them.

2007-06-10 12:50:34 · 7 answers · asked by Bones 5 in Family

2007-06-10 12:40:52 · 14 answers · asked by Kyra 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when your going to get married,how does your guy or lady have to live up to your expectation for a great husband or wife and to be a good father or mother, and to be a good provider for your kids.what i mean is what do you expect them to be,in order to be a good husband or wife?

2007-06-10 12:40:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you know when you love someone or when someone love you.

2007-06-10 12:40:05 · 9 answers · asked by Tabi 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been marrige for 6 years and we had a son toghter now we are divorce and its been 6 month and now when i go and take my son from my ex wife every saturday and sunday 11:30 till 4:30 he comes to me happilly and i take him everywhere he wants to go like park and stuf but when it comes to take him back to his mum he doesn't want to go back but i've to take him back cause its court order and he is only 4 1/2 years old and when he does that it's heart me so bad some times i think i should stop meeting him.

2007-06-10 12:38:33 · 18 answers · asked by y-u-left-me-alone 2 in Marriage & Divorce

need cell phone number

2007-06-10 12:37:11 · 1 answers · asked by funker48@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family

i really liked this gy at school and well after school ended he told me how he felt about me ,then he asked me out i said yes and we been going out for a while so yea...
i really love him to death i would do anything for him to see him ..
because of him moveing i dont want to get hurt i hate getting hurt but he keeps telling me that i will fing someone elas i keep telling him no i wont i promise..what should i do when he moves hes going to be gone the whole summer.?

2007-06-10 12:36:01 · 5 answers · asked by EMO CHICK 1 in Singles & Dating

I’ve been seeing a great guy for 2 mos. Im divorced and have 2 kids. he’s never been married and has no kids (if that means anything) Last night as I came home from a date I called to check on my daughter and she said her dad was outside waiting for me. To avoid a scene I told boyfriend to drop me off a block away. He was pissed but did it anyway. Then I told my ex that if he ever did that again, I’d file a restraining order. I spoke to boyfriend later on and he told me he liked me and enjoyed my company but that he didn’t need this. That I didn’t not have control of the situation. I told him I took care of it and not to make any hasty decisions. Today I text him and he text back but I could tell he was still pissed. He calls everyday, today he didn’t. I know this is the man for me and would hate to lose him because of my ex. He doesn’t want to see me happy. What to do?

2007-06-10 12:34:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok... Went out with Tim on Fri night-stayed out til 4am- This was our second date. We had a great time and I really think he's it! So- that being said- He called on Sat morn when he got up in bed and left a message. I called him back and we both said we had a great time and he mentioned getting together this week for dinner. It's now Sunday and I want to call him just to say hi- but I know all the dating "rules" - I don't want to seem anxious- but I want him to know I'm very interested. We were very intimate on Fri night and he didn't stop complimenting me. So- should I call him tonight- or wait til tomorrow night- or what? lol help

2007-06-10 12:31:54 · 5 answers · asked by flighty001100 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i am cleaning my room and trying to get rid of old stuff I dont need anymore and along the way I have been finding tons of old pictures and old year books. I found my one from 5th grade and I was looking at the old pictures of everyone and seeing who signed it and it's funny that now half the people that signed I havent talked to in years. But anyways... Don't you think its fun to look at old stuff like that?

2007-06-10 12:31:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I would like to know how many of you view me as available, knowing that I have been intimate with other men but have no liking for gay sex. What would it take for you to accept me?

2007-06-10 12:30:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 12:29:27 · 4 answers · asked by daiberino 2 in Family

They have been dating for like a year, and were all really god friends.

2007-06-10 12:27:40 · 11 answers · asked by patri0ts4life 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife and I have been married for 6 mths. Together for a year. I luv her heaps but she always wants to spend time with me and she hates me going out with pple. Even when I talk to my parents and sisters, she gets angry at me for not spending any time with her. Then she ends up sleeping on the couch everytime I go out with friends or with other pple. she thinks I dont luv her, but I keep telling her I do. I have a life outside marriage, so how do I tell her that?

2007-06-10 12:27:26 · 18 answers · asked by Asha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i was goin out wit dis guy 2 years ago n we broke up cause i told him i was pregnant and he told me he was married. i havnt seen him since cause he moved away, but now hes comin bk to see my son and im scard cause i still love him and i dont want to b with a married man!! im scard i wont b able 2 handle seeing him with his wife. how can i get over him? and if i cant get over him how do i act like im over him wen i c him?? im also scard my son will like his wife more than me!! please help cause im stressing over this every day!!

2007-06-10 12:27:20 · 2 answers · asked by linda m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I stay home cause I go to college and it is easier for me to survive, but I want to leave and feel like I should cause my parents fight all the time. Most of the time it is just loud nasty arguments, but today it got physical and I had to break it up. I thought my father was going to kill her. A couple of times I almost got hurt. I don't know what to do, they have been together 29 years and this is something that no matter how often you see it you can't get used to it. I don't want to see it, I don't want to live it, I just don't know what to do. I have siblings but they can't do anything, they are younger then me. I can't really tell my friends and family too ashamed. Any suggestions?

2007-06-10 12:24:32 · 7 answers · asked by Exhausted 3 in Family

i need help, i like this guy and i think he likes me but im not sure, like hell smile alot around me and if hes with his friends and i walk by he will walk away from his friends and talk to me, and we sometimes go to the park like every sunday bc for some reason his family just does ( bc hes grounded so he cant meet ne where else and he cant talk on fone) and he will hang out with me most even tho like 4 pther pplz are there and his friends always ask if we like each other , and my friend thinks he likes me, so should i ask him if he likes me or ask him out or dont do anythin or what?
what should i do?!?!? HELP ME!!!!! btw, i have his fone #


i thought about asking him if he likes me but what if he is like some guyz who say they dont like u even if they do???

2007-06-10 12:21:38 · 18 answers · asked by sk8jew 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 12:20:18 · 19 answers · asked by kitkat10052 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can a father put a restraining order on his girlfriend if they have a child together and still lives there..

2007-06-10 12:19:56 · 7 answers · asked by tisha_costello1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the story, i got a job, after 9 months, i quit because i joined a program at a local college, so i couldn't work, then go to regular school,. then go to college program. So I quit. A year later, the program ended, and i didn't go back to work. My mom ask me not to go back to work so i can help take my brother to his music classes and help her with driving because she going through menopause, and she can't drive because she gets really nervous and scared. So my 2 aunts, are always talking behind my back. Saying i'm lazy for not getting a job. They always ask if something wrong with me, like if i'm sick or something. I hate when they ask for help, and me being stupid, i go help. But you know wants funny, one of my aunts husband doesn't work or even supports her. Instead, my aunt supports her husband and kids. She like the man/wife of the house. Then my other aunt, her daughter is 26 yrs old, and she has a "job" that let's her go whenever she wants to go. What should i do?

2007-06-10 12:19:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

shannon carroll???she died of rabies and was in my class @ my skool :( ♥

2007-06-10 12:18:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated a bartender off and on in the past for 3 going on 4 years, and now I like a new bartender. How can one really know if he likes you or he's just playing around/being nice?

2007-06-10 12:14:39 · 18 answers · asked by So adorable 5 in Singles & Dating

i'm only 3 weeks pregnant with my bestfriend's husband,she has not idea.you NEED to READ THE WHOLE THING to UNDERSTAND my Messed up SITUATION.In 2006 my bestfriend asked me to ve a baby for them.She will never be able to get pregnant.They ve been married for 7yrs & they wanted a baby.I asked her to adopt but she wanted her husband to ve his own biological child.I was against this.I asked her to find another surrogate mom but she was afraid the woman may change her mind & not give them the child.I tried to say no but she cried & begged & was afraid of losing her husband.She said she trusted me & knew that i would keep it a secret 4 them.We had 3 meetings with husband & saw a councelor.I finally agreed to do it.

My bestfriend & i are from south Africa.We came together to the states 10yrs ago.Bcos of our cultural beliefs,we were supposed to keep it a secret & once the child was born,we would pretend it was her biological child,her family & mine would never know.they are in africa.

2007-06-10 12:10:49 · 72 answers · asked by Na 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 12:01:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce