How will I give to my boyfriend the feeling of security that I really love him?Specific actions...
2007-06-10 14:34:25 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Always be honest about your feelings (good or bad). Never lie to him. Respect his space and give him your trust as well. Don't snoop around and don't be clingy or possessive. He will need him time as you will need your she time.
2007-06-10 14:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by juicie813 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys are actually very on the surface. I guess I didn't have to tell you that. If you just tell him you love him and do small things for him now and then, you'll give him the sense of security. The only problem is that you can't really provide a lasting feeling of security just in the short-term. You'll need to keep reminding him that you love him and do those small things for him for a while before he'll start to feel confident. I can't say how long exactly because each person is different, but you'll win the confidence with him. Good Luck.
2007-06-10 21:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Stewie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck Security takes time and thats not always beneficial you should know if he is totally into you when both of you are out and about by his actions. your ages would help others to answer better.
2007-06-10 21:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Dave E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep things fresh. Do little things to surprise him. Like, sending thoughtful texts, hiding little love notes around the house. When I haven't been able to spend much time with my fiance I do stuff like that to remind him how much I think about him and love him. Or write I love you on the mirror in red lipstick :) Always works for me :)
2007-06-10 21:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The things that he does to make you feel respected, loved and secure, do those things for him too.
2007-06-10 21:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like being sarcastic but I will bite my tonge. Just show him you love him and you will do anything for him (not talking sexually). Listen to him complain about work.....does he feel you don't love him?
2007-06-10 21:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by I got 2 points for this answer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Security doesn't come from you, but from within him.
2007-06-10 21:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really is something that you cannot give to them, they have to have enough trust and belief in you that they feel it.
2007-06-10 21:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tellin him everyday and just being der for him throughout the time in need should do all the work.
2007-06-10 21:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him meaningful hugs? show puppy love--- its cute and its sincere- my girlfriend does it to me all the time and its great 8)
2007-06-10 21:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by flightattendantman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋