Family & Relationships - 10 June 2007

but he still has it made up in his mind. How do I start to seperate myself from a man I love dearly because I don't ever think he'll marry me or is just too scared to do it?

2007-06-10 11:53:29 · 14 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Currently me and my husband are separated. He says he loves me and still wants to be with me but that so much arguements are making him doubt. He says he needs his time to figure out what he wants. I've started praying and believe that praying to God will help. I have prayed for other things such as my grades and it worked and I always offer something to God in return to show my gratiude. I prayed to God to help me save my marriage and help my husband clear he's doubts. I offered God that I would become a better person by volunterring to help children, which I've already started appyling to agencies to help out. I believe that my faith and my sincere believe in God will help. Am I mistaken? Any suggestions will help.

2007-06-10 11:51:18 · 31 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay..so there's this guy I really really like. We have softball all summer so I get to see him every week. I made cupcakes for our team but made sure there was one left for the guy I like. My dad knows I like him and he is okay with that. So I was to shy to go over and give him the cupcake. Dad took it and gave it to him and told him it was from me. he was up next at bat so he shoved it in his mouth. (we were sitting right by homeplate) He got home and punced on homeplate(I've watched him play before and he NEVER did that before).He looked over as he got home. He came right by me and dad told him to Stop. He stoped and dad said she wants a pic. He was like cool.......he said I'm always ready for my pic. He turned bright red after I took the pic.
So do you think he likes me???? or will I have to add more details on other things that makes me think he likes me?? Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-10 11:46:17 · 23 answers · asked by Kutie22 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is my stance. It seems as if women have this "girlfriend rule". It like they feel they are exempt to using discretion from time to time when speaking of the opposite sex in a public setting especially when other women are joining in on the party...I am not a male pig who hates women...I have no bias...I just feel that married men and women should use extreme discretion and maintain the up most respect for their SO when speaking or making comments aloud regarding attraction, special feelings, or vivid details when referencing the opposite sex (especially in my case because I have always practiced what i preached and adamantly expressed to my wife that I would never appreciate if she did that)...It's a thin line to walk when dealing with this issue especially since my wife and I talk about anything including the opposite sex, past relationships, mistakes made with regard to the opposite sex, sexual encounters, anything, but we definitely uphold the up most respect when doing so. I feel as if I was some jealous lousy ****** that she would not feel that she could "walk the line" and cross it from time to time as many men and woman do? any thoughts? am I out of line here?

2007-06-10 11:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Intellect 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a group of friends who I really get along with well, and who have been good friends with me since I moved to NB, but the problem is they're all very shallow. All that they care about is partying, members of the opposite sex, drugs, clothes, and gossip. These issues seem small & petty to me, and they don't really fulfill my appetite.

I wish I had friends who were more interested in talking in-depth about politics, spirituality, literature, music and other issues. I go through a lot of strange crises involving a bigger picture and I have a hard time being fulfilled by this shallow teen party thing. I sometimes feel like I don't have anyone to talk to about bigger issues, and I don't mean to sound cocky but I sometimes feel like I am smarter than most of my friends so I have to get on their level to have a relationship, whilst they cannot always understand things I wish to explore.

I don't want to lose my friends, but what do I do to feel less alone and to satisfy my mind?

2007-06-10 11:40:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 25 and 've been dating with my girl frined for almost three years. I am still going to college and I want to transfer to university, it should be take about 4 more years. My girl friend has asked me many times about our furture and she said that we could marry and have kids while we going to school but i refused that coz she has support from her family for going to school but i don't. I used to asked her if we could work as a full-time, so we support our family together but she said she must graduate university coz she promised her mom. If we get marry then have kids I will take the most responsiblity for the family. I have to stop school then find a full time job and save money but when i think about my furture,,,,what if she leave me?? or what if we divorce?? I will grt notthing, no degree, no money???but pay a lot of money for child support or anything i must pay''''..i really dont know how to decide???

2007-06-10 11:32:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 11:31:18 · 3 answers · asked by Geoffrey G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After a lot of arguing, my husband finally told me that he has a flirting problem. He likes to flirt with girls. I don't like it. The things he says to these girls, in my opinion, are innapropriate and he admits if he caught me saying these same things he would leave me. I want our marriage to work but he just says that it is just the way he is and he can't change. We can't afford marriage counseling. I want to make this work and I think he does to but I can't trust him, and he doesn't give me a reason to. I don't believe in divorce but someone's got to give.

2007-06-10 11:25:33 · 30 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Murders, arsons, school killings, I could go on and on. What do you believe is the deterioration of our society?

2007-06-10 11:22:58 · 19 answers · asked by mamabair 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why when you meet someone the first question they ask is what do you do for a living?
Its like they mentally asses yo by what you do for a living, if a road sweeper is happy and looks after his family well, isn't that better than someone who is so stressed by trying to impress everyone, that he is to stressed to enjoy life and family., and paying of the loan on his porsche! BTW I am a hairdresser and happy. i think its how happy and content we are that is the issue not having the biggest house or big car.

2007-06-10 11:17:23 · 17 answers · asked by bob B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 11:10:51 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there any hope he will come home or what can I do to help him choose to come home. We have 2 kids left at home who are completely devastated. I miss him so much.

2007-06-10 11:08:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is a guy,we've been talkin on n off.he will talk 2 me for a while n thenjust stop talkin, get mad, or ignore me.we've talked off n on since like feb.when he stops talking 2 me i dont even try n chase him.he tells me he likes me n all this stuff,n then all of a sudden he stops talking to me.idk why he does it n what the point.i like him n dont @ the sametime cause the things he does makes me mad.theres still apart of me that likes him alot.we went out 4 a week but he didnt talk to me @ skool.he didnt even act like i was there.he didnt call me 4 a while but then l8r on in the week he said that he got his phone taken away.n i believe that cause he gets it taken away alot.but he didnt even make a point to tell me that @ school.n then l8r on the next wkend i was @ dads n everything was cool n then he just hangs up on me idk y tho.n he told me he never liked me.then we didnt talk 4 a week n he started callin again.nthen last wk he started ignorin calls.but talks on comp.wat shuld ido?

2007-06-10 11:02:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi

I m ugly man and poor
I didn't find a beautiful girl real

do I need to live more, I think I must die
no girl want me I dont want live anymore

2007-06-10 11:02:13 · 9 answers · asked by james Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

i've heard many people say that sex physically hurts them. i'im a virgin, and i'm very curious to find out if it's true...if you know, please let me know

2007-06-10 11:01:53 · 41 answers · asked by joelle a 1 in Singles & Dating

I am egyptian , catholic but all my friends say i look jewish and i look like david baddiel and he is jewish by the way .also they say i must have irish blood coz i got red hair in my beard while my hair all over is dark black .so i would like to find a way to trace my family to know if i am really jewish or i have irish blood ,especially that i love irish people and also jewish so maybe that's coz i know deep in my mind i am one of them or what ??? i am 25 male , i am optician , D.J , travel advisor , computer teacher and computer technician .

2007-06-10 10:57:49 · 5 answers · asked by menamelad2010 1 in Family

I need a good laugh about now, things are rough and I need something to cheer me up. Anyone know of any funny or cute websites to go on?

2007-06-10 10:56:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Iv known this lad now for around 3 years and we get on really well.. Well he has a girlfriend and they have been together ages (years)..
For some reason when ever i see him out in pub or club he always straight away comes over to me and doesnt leave me alone..
He flets,dances with me and tells me how gorgeous i am witch would be fine but i feel really bad because he has a girlfriend..
I thought maybe him n his girlfriend were maybe not going to well so thats why he was acting like this,, but they moved in together a few mounths ago so it must be all good at home.
Am really confussed i get the signals from him and am sure if i really wanted to he would cheat on his gf.
why is he acting like this..
Its making me feel as though am doin somethin wrong!!

2007-06-10 10:56:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone think it would be wrong for me to do it with my cousins, of which has told me she likes me and we have touched eachother and do mess around at times im 20 but she is only 15. she has told me she wants to do it with me. now she is my cousin because she is the daughter of my cousins wife, she isnt my neice because her father is some other guy and my cousin just married her a while back ago, so really we arent related. what is the advice here?"

2007-06-10 10:54:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok one of my best friend who's a girl, weve know each other since we were 2 yrs old. ok my other best friend who's a guy since we were maybe 16. so we are both over seas in the army right now he met my girl best friend last year at my house we were having a BBQ so since then they felt for each other they were suppose to get married in a few weeks when he come home so he told her he's like to wait a while then later figured out he cant live without her so now he's plannig a supprise wedding for her with his fams i mean she loves his fams im just not sure about the supprise wedding since she loves him and he knows her on a loving level i guess they'll be alright. but just in case should i warned her but i dont wanna mess up my best buddies up you know.

2007-06-10 10:53:21 · 20 answers · asked by john c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every since me and my husband Geogre had our 3 child he has been visiting his ex-wife Vicky. He tells me that their just friends. We've had picnics together and everything else so I'm not sure if I have the right to say anything. But sometimes I feel worried when I go out of town. One time I went on a trip by myself and the CHILDREN told me that he'd visited Vicky again. Makes me scared that Geogre didn't tell me... Am I overreacting? Should I pull out divorce papers?

2007-06-10 10:48:43 · 16 answers · asked by simmersrock24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Any body ever go to Newark NJ.
Either you sexy or you a crack head....
But anyway.
Im.....
I just go crazy in my mind.

When I was five years old it was girls who use to.......
Touch me.
You know what I mean right???????
:(
That made me hate girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yuck!!!!!!!!!!
I cant stand them!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anyway.
I love men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have dreams of them.
:)
I had 10 boyfriends.
At one time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
And boy did I enjoy it.
All older men baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Im still a teen.
I can get a 25 year old man if I wanted to.
I can really please them.Lol
People say that im too young.
(Im am)
I not even old enough to smoke.

2007-06-10 10:47:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am deeply turned on by my husband. He is good to me and my child. we have aswome sex, yet my body craves him even more.
Is there something wrong with me, or should I be feeling this way?

2007-06-10 10:45:55 · 6 answers · asked by planet372000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love him and I LOVE IT when he's romantic, but sometimes, it just makes me wanna puke!! like sometimes we will be watching a movie w/ his little sister who is 7, and he was rub my sholders and play with my hair and whisper things to me, but we are watching finding nemo or something. and he acts all romantic at the most unappropriate times, it makes me wanna vomit sometimes.

2007-06-10 10:40:52 · 8 answers · asked by sosweet1542 1 in Singles & Dating

So I have a new bf...People are making up rumors about me like that I just want a bf. And really deep down I like him, but I don't really know him, he's been in the other class. I wont be able to see him in the summer until school. I don't know if I should call him. My friends are saying, "If you don't like him, dump him!" and I just wanna give him a chance! I really do like him! What should I do?

2007-06-10 10:38:07 · 7 answers · asked by heather. 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, I am 15. I have chest hair, and i have really nice pecs and abs, but i feel the hair is covering them up. Should i shave it off, and would you prefer a guy with chest hair or without chest hair?

2007-06-10 10:38:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have liked this guy Adam for such a long time and everybody knows he likes me too, but i just gave up on him because i figured he would never ask me out, and he was being kind of a jerk...and my friend Matt who i told everything, i realized i liked him, and i told Matt that i liked him(matt)...he didnt really say much about it but now i am liking adam again, because Adam finally made a move on me after i told matt i liked him...a day after i told matt i liked him i dont like him anymore..what should i do, like adam? or tell matt i dont like him? i am so confused helllpppp

2007-06-10 10:36:12 · 3 answers · asked by chillnchica033 3 in Singles & Dating

Tell me if each of these is right for a taken guy to do

1. hang out with another girl alone (like ask another girl to go out to eat alone)
2. get a lapdance from another girl
3. have pictures of girls making out and grinding on his phone
4. get drunk with another girl in his car
5. take off his shirt at a party

tell me what you think about each onee.

2007-06-10 10:33:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 10:29:48 · 3 answers · asked by qtjam 1 in Singles & Dating

You ask a guy you liked who was the girl you saw him with & he tells you that she's just a friend & he made it a habit to be around you, talk, calling you out in crouds & flirt even had a way to intimidate other guys from coming around you, but later that year he says that the girl you saw was actually his girlfriend for about a year, but says that he didnt lie cause he didnt go out with you...what would you think of him?

2007-06-10 10:29:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating