I have been with this guy for over 2 years. ABout 5 mths ago we just had our 1st little boy. Everything was going great. We just bought a house together and everything. Now all of a sudden, he's got this new friend and he's into fishing, hunting and riding four wheelers with him every weekend. When he goes there he stay the night for the entire weekend and his pal has a home with his girlfriend. Over the weekend he doesnt even pick up the phone to acknowledge the fact that i somewhere else with his child or even to see if we are still alive. I was just feeling like he maybe doing other thigs beside what he says. Plus he says that he's tired of being up my all all the time. I dont mind him going to hang with his friends, but he has a home and a baby to come home to! What should i do????
2007-06-10 04:33:49 · 11 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would put him straight he has responsabilities to take care of. You could do the same in a way though. Why dont you get a sitter and go out to a club. have some fun. He wont like the the fact that you have a life other than been a homemaker and a mother. He feels that because you are the mother you need to be doing everything and he can be the man and go do what ever he feels. Its not that way anymore its the 21st centuary. Show him that two can play at that game and you are no walk over. Him staying out all weekend is not right and you need to tell him that. One night jus tell him he is watching the baby because you are going out with your friends.
2007-06-10 04:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by kianpeaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it can be hard when someone u luv isnt showing respect or care. Sit down and have a talk. Talk about the importance of caring for a child. Maybe u should have "a girl's night out" w/ ur friends and convince him to care for the baby. That way, he'll understand the importance of being responsible.
2007-06-10 04:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that. Each of you contributed 50/50 to the conception of your son. Now it's time each of you contribute 50/50 to the raising of your son. My husband and i just had our first son, too. My husband goes out with his friends on the weekend, but i drop him off and pick him up the same night... then we trade off the next weekend.
2007-06-10 04:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by christina.yost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your home--pack his things and set them outside for him to pick up. Sounds like he left you and your child 5 months ago. He is neglecting you, your child and his responsibilities. If it's his home--move out--TODAY! No confrontations, no arguing--just GO! You and your child will be much happier in the long run.
2007-06-10 04:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Cherie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit him down and tell him all this. it may be that he has good intentions but is just to much of a guy(stupid) to know better.
or else hes gay or cheating in which case you may want to ask his friend or his wife a few questions about their so called fishing escapades....
2007-06-10 04:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by in the big easy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he has to contribute with taking care of the baby.If he just has a baby and then leaves you and him then he doesn't deserve you.
2007-06-10 04:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by sunfire051895 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just do a surprise visit sometime when he is camping. He should be happy to see you if he is doing nothing wrong.
2007-06-10 04:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by mandoix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are in trouble, maybe have a serious talk with him but to me it looks like his interests have changed.
2007-06-10 04:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by lonetraveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating. Ask to go with him next time. You are about to go through HELL. Good luck!
2007-06-10 04:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by ByeBye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-10 04:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by stam a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋