He is married and 15 years older than me and me and his wife have become friends.?

Question

I am seeing a married man, he is 15 years older than me. Well, recently his wife and I have become friends. She does not know about us. She asked me to lunch the other day and I accepted (he told me to). Well any ways, I picked her up in the car that he bought me and she complimented on how much she loved the jewlery that I had on, which also he bought me.

ok, here is the question...Do you think it's bad that I picked her up in the car he gave me?

And by the way.... to the people who are about to bash me for seeing a married man. I DON'T care what you say, I will continue seeing him.

So call me every name in the book.

You hope I get what I deserve? I will get mine?
Yes, I got it 3 times the other night and yes I got lots of presents that I deserved.

She asked me to lunch becuase I am dealing with some business for the both of them. He told me to go to lunch with her so she does not get suspesious.

Answer 1

I think you did the right thing by not making it obvious to her that something is going on.

Answer 2

This is hard question too face. I understand your feelings for this man, I've been down this road. Sooner or later, the light with shine on his affair. They are impossible to hide. If your doing business with both of them, then your putting your professional life in jeopardy as well. How would you feel if one day, this married man, told you he was sleeping with third or fourth girl?? How would you feel if he left his wife, only too turn around and start too sleep with another girl besides you?? I have been in your shoes before, with the exception that I am a guy, but nonetheless, I know the feelings your are going through. It is hard to just give up the feelings your have and emotional ties you have with this man, but use your head wisely. Is this really what you want?? Best Wishes.

Answer 3

You are committing adultery. You will pay the consequences of your sin. You have free will to commit this awful sin, but you can not choose the consequences. Pay, you will, dearly. Are the gifts he bought for you and the second hand sex, worth being damned to eternal hell for? Gifts that will fade like green grass in the hot summer sun. Careful now, you are walking on dangerous ground. Guilty, guilty, guilty hope you have a hard time looking yourself in the mirror.

You might consider that wives who are being cheated on and they find out can be LETHAL.

At least you have some kind of conscience, you are wondering if it's bad to pick his wife up in that given for sex car he gave you. You already know the whole thing is wrong.
Look how you have cheapened yourself.

Answer 4

Married men = bad news.... As far as the question, it's your car now, so I wouldn't worry - I'd say it's the least of your problems. I would worry though that he wants you to be friends with his wife while he is cheating on her. What's up with that? Is he setting up for some showdown? Or getting some perverse joy in flaunting it in her face? When she does find out, do you really want her to know you (and know how to contact you, find you, etc)?

I wish I could find someone to buy me a car and jewelry. LOL.

Answer 5

I Don't really mean to flame you but WHY THE HELL WOULD PICKING A MARRIED MAN'S WIFE IN A CAR BE YOU'RE CONCERN WHEN YOU HAVE THE NERVE, AND STUPIDITY TO SEE HER HUSBAND. People wonder why the world is turning bad , its because people like you were born! you should get off the computer and pray to god that he not send you to hell for this sin - ask for his forgivness!

Answer 6

The bible says you reap what you sow. So, don't be surprised when you get dumped down the road. How do you think your parents and family would feel if they knew you were with a married man?

Answer 7

I think it unfortunate that single men don't find you attractive. When I was single (and I only consider myself to be average looking), I had so many dates that I didn't even have time to date all the single guys who asks me out. So, dating a married was so far away from my thoughts. Perhaps you should consider plastic surgery?

Answer 8

Okay if this man is getting off with you being friends with his wife how cruel is he? You might be reminded of this when the tables are turned in later years don't you think.

Answer 9

I'm speechless. Whatever comes around goes around. It will be worse for you, my dear. Why are you asking us any questions, since our thoughts are of no importance to you. To answer your question without referencing the other things would be difficult. Just do us a favor, keep the seedy details of your life to yourself.

Answer 10

Then why do you want to know if we think it is bad that you picked her up in the car he bought you? You shouldn't care what we think about that either. You will get yours.

Answer 11

IF you didn't care about what people say about you phucking a married man you wouldn't have brought it up to begin with. You're a lying cheating whore, have a nice day.