2007-06-10 06:36:02 · 17 answers · asked by badmanjazz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm laughing so hard right now...
People cheat it's a fact. But to hear people talk on here... no one would ever!
My answer to this question.... if he was hot and lit my fire and there wasn't a chance of getting caught... Hell yeah, I'd nail him!
Ok... hit me with your thumbs down for being honest =)
2007-06-10 14:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If only this were an easy question. Certainly it is not a good idea to cheat on your spouse and even a worse idea to get involved with someone you work with. Very few good things could come from something like this but it happens every day. It happens because you see someone in a situation in which you interact on a regular basis and they are on their best behavior because they are trying to do a good job in order to keep their job and earn more money.
Would I have an affair with a person I work with? Not intentionally, but it did happen with me. Eventually we decided we could not continue the affair and work together so she got a job elsewhere. I would not recommend it. There is too much to lose both on the job and at home.
2007-06-10 13:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ken P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's pretty lame.
How could you do that to your spouse?!
when you make that vow to stick with each other through sickness and in health, through the good times and the bad until the day you die, then you should keep it.
Yeah, a lot of people have affairs all the time, but that doesn't make it right.
And if your tempted to do this because your marriage isn't working out, this will make it all the more complicated.
Please don't make this mistake.
2007-06-10 18:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by Chelsey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are considering cheating you should end whatever relationship you are in because there are HUGE problems. Once you do cheat the other person will find out somehow and you will never have that trust back. As far as cheating with someone from work....HELL NO ARE YOU CRAZY? You're gonna need your work to keep you happy after your spouse takes the house, car and kids.
2007-06-10 14:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine1972ny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't cheat. I have a very good way of having your cake and eating it too. (well maybe not but its the closest way I could find.) If you feel like you are going to stray please first talk it out with your other half. I did this with my Ex (yeah I know) when we started having problems. I just let him know that he was not filling all of my needs (most weren't even sexual) and that I was thinking about seeing some one else. We talked it over and I did not see this other person because he asked for time to prove that he could do better. Well he did try and no it did not work but at least I gave it a chance. I am now married to that other person and living the good life.
2007-06-10 13:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by blondie4ev12003 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No....It's a bad idea. Those things hardly ever work out. You have to look in the mirror every day. Do you want to know you are STRONG or weak? Think of how hurt your spouse would be.
Good Luck
2007-06-10 14:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you will be committing adultery. Better read the Holy Bible and see what God says about it. You don't want to do it. It comes with dire consequences. You are walking on dangerous hot ground. Get a New Living translation of the bible, because it is written in plain modern English. Your very soul is at stake!!!
2007-06-10 13:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Definetly not! That is so wrong. How do you think you would feel if your husband/wife did that to you? That is a way to ruin your marriage and the marriage of your employee. You committed to your husband and only your husband that minute you said I DO! If you do this it will just be harder for anyone to ever trust you ever again!
2007-06-10 13:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. affairs aren't worth the trouble they cause. not only would you ruin your spouse's life, but you'd ruin your coworker's spouse's life. you guys would get fired if you were discovered and you'd mess up families and trust and stuff. so if there are problems in your marriage talk it out peacefully and hear eachother out. you don't want to ruin your marraige over s small problem that could've been fixed
2007-06-10 13:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think cheating is an absoulute waste of time..I mean if you no longer have feelings for that person just break up with them.Why would you ever want to hurt someone like that?
2007-06-10 13:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋