Will talk dirty then suddenly get offended by it when seconds ago I felt her have an orgasmn then another quickly after.
2007-06-10 15:54:07 · 12 answers · asked by maxsteel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
question your no sense makes.
2007-06-10 15:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by steffers27 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well she really cant help it its the whole "its bad or dirty" thing. Try to mellow out the dirty talk after you know she is satisfied just long enough for the afterglow (you dont have to stop what you are DOING though) to fade. Let her know you love her in that moment and that you want more than a f***. She might respond better to the dirty talk after you have confirmed your love for her when she was most vulnerable.
2007-06-12 10:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by littlefariemom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may like the dirty talk before she orgasms. After she orgasms she may feel "feel dirty" and not like doing it any more. Try to talk to her about this in a non sexual setting. Reassure her that the dirty talk is just "pillow talk" and you know that you still respect and trust her. Good Luck. I've been there. Email me if you want to discuss further. Mike
2007-06-10 16:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by texas mikey 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to talk to her - tell her exactly like you just told us. She can't be setting up unspoken rules that are completely inflexible. What's okay in the bedroom one minute should be fine anytime in the bedroom. Otherwise, she needs to stay away from talking dirty or getting into it when you do. It's either acceptable to her or not...
2007-06-10 16:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The most likely reason is that she feels guilty when talking dirty. She has a feeling inside of her that you are disrespecting her by speaking to her in this way. I say give her time and try to get her more comfortable.
2007-06-10 15:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure she is afraid that your feelings for her will change for the the things she says. You'll have to reassure her that you understand it is all in fun. I understand a little because lately I try to "talk dirty" to my husband and he says "you're pregnant it'll pass". (he thinks it's just pregnancy hormones). I really feel this way (hormones or not) and it bothers me when he won't "play along".
2007-06-10 16:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Hope P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like she's being a little selfish. she really likes the dirty talk until she get's what she want's, then when she's satisfied, she wants it to stop even though you may not be satisfied yet. you should talk to her and let her know how it's making you feel. she should be just as willing to please you as you are her.
Good Luck.
2007-06-11 10:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so the second that she's done having her fun the dirty talk suddenly is nasty and she doesn't like it anymore? tell her how you feel. tell her that she at least has to keep it up until you are finished.
2007-06-10 15:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just dont talk dirty....make normal sounds .If she complains that you didnt talk dirty..tell her why.
2007-06-10 18:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by ...Tammy... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When having sex why not just moan and not say much like most of us? If you dont like what she does either be quiet or confront her about it dude.
2007-06-10 16:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋