Family & Relationships - 10 June 2007

i have no idea what to do my husband is an alcoholic and he goes out binge drinking about twice a week he wants to get better and he tries to get help but keeps falling in the same cycle and he goes to stripclubs which bothers me a lot we have a baby together but whenever he drinks he always treats me bad like if i'm the on eto blame even if things are going really good he'll just disapear and wont come home till the next day i am so tired of this but i dont know what to do?

2007-06-10 15:59:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we ended on a bad note and i seen him today for the first time i was picking my son up at the park and my son pointed him out to me i got sick in my stomach was it because i cant stand him or i may still have feelings for him i felt really weird ty for your input jewels

2007-06-10 15:59:39 · 8 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think Cameron Diaz is so over-rated. I don't see what is so great about her. Not that great looking. Not that great of an actress. And in real life (interviews, talk shows) she seems like a bee-otch.

Who do you think is over-rated and why?

2007-06-10 15:59:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Will talk dirty then suddenly get offended by it when seconds ago I felt her have an orgasmn then another quickly after.

2007-06-10 15:54:07 · 12 answers · asked by maxsteel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like to consider myself pretty mature for my age. And I've never connected with someone like I do with him. He's not after me for sex, I mean he could have any girl he wanted. Is this all so wrong? I mean is age really that important?
+how can I possibly get my parents to understand?

2007-06-10 15:53:52 · 27 answers · asked by Taylor* 1 in Singles & Dating

do you honestly and truthfully believe that you would/could cheat on them?

If you do commit adultery, does that show a possibility that you truly don't love them by inflicting that kind of pain on someone?

If your spouse cheated on you, would it make a difference to you if it was a 1 night stand (sexual encounter) or a long standing affair?

Could you look past it & forgive them, even if you knew that it was a long standing affair, or is that unforgiveable?

If you felt like this was the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, have children & raise a family with, grow old with, could you do it? Even if there were problems between you, problems that could be fixed (no abuse, violence or prior adultery), would you look outside your marriage for answers?

Do you think that some people commit adultery as a way to irrevocably destroy a marriage?

I know this isn't just 1 question, but your feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time

2007-06-10 15:48:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just finished a question that made me think.
Some poeple get so offended by what people say when people take the time to respond to their questions. That people who are not nice should leave the site and get a life. Which is a good point for some.
But, what about free speech? As Americans, we know these days people can sue for any reason. Flipping someone off can get you a ticket for invoking road rage. But, here, we can speak our minds and should without a sensitive few on the never ending violation committee trying to cost us points.
What big cry babies you are!
So which are you?

2007-06-10 15:39:57 · 13 answers · asked by treasuredwife69 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What does that mean? We never have talked except for asking how each other is doing. I run into him a lot it seems.

2007-06-10 15:33:01 · 2 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 15:26:27 · 7 answers · asked by Jeff S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 15:24:31 · 2 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

I am a stay at home mom and my husband is the one who brings home the money.We have been together for 9 years married 1 year and have a 3 year old daughter 2gether.My problem is that we rarely spend any time with each other and I miss him very much.He's always working or always sleeping.He sometimes works 16 hour shifts.Don't get me wrong-I APPRECIATE HIM GREATLY! But, I feel that we have become more distant from one another.His hours vary, but a majority of the time he works 3rd shift so he sleeps all morning and afternoon and wakes up when my daughter and i fall 2 sleep.I try and stay up with him thru the night but, its hard bcus our daughter wakes up early in the morning and i am the one who stays up with HER. When my husband sleeps during the afternoon I like to try and wake him up.I give him some coffee, which he loves or our daughter will wake him up.He complains to me and says that I am only thinking about myself.I enjoy being with him very much.He and my daughter are my world.

2007-06-10 15:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by shysinsmile 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What would be your reasons to do so?

2007-06-10 15:21:28 · 25 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy in my class i want to flirt with, but i need a way to flirt that gets the point across without going overboard with it. Im also a little nervous about approaching guys that i like.

2007-06-10 15:19:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Got married Oct '05, my husband had picked out and put a down payment on my 1 1/2 caret engagement & wedding bands, but we finished paying for them together after we were married. Now we are separated and going through a divorce - who keeps my rings? No kids, by the way. And I know, shouldn't have married a bum who couldn't pay for the rings by himself anyway, but those comments aren't necessary. I already know :)
Thanks.

2007-06-10 15:18:44 · 16 answers · asked by chels929 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 15:03:19 · 3 answers · asked by Why So Serious =] 3 in Singles & Dating

We used to be together
nothing could tear us apart,
but even before we got to hold hands,
he drifted apart.

he broke up with me
soon after that,
he fell in love
with my BEST FRIEND..

I couldn't believe it,
my best friend loved him too.
they ignored my feelings,
the suicidal thoughts in my head too.

I've loved him
for 1 and 1/2 years now,
i pretend to be happy for then,
when all i wanna do is cry now..

he hugged her and
held her so tight
i stood there and wished,
that i was the girl, that night.

he left me broken hearted,
and up till today,
i can't mend my heart,
i can't make the pain go away.

it hurts to see them,
so close and so loving
i wanna runaway,
from problems this pain brings..

i can't stand to see them together.. I was recovering so well and yet, when i saw them hugging and holding hands, i wished so so badly that it was me. i wished so so much that i could still be with him.. i still can't get over him.. someone help me get over him please.. it hurts

2007-06-10 14:55:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

for some sick reason, decide to have a baby,

Will the baby also be the daughters brother or sister and Child?

Yeah um me and my friends for some reason were talking about inbreeding on a long flight from chicago today

and yes i know its sick

2007-06-10 14:53:53 · 7 answers · asked by Catherine 3 in Family

after you found out your spouse had an affair and then he/she left? I guess I am a cliche - I bought a sports car, had a one night stand with someone 10 years younger than I am and got a tattoo?

Then...I moved on. Anyone else??

2007-06-10 14:52:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 14:47:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to mary this girl one day, and it hurts her that her parents wont accept who she decides to love. She is upset all the time about it. Its starting to get to me that she feels this way. I feel like I am putting her through all this drama with her parents, but she reassures me that its not me. I feel that her parents are missing out on our children when we have some, over the color of my skin. They wont meet me, and never want to meet me. Will they ever come to their senses?

2007-06-10 14:46:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to ask this question in this section and in other sections because I think the answers I get could be interesting.

Would You Live Alone for the rest of your life on a Island?
(Without humans or pets and you had to eat by just cacthing fish from the Ocean and get food from the trees on the island)

I WOULD Heck yeah!

I think it would be SOOOOOOO Wonderful!!!!!!1

No more City, Humans, Pets etc.

2007-06-10 14:45:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so this whole thing started when i was 11 years old, i met this girl who just literally made my heart drop ive been head over heels for her ever since then. i am now 17 years old and had just recently gotten up the guts to tell her that i love her
and she rejected me yet like 3 days later she kissed me and now she acts like she hates me. what can i do?? i know this is the girl i want to marry someday, How can i show her that i care about her more than anyone else?? Please help

2007-06-10 14:41:33 · 11 answers · asked by Matthew W 1 in Singles & Dating

problem is i want to wait till marriage is that a bad idea or will he get frusterated since its been 3 years together and no sex

2007-06-10 14:40:02 · 6 answers · asked by crystalf 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-10 14:39:28 · 9 answers · asked by enzyme 305 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is my bff. we are entering high school. she is not a virgin anymore( i still am and im planing to stay one until i get married) and iwaled in on her while she was having sex with her neighbor. (oh im using my little sister's account so dont think she is weird. im 16 and she is 14) what should i do?

2007-06-10 14:38:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-10 14:38:25 · 2 answers · asked by n_e_g_r_a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband hates it when i talk to other people. he expects me to go to bed when he does and if i do not he sets the alarm to make sure i do not go outside. he hates it when i help my family out. he inspects the house every day and if he finds a scratch or piece of dirt he makes blames me. I do not know whether to tell his family about the way he treats me. I really want to leave but he always black mails me. who can i talk to.

2007-06-10 14:37:37 · 25 answers · asked by jazzy1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on one of my friends but I know that she doesn't like me and I think she has a crush on one of my other friends. I still like her, but should I give up on her or what should I do?

2007-06-10 14:35:05 · 9 answers · asked by the_kid808 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been together for a year and a half, he's 17 and i'm 19 and we have a 4 month old baby together, only problems we ever had was arguin, but we had broke up on some stupid stuff, so he said that he wanted to be friends that have sex so i agreed then 1 night he was watchin the baby n when i went to get her a girl had called(she's bisexual and she likes him) so i got mad cuz he sounded so nice to her but the previous night i had called him about 11:45 n we hung up about 12:30 but we she called it was 12:45 n he wasn't mad at all so i jumped on him n hit him at least 10 times i apologized he aint want 2 hear it he said it's over 4 good, a few days later we were textin each other n he was just bein so mean then he told me that girl is his girlfriend now, we've only been broken up 4 a month how can he move on that quick n i know for a fact he didn't cheat on me, now i might be pregnant with his child again, tell me wut u think about the situation, i love him more than anything HELP!!

2007-06-10 14:35:01 · 2 answers · asked by Tay-N-Tasha 1 in Singles & Dating

weed enhances my intelligence....no joke!! So im 23 and tried it for the first time ... my mind started racing with many thoughts, ideas, explanations and solutions to probloms i never though about..anyhow...while im stuck in the moment i realize..wow that was a good analysis to what ever i was thinking about,,but then when i try to say it again,,POOF its gone..and no matter how much i try to remember i cant..then i move on to thinking about something else,...oh yeah and i finally experienced the munchies....i ate ceral...and it tasted like the best ceral i had ever tasted...even though i eat it every morning..lol
can u relate,if so how...oh..i placed this under friends because i did not know where to ask under...sorry if i have ofended anyone.

2007-06-10 14:34:41 · 8 answers · asked by ladidadi 1 in Friends