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I've known this girls for about 2 years and she's a really good friend. What she doesn't know is that i've got a big crush on her! So when I finally aksed her out she laughed at me and said you've got to be kiddin me playah! What can I do to show her that I really do like her!!! Not my fault I look like a player

2007-06-10 07:56:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

12 answers

A real friend would not laugh in your face first of all.
If you really really like this girl then tell her "You are the only girl in my life and you have been my friend for a long time and I am ready for a serious relationship".

2007-06-10 08:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0 0

Its probably not as much as you looking as a playa as it is you coming off with a playa personality. Which most women wont go for because playas cant be trusted. I'd guess your not the romantic type so get romantic, go out of your norm or her perceived impression of your "norm". Leave a long stem red rose in her locker if your in school, or a note in her locker. If your not in school yet, pick a day you know she'll be home and send a couple dozen of roses. However DO NOT sign your name, leave nothing that could tip her off that its you. Play a mystery man and tag her along. then when you think its time to take off your mask, leave her a final note on a box of chocolates or something. telling her to meet you somewhere, beach is always nice..

2007-06-10 15:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by sugrdady03 2 · 0 0

You look genuine, take time dont give up. When she realises that you are real and not aplayer though you posses the looks of one, she will come to cleave for you.
You seem to ask for what you need to do rather than being encouraged You can explore other ways of letting her know the nature of your personality, ask her out and if she accepts, tell her who you are that she is misunderstanding. Or make a call or send her message thru any means.
The other thing is, you might be thinking that its your looks that makes her fear, you better get it from her. You moght be surprised its anoter thing.
If she says that you are, ask her ....''who do I remind you of?'' make it polite and from your heart, you may resemble someone who played her, and she may just need an assurance that you are not in that game. Hope you arent a player, players spoil our names and make dating quite an ant hill for us guys.
Best of blessings

2007-06-10 15:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by enc e 2 · 0 0

If she's a good friend you should be able to talk to her about this. But if she thinks you're a player because of the way you look, maybe you should change a few things. (If you really want to go out with her.)

2007-06-10 15:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by MondoBlondo 3 · 0 0

You should show her that your sincere by doing nice things for her, like giving her flowers, complimenting her, and just being a good friend and listener. Don't try to change your image. Continue to be yourself and be there when she needs you, and she will see that your feelings are real.

2007-06-10 15:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by kia :D 1 · 0 0

well find out what she likes. give her flowers and take her out on a date. tell her how you really feel. don't get offended if she just considers you a friend. Show her with your personality what love and relationships are.

2007-06-10 15:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by heather n 2 · 0 0

lol, sorry but that sounds kinda funny, in a "laugh with you, not at you" sort of way., ummmm just try to tell her that you really do like her, get her a small silver bracelet (non expensive) or like, buy her 1 rose and give it to her, and tell her how u really feel : ) : ) Good Luck : ): ).

2007-06-10 15:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by Toads66 3 · 0 0

Take her some flowers and tell her that this is how they did it in the old days. And ask her out again.

2007-06-10 15:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0 0

lol....well i think that you should get her a nice flower and ask her to go out on a DATE with you. But you have to be serious about it to make her believe you!!!!

Gud-luck

2007-06-10 15:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by {M0MMY 2 Be..♥} 2 · 0 0

mayb she isnt into u. tell her she dont know u like she thinks she does tell her what is she scared? what she dont want to let chu prove ur not a playa

2007-06-10 15:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0 0

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