Family & Relationships - 10 June 2007

should i leave my boyfriend of 7 yrs because when we weren't together he got the girl he was seeing pregnant? should i stay by his side or leave?

2007-06-10 07:53:57 · 9 answers · asked by CRYSTAL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im trying to find a link to the past of my family name so as that i can look for my family tree

2007-06-10 07:52:58 · 3 answers · asked by mark m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have separated. I moved out yesterday into my sisters for the week as she is on holiday and the arguments and fights were just getting worse. He decided to end the marriage and has blamed me and hurt me terriblly including verbal and physical harm. He threatened to seek custody of our son, even though he knows this would kill me. So i moved out hoping it would give me peace and the space he has craved away from me. Well i have only been away 1 night and his attitude has changed. He cam onto messenger saying how sorry he was and he never meant for this to happen. Then told me to come back home and to just put our relationship on hold but to live together. Surely if he doesnt want me he would be happy that i am making moves to separate? His behaviour confuses me and after the way he has been this past month, to suddenly ask me back home..what is that meant to mean?

2007-06-10 07:38:21 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is there anything i can say to strike up a conversation or something?

2007-06-10 07:37:17 · 7 answers · asked by heartzgirl007 1 in Singles & Dating

i am wanting a divorce from my husband who lives in Georgia and i live in texas. and i am wanting to get full custody of our 6 year old son. but do i have to file where he lives, and does he have to file where i live? i am not sure how this works. please help me so i know what to do. thank you

2007-06-10 07:36:47 · 3 answers · asked by bailey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont want the kid get put into care, the kid is 9 and wants to live me my family, the mother will say yes

2007-06-10 07:32:57 · 10 answers · asked by amrasbestos.com 1 in Family

I have broken up with my husband we were not really married but we lived together for more than 20 years and we both have 2 young adults. He left us for some other woman and we both bought a house 7 years ago but the house title is under his name and i don't appear on it and im affraid that he is going to kick us all out. I want to know what i could do to keep the house and if i have anyt rights because i know that the law only covers people who are married but in my case i am not married and both of my kids are over 18 please write me back with any comments or concerns.

2007-06-10 07:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by yamilinho 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay.. . . In February, my best friend Heather moved unexpectedly (She lived in a house with about 8 other people, and her aunt would keep having fights with her almost everyday over tiny things) so her mom took Heather and they moved a few districts away and are now living with her moms boyfriend. Well, from that point on, we could only use the phone,internet,and writing letters to contact each other. I couldn't call very often. Same thing with her boyfriend, James (He is a plot point, sort of). I got her number and address, and a few days after she moved, she had gotten a new boyfriend. Two days afterward, she broke up with James. By then, I had gotten really close to James. Heather got really mad two weeks later when me and James started going out. Well.. she and our friend Carson began to attack me with insults on IM and myspace. And now, our friend Brian said that Heather really only wanted to talk to me. (see extra details, I'm not done yet)

2007-06-10 07:19:31 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

I was dumped6 wks ago. I had no idea it was coming &he never gave me a straight answer as 2why. He messed my head around, breaking up, asking me back then dumping me 4good. said it wasnt right 4 him anymore. Im so hurt&upset &miss him so much. I left it a week then we met up but he still said he didnt want me. we work 2getha so see him everyday &its tearing me up. I really want him back, i miss him so much&thought he was 'the one', I even told him that when we got back together the 1st time. Every1 says move on, but i can't&i don't want to. He says he still fancies me&a wk after we split 4good he said he still loved me when i asked him. Lst wk we had sex in his car- he refused to take me to his as he said hes "meant 2b moving on" i just needed2feel close 2him again. Afterwards he said it didnt change things! he went 2cinema fri &wouldnt say who with-i think it was a girl. We were perfect 2getha&i love him! why would he say he still loves me but not wana b with me?how do i get him back?

2007-06-10 07:17:05 · 14 answers · asked by JamJar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 07:16:54 · 9 answers · asked by crazygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 07:16:05 · 6 answers · asked by crazygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

You know how a childhood summer should be- get up at 11, roam free until dinnertime, ride your bike, go on vacation. But my family was different. We woke up at 9, stayed inside until almost noon, came in every hour to "Check in", and came in for dinnertime at 6. I couldn't go into the frontyard until I was seven, and couldn't even cross my (residential) street until I was almost ten. Still, at 14, I can't go into ANYBODY'S house unless I go through a 1/2 hour begging session, can't go onto the next street over, or go to the park 2 blocks away to hang out with my friends. My family has been on one vacation, not even out of state vacation at that. The only time we went out of state is to North Carolina to visit my grandparents, and now they live in St. Louis with me. STL County, by the way, which is low on crime. Also, my dad is always angry at the rest of the family. Did I have a bad childhood, and is it too late to make up for lost time?

2007-06-10 07:08:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I had a friend that we met a year ago. He started acting differently towards me like turning red in the face, trying to talk to me more, I thought he was my secret pal for a while. Now, we are not talking. But, sometimes when we have talked it is like he is talking what he can't speak by looking into my eyes in a way. It is like we don't know what to say but we see it in each other's eyes.

2007-06-10 07:07:24 · 5 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Friends

I need help in dealing with my husband. Currently his ex wife is taking him to court to increas her child support. When they divorced they agreed to 15% of his income and he pays for medical care. He has paid that on time every time and never once been late. No suddenly that is not enough and she is taking him to court. He is so very angry and has serious issues with his ex wife to start with. This just has made things even worse. When we go to court Im afraid he will show his anger and make things worse. How do I help him get through this. Soon we will be going to court for shared custody due to all the issues my step daughter has and Im so afraid he will not be able to controll his anger at his ex wife during all of this. It hurts him so badly to see what she has done to his daughter. He just cant seem to keep it inside when he needs to. Its hard enough doing that around his daughter but when he comes face to face with the ex in court I just think all heck is going to break loose.

2007-06-10 07:00:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 2 years together for 6 years. We are complete opposites. Night and day. My biggest issue with him is sex. Or the lack of it. I am 32 and he is 40. I want sex all the time and he doesn't. I'm lucking to get it once a month and that's only because I start it. I've talked to him about it and he tells me "he'll try harder", "we'll do it more", etc. Nothing changes. I'm so over it! The last time we attempted to have sex he could not even stay hard. Is he unhappy or could it be a medical problem?? He tells me he is happy and that it isn't me that it's him.
This has been going on since before we got married. I went ahead and married him because I thought things would get better. I truly love him but I just can't handle it anymore. I don't know what to do!

2007-06-10 06:53:03 · 17 answers · asked by amaybride 2 in Marriage & Divorce

reason for asking i'm 26 and i'm tired of being alone. i haven't been in serious relationship in about 2 or 3 years now. i would like to get married and settle down and have a family. but i'm been wondering if that will ever happen or will i grow old alone.

2007-06-10 06:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where can I go to find my son's marriage and divorce information from his first wife. They were both in the army and I think they were married in Germany but I am not sure. It was a quick marraige and I don't even have her name. How can I get this info?

2007-06-10 06:42:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 06:41:04 · 17 answers · asked by Agnes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is considered the bare minimum amount of time a father can see his child after a relationship split

2007-06-10 06:40:36 · 18 answers · asked by A Good Father 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you cheat while your out of town? Maybe you feel safer from being caught? Or are you faithful,period. Even if away from your spouse for long periods of time.

2007-06-10 06:38:34 · 22 answers · asked by TrophyWife 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'll tell you why some men don't care enough to remind them selves. They remember their own birthday just fine. Just a verbal Happy Birthday is all I want. I get that if I say something. He remembered just fine when we were dating. Does marriage change things that much. I feel he just does'nt care and that really hurts.

2007-06-10 06:38:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am really good looking (I tried to make my avator ool like me so check it out)

2007-06-10 06:37:22 · 8 answers · asked by Montel Vontavious Porter (MVP) 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 06:36:02 · 17 answers · asked by badmanjazz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

But! don't parents have an equal responsibility to show respect for their children?

2007-06-10 06:30:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-10 06:26:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't like to change people but he watches a lot of porn and erases the history but sometimes forgets and I see what he has looked at. I tried to tell him we can get movies and watch together and he won't. I don't think he masterbates to it and I told him it wouldn't bother me so much if he didn't try to hide it. He won't talk at all to me about it and when we do our deed, he closes his eyes and seems to go into another world making me think he is picturing what he saw? Any advise please?!?!

2007-06-10 06:26:28 · 15 answers · asked by yepyep 3 in Marriage & Divorce