I like to consider myself pretty mature for my age. And I've never connected with someone like I do with him. He's not after me for sex, I mean he could have any girl he wanted. Is this all so wrong? I mean is age really that important?
+how can I possibly get my parents to understand?
2007-06-10 15:53:52 · 27 answers · asked by Taylor* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, no, that's like, very bad. Lemme know where he lives so I, as a responsible male, can beat him down to the point he realizes that a 15 year old is a bad idea. It's also illegal.
2007-06-10 16:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much what everyone else said.
Get away, little girl. You've never connected with someone like you do with him? You're still young and naive. He knows what to say and do to lure you in. It's more than a 90% chance that he's in it for the sex. And as for him being able to have any girl he wants..he probably already does. Don't get your hopes up. Just find someone else closer to your age. As long as you're not messing around with him, there will be no explaining anything to your parents. Your parents would probably ground you so fast if they found out you were messing around with a 21 year old. Just save everyone the hassel and ditch him.
I'm sorry to sound so "mean" but it's the truth. And sometimes, the truth hurts.
2007-06-10 16:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by michelle b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not wrong for you to be attracted to him. But it is creepy that he would be attracted to someone so much younger than him. 100 years ago this wouldn't seem so odd but in today's time it's just very off-putting. I think once you turn 21 and you think about this situation again, you'll understand how creepy it is. I mean really, do you think you'll be attracted to 15 yr olds when you're 21? Or pursue them?
If you are as mature as you say you are, I think this might be a good time for you to make a mature decision, as hard as it will be, and stay away from him. Trust me.
2007-06-10 16:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Versi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry - 21 year old guys are horn-dogs. If he isn't pushing for sex with you, he is going for it somewhere else. He might find you more mature than most 15 year olds and might find your innocence refreshing, but it won't last long. Find a guy under 17 and date him. The 21 year old lives in a different world - don't be so quick to become a part of this world.
2007-06-10 16:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's all so wrong. Yes, age is really that important, and you can't possibly get your parents to understand. I'll give him the benefit of the doubt, and say he doesn't want sex from you. If that's the case, and he likes you that much, he can wait a few years.
2007-06-10 15:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is 21 and talking to a 15 year old? There is something very wrong with that I don't care how mature you are. If I was your father I would kick the Shi* out of him and call the cops. What would he want with such a young girl? I smell pedophile.
2007-06-10 15:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who, when she was 16, "dated" a guy who was 23. All that ended up as was a lot of unprotected sex, an almost teen pregnancy, and him leaving after the summer to go meet up with his longtime girlfriend across the country.
Don't do it. A guy who is that much older than you and "could get any girl he wanted" is obviously after something he knows older, possibly more wary women won't give him.
2007-06-10 15:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok im a guy whose 18 and i know for a fact that pretty gross, i mean if i were to date a girl whose 6 years younger then me, that means she would have to be 12, and i think thats even more gross...in my opinion guys are after one thing, no matter what they tell you...no matter how many times they say they dont...THEY DO...please do not go with this guy...i mean if hes after a 15 year old, he could not possibly get another girl...and even if he could...your in school for 8 hours...he could be with another girl!!!...maybe even more!! you never know...just dont...too much heart ache for a girl your age...
2007-06-10 16:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by zero_tk_123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mature or not, you are 15 and he is 21. There is no reason for you to have a relatioship with an adult. If he cares about you he will step away. If you are both still intrested in each other when you are 18-19, give it a go.
2007-06-10 15:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by parental unit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes he is after sex . dont trust him. i'm 14 so i would never go out with a 21 year old. the major difference u r in high school he is in college, he can go to a club and drink u cant..... did i mention he is 21. leave him alone. the oldest guy i ever dated was 17 so 3 yrs older than me..... hangout with people who r ur age or maybe a lil older, but oldest 18... for gods sake he is 21, he is probably very horny. i wouldnt trust him , be careful... he defiinetly want to get laid. he is doing this so he can have ur trust and boom!!! u r in the bed with him and he leaves u after that!!!!!! no one can tell u who to date but urself my point is be plz careful!!!!!!!
2007-06-11 08:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋