Family & Relationships - 10 June 2007

2007-06-10 06:26:02 · 7 answers · asked by Pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 06:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-10 06:20:18 · 4 answers · asked by KitKat 1 in Friends

i've been w/ my boyfriend for about 3 years, (living together for 2 yrs) now. and well, i'm having a pretty hard time with some things. when things are great, they're great. we get along, laugh, have a great bond, etc. i mean, i couldn't be happier. but, when the stresses of his finances and/or work come up, he doesn't know how to deal. i mean, more then often he takes it out on me and/or our relationship. it's gotten to the point of where i feel like i'm walking on egg shells. i don't know whether to be in a good mood around him, distant, supportive, quiet, etc. i mean, last night for example...he totally lashed out on me! he called me selfish, told me that i dont love him, that he doesn't trust me, (bc i don't pick up my phone 24/7) that this isn't working, i'm always out w/ my friends, and so on. i mean, it's totally off the wall too bc everything he says is untrue a total actual reflection of how he acts towards me. he's the one that has started pushing me away, says hurtful

2007-06-10 06:18:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One lives in the same town but the other lives in another town.

2007-06-10 06:17:19 · 21 answers · asked by Pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

then we are right back together i often cry in his face and im not scared to tell him that he is hurting me then when he says he is going to do right he starts to drink he drinks everyday and i want to leave him again for good but i just don't know how everytime i tell him he should stop drinking he says why don't you just stay out of my business.he says he is going to come to my house and never shows up and i keep forgiving him.I feel that the alchohol is more important than i am. I want to leave him alone but i just dont know how!!help!!!

2007-06-10 06:17:16 · 10 answers · asked by sexybabygurl4545 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy are becoming rlly good friends and getting close and the other day he called me beautiful and i dont kno what this means.
main question- does he want to be my bf?

2007-06-10 06:15:16 · 29 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Singles & Dating

I Really like this guy from my gym we only have eye contact but im really scared to talk to him . but we both always near or far where ever we are we look at each other and im too scared to talk to him even to smile at him errrrrrrrrr i hate myself last time i saw him he smiled when he saw me but i dint n i regret =(( but im not good at relationships . i always end up hurting myself but i really like him .. what should i do ? its not that im ugly or insecured its just that im a girl and i think that boys should make the first move . and other thing what if i get rejected ! ? i dont know whats going throw his mind ... How will i know if he likes me ? or does he like me ? Well heres my story please reply Kindly .
thank you

2007-06-10 06:13:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 06:12:59 · 20 answers · asked by deanorjon 5 in Weddings

I was the one left.She was short and conciese."I want a divorce" I had so many questions,the whys and what if's.She just shut down and moved on emotinally.All i wanted was to have a sit down eye to eye heart to heart conversation.She wouldn't even give me that.Now i have moved out of state and she changed the phone numbers and won't respond to emails.She was a bit of a control freak,she knows it gives her power by not responding to me,and leaving me wondering.I hate her for the way she give me the silent treatment,i feel she owes me much more than that.I was a good husband,never cheated,never even considered it.I was a good provider and friend.I have friends that give me more respect.I just wanted closure,but she left me hanging.

2007-06-10 06:05:20 · 13 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does a guy want you to do when he moves your hand to his pants?

2007-06-10 06:04:31 · 15 answers · asked by Maria T 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, We are still legally married, and we have been separated for 4 months, I had found someone else, and so did my hubby. However now I feel I want my hubby back, he is now living with some other chick. Is it morally wrong to try and break up their relationship by way of magick, if he is still legally MY husband?

2007-06-10 05:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by AL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

http://youtube.com/watch?v=YB3FVun7K2k

2007-06-10 05:30:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or is he worth more dead?

2007-06-10 05:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been having problems for quite some time now. He has a 15 year old boy from his first marriage and I have been the mother in his life since he was 7 years old. My husband seems to think that because his son has reached the teen years that it is not acceptable to spank him so he allows basically for him to do and say what he wants when he wants. I see that he is just taking the easy way out. Every time he does something wrong and I say something about it it gets turned around on me like it is my fault. lately my husband has gotten to calling me names in front of his son and then telling his son to not listen to me as well. I am at my wits end last night we had an arguement over him telling his son not to listen to me and my husband grabbed me by my neck and called me a stupid *****. I am having a very hard time dealing with this, I have already told him to leave but he won't.Please I just need to know what would be the easiest & legal way to get him out of my house

2007-06-10 05:26:58 · 36 answers · asked by SHERRY "Ree" 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My marriage is on the rocks and in a he said/she said whirlwind. He claims that all of his "problems" is that i am not a good enough housekeeper and that I act like I don't like him. On my side of it I say he acts like a teenager; wants to control the $$, believes compromise is me controlling him, believes that him working is his part (doesn't understand that marriage takes work too). He works for himself & I am a stay at home Mom and I do all of his clerical/advertising. He is 33 and I am 36 & the kids are mine from a previous. Anything I say, he says I am nagging. I told him when we met that I was not a great housekeeper, but the most devoted, honest, and truest woman he would ever meet.
Guys, especially, can you help me understand him and his thinking so that I can work with it?

2007-06-10 05:25:32 · 17 answers · asked by tonyer71 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean if a guy feels you up? What would it mean if a girl feels up a guy?

2007-06-10 05:25:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So this guy I REALLY like was talking to me and a bunch of his and my friends on the bus on the way home from a school overnight trip yesterday. He said that he wouldn't kiss me, and in the nicest way he told me not to take it personally. This was in front of a bus full of people. Does he really mean it? I always see him looking and smiling at me, and he was possibly even trying to play Footsies with me on the trip. He talks to me about totally random stuff and even complemented me on my hip-hop hat the other day. How could he say that he doesn't like me (he said that in school when somebody asked him the other day. He said he likes me as a person but not like like)? I could swear he likes me, and he's always trying to make me laugh. Sometimes he flirts with other girls, but usually with me most. Does he truly mean he wouldn't kiss me, or was he just saying that to be cool and funny, and so he wouldn't give away who he likes? I'm totally confused here, please help! Thanx a lot 4 ur tim

2007-06-10 05:21:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am seeing a married man, he is 15 years older than me. Well, recently his wife and I have become friends. She does not know about us. She asked me to lunch the other day and I accepted (he told me to). Well any ways, I picked her up in the car that he bought me and she complimented on how much she loved the jewlery that I had on, which also he bought me.

ok, here is the question...Do you think it's bad that I picked her up in the car he gave me?

2007-06-10 05:20:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-husband had a habit of leaving when he was mad or did not get his way. He would stay gone (usually it was on a weekend) for 2-3 days. The last time he left (because my daughter accidentally let his cat get out) I told him to think about it before he leaves because this time he was not coming back. He packed his clothes, ripped up our wedding pictures and said he wanted a divorce. Fine! He then drug the divorce on for over a year, thinking he was coming back. After 6 months of being separated, I started dating and now he tells everyone that I cheated on him and that it was going on before he left. Should I have waited? What would you have done?

2007-06-10 05:19:13 · 13 answers · asked by Tyra99 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He has cheated on me twice before. He's always coming home drunk. He constantly shouts at me and our 3 kids. He ignores me. He is constantly getting fired from his job. Should I divorce him? The kids think I should. What do you think?

2007-06-10 05:18:35 · 55 answers · asked by mommomma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello all :)

I was with the woman of my Dreams for 20 years, 2 children ...(yet we never married) ..she left me with them 6 months ago for a rich doctor.
she says she does not know what she wants in life ... so i let her come and go into mine as she pleases... but so many people say this is wrong ... to get over her i must put her out of my hope and dreams of getting back together ...

Like i said 6 months have gone by and she still flies out all over the USA & ?? to meet with him... be with him ...
Yet when she comes to me .. i have to beg for hugs .. and even more for a simple kiss...
Should i keep trying ???
Should i stop letting her come and go into my life as she pleases ?
and the biggest question ....
Can anyone tell me how to turn off the love i have for her ...
I am still 100% devoted ( never even been on any other date) and hope for us ... days and nights ...

Thanks to all that read and a big hug to all that try to leave some advise . :)

2007-06-10 04:57:37 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Today is my dads birthday and i dont know what to give him! he works all day, and for every birthday we give him clothes and i dont want to spend so much money!!!! please help.
P.S he doesn't wear ties, pijamas, and i hate when my dad drinks!

2007-06-10 04:54:46 · 6 answers · asked by Cool_girl 2 in Family

Our boss makes us pay him 20% of our salaries each month, and says that if we report it, he will fire us. There are 25 of us, and he must be making well over £10,000 a month in addition to his own salary as Headmaster.

2007-06-10 04:53:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend just goes totally silent when he knows I am right about something and gets all mad at me.
He gave me 3 sets of keys to all his vehicles and told me to keep them in case I ever needed a car to drive to work etc...
About a month ago,he was mad and took the keys away from me, thus treating me like a 3 yr old, and I told him so.
I think when you are having intimate relations with someone, you should treat them well and not like that.
I noticed all 3 sets of keys are gone. He has given them to someone else.
He is giving me the silent treatment, so I slammed his door and left.
What is your opinion on this?

2007-06-10 04:52:04 · 7 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 04:51:09 · 6 answers · asked by peyton 1 in Singles & Dating

My son (13) has recently taken a liking to Ashlee Simpson.He has some magazines with her in it and some photos he has printed off the computer...the are not nude but they are a little provacative showing cleavege.My question is does he have these because he is a fan...or is he doing more?Is she considered a sex symbol to boys his age?

2007-06-10 04:37:30 · 4 answers · asked by dianemarshall4697 1 in Family

I have been with this guy for over 2 years. ABout 5 mths ago we just had our 1st little boy. Everything was going great. We just bought a house together and everything. Now all of a sudden, he's got this new friend and he's into fishing, hunting and riding four wheelers with him every weekend. When he goes there he stay the night for the entire weekend and his pal has a home with his girlfriend. Over the weekend he doesnt even pick up the phone to acknowledge the fact that i somewhere else with his child or even to see if we are still alive. I was just feeling like he maybe doing other thigs beside what he says. Plus he says that he's tired of being up my all all the time. I dont mind him going to hang with his friends, but he has a home and a baby to come home to! What should i do????

2007-06-10 04:33:49 · 11 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

i am only 14 and never had sex before but i want it with a 36 year old man

2007-06-10 04:27:33 · 4 answers · asked by Jady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If one of your female friends offered you sex, would you do it or not go that route? I often hear that guys and girls can't just be friends without some sort of sexual tension. If anyone has been in this situation, please let us hear your story.

2007-06-10 04:27:13 · 13 answers · asked by fanthemdl 2 in Friends