Family & Relationships - 10 June 2007

How will I give to my boyfriend the feeling of security that I really love him?Specific actions...

2007-06-10 14:34:25 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my family members recently came in from out of town.And when she was in the bathroom pooping she didnt lock the door or turn the lights on so i thought that no one was in there so i walked in shut the door turned around and saw her pooping, i saw her bush,thong and her ****. i didnt know what to do so i sorta just stood there and she said ill be done in a sec.then right in front of me she got up wiped her privates and asked me to help her button her pants cause i was in there and i did and she didnt eve flush the toilet so i saw all her poop while i went im seeing her tommorow wat should i do please help

2007-06-10 14:33:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my husband and i have a great marriage. i let him look at porn and even other women when we are out. i look at guys and he has no problem with that either. its human nature. the problem is when he looks at porn it is always at other races. he will even look at very fat women of other races but he won't give a second glance to the prettiest skinniest woman of our race. we are both of the same race but i am the first woman of our race he has ever been with. he says i am different. i have given him everything he has asked for sexually except a threesome and neither of us wants that anyway. he has given me no indication that he wishes to return to the other race. i know he is attracted to me because he looks at me like i am the most beautiful woman he has ever seen but it bothers me big time the way he won't look at other women of our race. am i overreacting. all advice welcome but would really like to hear from the men. thanks in advance

2007-06-10 14:32:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just met his girl at work. She stares at me with a blank expression a lot. Ever since we broke the ice, she smiles at me and she looks directly in my eyes when I walk into the office. Even when I'm talking to a co-worker, she looks over at me as if she wants me to know she's paying attention to what I'm saying. I'm real nervous about asking her out, so I gotta know, should I go for it? Is she interested enough at all for me to a have a decent chance? We're in our 20's by the way.

2007-06-10 14:32:07 · 4 answers · asked by Stewie 2 in Singles & Dating

shes never kissed some one on the lips before but weve kissed on the cheeks and head and stuff like that . were goin out . shes told her best friend shes wanted to kiss me on the lips . whats the best way thats like remebered and can't really be skrewed up and what makes up a good kiss ?

2007-06-10 14:29:45 · 13 answers · asked by Vote For Madsen 2032 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend been together for 2 1/2 years our love was soo strong!but recently something came over me!!!i dont know what it is!!when we do it im not into it i barely wanna kiss him!!i feel like im tied down i dont know whats wrong?!it used to b like i wanted him near me 24/7 but now i dont know!!can some one tell me whats goin on?!i dont want to hurt him we are so close!!also we been having sex and i think i may be pregnante!!

2007-06-10 14:28:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend bought me a pair of earings for my birthday, 5 days ago, that cost $100. I asked him NOT to buy them for me because they were too expensive but he did anyway.

I really appreciate that he picked them out and bought them for me but to be honest I don't want a $100 pair of earings and I don't need them. I know he could use the money.

Would it be so rude if I returned them and gave him back the money.

2007-06-10 14:24:05 · 6 answers · asked by dalbana5 2 in Singles & Dating

counselor?? is that right if its not then re- write it the way its supposed to be written

2007-06-10 14:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by princess10196 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

MY BROTHER SERVED FOR THE VIETNAMESE ARMY BACK IN 70'S. HIS RANKING WAS FIRST LIEUTENANT FOR ARVN. HE WAS SENT TO THE USA BETWEEN 09/03/1969 TO 09/14/1970 TO ATTEND MILITARY TRAINING AT FORTH MONMOUTH, NEW JERSEY. HE GRADUTED WITH A DIPLOMA FROM THE ARMY SIGNAL SCHOOL AT FORTH MONMOUTH, NJ. HIS DIPLOMA WAS LOST AFTER SO MANY YEARS. HE WOULD LIKE TO OBTAIN A DUPLICATE HIS DISPOLMA TO PROVE THE US CONSUALTE IN VIETNAM THAT HE WAS INDEED IN THE USA FOR A PERIOD FROM 09/03/1969 TO 09/13/1970.

THE US CONSULATE DENIED HIS IMMIGRANT VISA TO THE USA DUE TO LACK OF EVIDENCES REGARDING HIS STAY IN THE USA THAT TIME. HE IS CURRENTLY ENTITLED TO HUMANTARIAN VISA UNDER JON MCCAIN ACT.

PLEASE HELP HIM TO OBTAIN HIS MILITARY SCHOOL RECORDS.

THANKS,

2007-06-10 14:23:05 · 2 answers · asked by FRANK V 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-husband keeps leaving me messages on my cell phone regarding our daughter(?) and us reconciling. Our daughter is 15 and he has sole physical and legal custody of her.

I don't return his phone calls because his messages are nasty and hurtful and our conversations go that way too. Nothing is agreed upon and the conversation goes in circles.

I did leave him a message saying that he can send our daughter to me. I will put in appropriate camps and classes. He got upset about the word camp because she is not doing well in school and needs to be in refresher classes.

Anything I say is used against me....

He has moved away from the state where they live and left her in his mother's care. I live in another state. Now, he has sold the home and keeps contacting me....

I am open to having our daughter come live with me. I will give her the help and support that she needs. I have told him this repeatedly.

I feel sad just hearing his angry voice on the voicemails.

2007-06-10 14:22:26 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 yrs. we have a beautiful lil girl. when he propose last yr i was really excited. he treats me lilke a queen. im spoiled!!! then i cheated.i feel so guilty.i told him.he was devasted but he want to work on it.i messed up.i think i did it because i wanted distance.i dont know how to react to things, especially marriage proposal. this is my first relationship that is long term.every day i feel like s!@%$. i want this to work out. i want me and him to be like we use to be.what should i do to make our relationship stronger....help???

2007-06-10 14:22:05 · 6 answers · asked by shanai 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 14:11:09 · 6 answers · asked by LonelyGalQQ 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the ideal women, height, weight, skin color, eye color, hair color, dress sense, etcetera………

2007-06-10 14:09:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and it's something really really really bad, but it was a few years ago and you're still thinking about it? it's gotten so bad that you feel real guilty and having nightmares. and you feel like you should have come forward and told somebody about it and you haven't. because you never told anyone and someone else got blamed for it who shouldn't have. And the person who should get blamed for it is really close to you, should you tell? and the person doesn't even know I know. nobody know's that I know. but if I do tell, people are going to say, why did i wait this long. and I don't want to see the guilty person get in trouble because they're family and the person who got blamed was a friend of the family. but it's real serious what they did. Why did i have to see?

2007-06-10 14:08:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been married to a man for8 years. In the 8 he has worked a total of 1 year . He has never been able to maintain a job. He sometimes leaves the house for two weeks at a time. I have done everthing to keep him out of my home. From locking and changing all locks, moving. Restraining orders. Telling him I don't love him. I hate him. It's better that we move our seperate ways. He somehow finds a way back inside my home. I can't even leave my bathroom window open or unlocked because he will climb in through there. He tells the police what ever they want to hear so they just ignore me when I call them. I live in a really good neighborhood. That it's emberassing to have the police over every day. I work 40 hrs a week, starting my own business. He does nothing all day. He sleeps all day. He doesn't help with house chores and eats all day. Whe asked to do something he say's he's not a slave. I'm to the point of commiting suicide. Thats the only way out

2007-06-10 14:03:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1st

at the church what happens? What do the guests do ? and do they wear the same clothes that are worn later during the party?

secondly at the part what is considered appropriate and what are the things I must avoid doing ? The bride is a good friend can I just wear a nice light pink dress (not very night-glamorous) and some shiny accessories is that fine ? Or do I have to wear something catchy ?

Finally, I wanna buy her a gift but I don't know when to give it to her (I was out of town when she did the bridal shower)


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2007-06-10 14:02:42 · 4 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 13:52:32 · 17 answers · asked by Terry R 1 in Weddings

I have known him about 5 or 6 weeks and i just added him on myspace and he likes me cause all through his baseball game we talked and his mom gave me the hint that he does! and i like hm alot but we are big rivals.What should i do??

2007-06-10 13:50:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seriously dating my boyfriend for almost a year, and it is a long distance relationship. I sometimes take a look at his my space profile, being curious and missing him. He recently updated his profile, and it says that he is there for networking, friends and DATING. It never said that before. I am not sure what to think or how or if I should confront him with this information. Serious advice only, please. Thank you for your help.

2007-06-10 13:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by Lola Vance 2 in Singles & Dating

the way i see it is change is inevitable. change can be good or bad. whether anyone likes it or not, everyone and everything changes. sometimes its for the good and sometimes it makes things worse.

in my opinion, everyone needs change. even if it's something small! the problem is people won't compromise with each other. even when it's something small. the slightest change can help save a relationship. learning how to adapt to the change is up to you!

so my question to you is, how do adapt to the changes (good or bad) in your life?

2007-06-10 13:42:04 · 2 answers · asked by Caffiene Junkie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If my girlfriend and I are on a"break" and she kisses someone, is that cheating? What if they're drunk? If she's in another country? Is it ever okay, or innocent, to kiss someone else? She tells her friends and relatives that she wants to be with me when she returns from the summer abroad, but should I even want to be with her? Or expect she won't kiss someone else when we're not on a "break"??

2007-06-10 13:38:56 · 34 answers · asked by TomPaine 2 in Singles & Dating

He has never kept her for more than 4 days before. I am getting really nervous about it. It seems like two weeks is an awfully long time for a child of 2 who has been raised completely by me for her entire life. He moved out of our home when she was barely a year old and has only had weekend visitation. He is also living with a woman who I have never met, but has already verbalized that she wants nothing to do with children, especially mine.

2007-06-10 13:35:14 · 9 answers · asked by imachevygirl2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I trusted my hubby so completely that when he admitted he cheated it devestated me. I have tried to get over this. I have forgiven but can't seem to forget. I don't trust him anymore! This hurts me more than I can say in words! Help! How can I forget and trust him again?

2007-06-10 13:34:03 · 34 answers · asked by Native Spirit 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 13:30:24 · 24 answers · asked by bballuvr53 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy I'm so in love with when we are togueter he makes me feel like the happiest women on earth. Is that just because he can be like that with any other girl because that is just his personality?

2007-06-10 13:27:25 · 3 answers · asked by Unique Love 1 in Singles & Dating

so my bro has told me 2 b careful around my bf and i got that question figured out..and i've been told 2 talk 2 my bro....should i talk wit my bf 2 c if anything that i have been told is true? im just trying 2 figure this out... i mean, me and him r so happy and i really love him

2007-06-10 13:25:12 · 4 answers · asked by Mandie K. 3 in Singles & Dating

Anybody have any input from any perspective?

2007-06-10 13:21:08 · 41 answers · asked by jlassw101 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fienace and I are not planning on registering, we already have what we need for a home. What we really need is money to help us get started and off set the cost of the wedding (we are paying for it). Is there any polite way to ask for money?

2007-06-10 13:20:37 · 23 answers · asked by Arria_11 1 in Weddings

found txt messages from a guy on wifes phone

2007-06-10 13:20:02 · 20 answers · asked by seth E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this too cruel of me to do to my fat friend? She says she's going to make my life a living hell after this is over.

2007-06-10 13:13:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends