Tell me if each of these is right for a taken guy to do
1. hang out with another girl alone (like ask another girl to go out to eat alone)
2. get a lapdance from another girl
3. have pictures of girls making out and grinding on his phone
4. get drunk with another girl in his car
5. take off his shirt at a party
tell me what you think about each onee.
2007-06-10 10:33:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm thinking your guy did all of these and you're pissed? if not well, no...if my man did all this, he would be my ex after 3 seconds.
i mean...come on man..lapdance? and it's not because it's a man "thang". if this was done by a taken girl, she'd be labeled as a ho-bag. so what makes a guy any different, right?
the last one's pretty mild...but then again...what happened next!??
2007-06-10 10:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by G G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too vague to give accurate answers.
1. Is the girl a friend? He's entitled to spend time with his friends.
2. A lapdance is acceptable if it's a bachelor party-type scenario or a group of buddies going to a strip club where nothing is meant by it, it's just part of the experience, or if a friend does it as a joke.
3. Did he take the pictures or download them?
4. Again, is the girl a friend?
5. Hell, it's a shirt....
2007-06-10 10:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of this depends on the context in which it happend and if there was consent from both in the relationship for this:
1. I say no unless it was a sister or relative or someone that wasn't a potential partner
2. NO - unless it was a bachelor party and these scenarios were discussed in advance.
3. NO - NO - NO, why would there be any need for that, simply unacceptable
4. See #3, regardless of the guy/girl thing outside of a relationship NO ONE should be drinking in a vehicle
5. I don't see a huge foul in this one, but once again it depends on the context...
2007-06-10 10:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 and 5 are definitely no's as they can lead to other things. 2 and 3 aren't that bad, that is just a guy being a guy. Blame the testosterone. I know a lot of guys that do 5, but they have the bodies for it, I don't. I doubt that one means anything other than look at the body the Lord has blessed me with.
2007-06-10 10:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Robert L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on how secure your girlfriend is....if 1 & 4 are platonic only..then ur fine..if you dont take #2 any further than a lap dance..thats fine too.The rest of em are okay,but these are my personal opinions again it DEPENDS on your girl friend. A lot of girls have trust issues and are insecure in their relationships. If any of these things bother your girlfriend..then dont do 'em
..Added later..sorry..i thought a dude was asking...
As long as your BF is honest and you have a solid relationship then i wouldnt worry...if you dont trust him..and you have " a bad feeling" your probably right...
2007-06-10 10:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by TheDeeds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
Truthfully, I would be very upset with each one of those things!!!!!!!! I would also be wondering how he really feels about me! That isn't showing respect or love! How would he feel if that was you doing those things with other guys?
All the best to you!
2007-06-10 10:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Eternalsilence 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. yes...its okay as long as its JUST friends
2. Absolutely not...unless u are both in a strip club & u okay it
3. HELL NO...period
4. That's borderline...it depends on if they are just really good friends.
5. Yeah...its okay for guys to take their shirts off damn near anywhere!!
2007-06-10 10:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by ¤¤Je§§ica¤¤ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I only have two word for this, the guy is a cheater. And unfaithful
2007-06-10 10:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you can do better. Guys like that make you grow old quickly. Leave him.
2007-06-10 10:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by HAPPY HEART 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you but hes a cheater!! Dump him
2007-06-10 10:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋