We used to be together
nothing could tear us apart,
but even before we got to hold hands,
he drifted apart.
he broke up with me
soon after that,
he fell in love
with my BEST FRIEND..
I couldn't believe it,
my best friend loved him too.
they ignored my feelings,
the suicidal thoughts in my head too.
I've loved him
for 1 and 1/2 years now,
i pretend to be happy for then,
when all i wanna do is cry now..
he hugged her and
held her so tight
i stood there and wished,
that i was the girl, that night.
he left me broken hearted,
and up till today,
i can't mend my heart,
i can't make the pain go away.
it hurts to see them,
so close and so loving
i wanna runaway,
from problems this pain brings..
i can't stand to see them together.. I was recovering so well and yet, when i saw them hugging and holding hands, i wished so so badly that it was me. i wished so so much that i could still be with him.. i still can't get over him.. someone help me get over him please.. it hurts
2007-06-10 14:55:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You wish you had that togetherness with someone. I wonder if you should be pining for it from him? It will get better and you will find someone else who is only for you. It will take time. In the meantime, try not to frequent the same places you know you will see him. Go and volunteer somewhere. It always cheers up the people you are volunteering with and it will lighten your spirit.
Sometimes we have to go through these things in order to appreciate the real person that God has to offer us when the time is right. I will pray for your pain to ease and your heart be open to a new love. One that you know will be forever....
2007-06-10 15:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Recovering from a lost love is not easy, especially if the person you loved is with your best friend. And Your heart will hurt for some time. But in time things do heal. Find someone that You know that you can talk with. that will keep your information private. And talk it all out. I wish You the best. It sounds corny but time does heal hurts.
2007-06-10 22:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by lostangel829 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww I'm sorry, that's unfortunate. It's also sad that you'd consider someone a best friend, even though they consciously hurt you by being with the person you love most. Best advice; ditch the friend and try your hardest to avoid the guy and get over him. If he'll hurt you like that, he's definitely not worth the trouble of missing and wasting time crying over.
2007-06-10 21:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a horrible situation to be in but there's nothing that anyone can do or say to take the pain away. You just gotta give it time. In the mean time, why don't you try to keep yourself busy. If you're best friend is with him and she knew how you felt about it, maybe you need to rethink your friendship with her. If I were you I wouldn't have anything to do with her anymore because all it does is make you feel depressed when you see them together. So, keep yourself busy, try to keep your mind off of him, focus your thoughts on something else, and stop hanging with her, or talking to her. That's all anyone can tell you to do to help. Because honestly you just have to give it time. Eventually the pain will go away. All things heal in time.
2007-06-10 22:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know from personal experience that it is easier said than done, but get over him he is not worth it... focus on other things... like school... your future... even other friends... or even guys... but you dont need a guy to be successful and happy... you will find the prince charming in your life at the right moment... for now focus on other thing.s... not guys... and try to make other friends...getting a job helps if you don't already have one.. wish you the best :)
2007-06-10 22:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to watch a guy that you love be with someone else. But, you just have to make it apart of you and move on with your life. That is the hardest part, but I am sure you can make it.
I did.
2007-06-10 21:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by roseygurl99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is move on with your life, the only thing that can take the pain away is time it took me 6 months.
2007-06-10 22:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by Line Straddler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably doing it to get you jealous so try to get him jealous like go out with his best friend and flirt move on as fast as you can
And never talk to your friend for going out with your ex
well i really dont kno you Id go with the first one if i was you
And for get about him you were gonna move on anyway sooner or later besides how old are you anyway if your young what the f.uckk are you talking about young kids dont know the meaning of love
2007-06-10 22:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by GG9303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could could help
I feel kind of like that too
I guess just imagine there could be somebody even better maybe, then become skinny and rich and get somebody
2007-06-10 21:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The exact same thing happened to me except switch the genders still asking myself that question
2007-06-10 21:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by Chambo25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋