Is kissing cheating?

Question

If my girlfriend and I are on a"break" and she kisses someone, is that cheating? What if they're drunk? If she's in another country? Is it ever okay, or innocent, to kiss someone else? She tells her friends and relatives that she wants to be with me when she returns from the summer abroad, but should I even want to be with her? Or expect she won't kiss someone else when we're not on a "break"??

Answer 1

When you say you are on a 'break' it means you are no longer boyfriend and girlfriend. She could kiss 10 men and it still wouldnt be considered cheating.

But I would question how much she really wants to be with you. If I was going away for the summer I wouldnt break up with someone that I supposedly loved.

Answer 2

Dude, It is only a kiss. Furthermore, you two are on "break" mode and during the "break" mode, you two are consider as seperated, apart or simply, not related.

So it is perfectly ok for her to kiss someone. Even if she does have any sexual relationship with someone when you two are together, she is still not cheating on you. Cos legally, the two of you are not related. She does not needs to be answerable to you till she is married to you.

But we all regard it as affair cos when the two is in a relationship, we sort or assume that the couple is already together. It does not matter which country she is in, as long as she does not stay faithful, people will generally felt that she is cheating on you. What do you think?

Maybe you have to consider what is the defination of kiss to you. In certain country, a lips to lips kiss is only a display of friendship. In certain country, you are not even allow to touch the hand of a lady. Standard varies from country to country and there isn't a clear standard across the world.

I will like to post you a question. If the two of you are on a "break", and you meet someone who is very attractive, you had and one night stand with her, are you cheating on your (ex)girlfriend?

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Answer 3

okay this is my outlook on the whole situation. Technically what she is doing isn't wrong if you guys are on a "break" or whatever but its probablly more of a moral problem. Personally I think actions speak louder then words, and the way someone acts will always override wha they say. She can say "ooh i love you, i only want to be with you forever" and then goes out and kisses someone...that doesn't seem to very ethical does it? It all depends on how you want to look at it. More then likely you still love her and all even though you two are on a "break" but what are the terms of this "break"? you put them in quotations for a reason. so the best thing to do is sit down and think about how you want to look at the situation

Answer 4

First: Did she tell you about the kiss or did you find out another way? If she fessed up about it, more than likely it was 'cause she felt bad and wanted your forgiveness. That means to me that she still wants to be with you.

As for cheating, I believe that you can cheat on a person even without getting physical.

It's your call on whether to stay with her or not. The summer is just starting, so give it some time.

Answer 5

Depends if you both agreed to either meet new people or remain a couple and just have some time away from each other.
Yes it is cheating if you are only having a break.. and if you think it isn't then do you really want to be with someone who, is busy kissing others when she is meant to be considering your relationship.

Answer 6

I would never kiss a girl other than the one I love. I just wouldn't personally disrespect her like that. If you think she's planning on "breaks" in the relationship, you're just gonna be hurt. I'm sure you can find someone who is willing to be a woman and commit to a relationship. Maybe you should tell her that. Don't settle for her dude she's not mature enough to know what love is.

Answer 7

A kiss is never innocent when you kiss someone it means more than meets the eye but you are on a break in the relationship and kissing another guy isn't cheating to me cause you are on a break but it can cause unfaithfullness but also I believe in 2nd chances so you guys should give it another shot after all your on a break she realy isn't guilty of cheating and have faith in her

Answer 8

I would say kissing is cheating... When she kisses you does she do it cuz it means something to her- probably. Therefore if she kissed someone else then she probably felt something for them. Not saying she meant to cheat. If shes drunk i can see where the kiss came from the intox. But still if she tells her family that she wants to be with you then you should ask her " i know you say you want to be with me but do you love me?" Bc truely if she LOVES you a little kiss wont matter but if she cant answer that then she just wants to be with you. Thats all. And you shouldnt expect her to kiss someone else but just be aware. Trust her but dont put all your eggs in her basket. K.

Answer 9

Well, she tells everyone that she'll come back to your once she returns from summer abroad. She thinks she has the upper hand. She thinks that she's the only who can play. It might not be cheating if it happens during a "break" but still, it doesn't show sincererity in her feelings for you. She's not serious yet. It's better for you to take it easy. Don't rush.

Answer 10

Well you two are on a "break". So she can kiss someone. But it sounds like you don't want to be on break, so talk to her about getting back together. But she hasn't done anything wrong, because you guys are taking a break. You have no reason to suspect she will kiss someone when you aren't on break.