well i was goin out wit dis guy 2 years ago n we broke up cause i told him i was pregnant and he told me he was married. i havnt seen him since cause he moved away, but now hes comin bk to see my son and im scard cause i still love him and i dont want to b with a married man!! im scard i wont b able 2 handle seeing him with his wife. how can i get over him? and if i cant get over him how do i act like im over him wen i c him?? im also scard my son will like his wife more than me!! please help cause im stressing over this every day!!
2007-06-10 12:27:20 · 2 answers · asked by linda m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have to move on, this guy lied to you throughout the relationship about his status and hasn't been there for your child and left you when you needed him the most, he is married he has never loved you or cared about you, he was just out to get what he wanted from you all while keeping his wife, you have to wake up and realize that you deserve better than a relationship that wasn't built on honesty from the start, you son will not like his wife more than you, as his mother no one will take your place, because of the bond you both share, make sure this guy will be financially responsible for your son and be there for him, but get over this guy he deceived not only you but his wife as well, save yourself the trouble and don't get involved with anymore married men there are plenty of single men out there who want an honest relationship...
2007-06-13 06:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
its over and done
what are you waiting for, a taxi?
go out and find someone else and be happy
2007-06-10 12:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋