2007-06-10 12:01:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't want more children ever! I am fifty years old too though.
When I was in my late twenties, I actually picked women to date that had children, because I did not want to have more children of my own. I knew a wonderful woman with four boys. We dated; we lived together; we married. We stay married for twenty years until she died from cancer. Shortly before she died, she shared a heart breaking wish with me. She said that her only regret was that we never had a child together. I never knew that she would have seriously considered having a baby with me.
2007-06-10 12:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Randy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what she wanted first of all. The second consideration would be who has custody of the two children from the previous marriage. The third thing would be can we afford another child?
If we did decide to have children, I would prefer to wait until we are married about a year before we start trying. This is not to be pessimistic about the marriage, it is just to try to be on the safe side in case things don't work out.
2007-06-10 19:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age and financial situation. My husband had 2 kids and so did I. We decided that we wanted to have a child together. We wanted more children together but we both felt that it would not be fair to the children that we already had because we both feel that you should do everything you can to give all your children the best chance in life that they can have. We had 1 child together even though we wanted more. It wasn't the best decision for us but the best for the children that we already had. We both felt that we could not take away our childrens financial future to have more so far we are currently putting our second child through college.
2007-06-11 00:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends upon the ages of the people and various other factors.
I mean, if we are talking about two people that are well beyond child bearing years, then the answer is of course, probably a no.
If we are talking about two people that can't financially support more children, then probably no.
If we are talking about two people whose careers are far too demanding to allow time for children, then again, probably no.
It just depends upon the two people. I say this is something that should be discussed PRIOR to the marriage.
2007-06-10 19:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would, when you love someone you want to share a part of you with them and create something that speaks of your love like a child. Its what I call proof of love.
Why would he be willing in his first marriage but not his second.
this goes for both husband and wife.
2007-06-10 19:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby wants to have children together (he has two from a previous marriage, and didn't want any more with his exwife)
2007-06-10 19:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Luvitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but your new wife probably wants children of her own.
This was something you should have cleared up BEFORE you got married again.
2007-06-10 19:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly! As long as we were young enough and able then why not? Children bring us joy in our lives so have as many as you can support :o)
2007-06-10 19:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by microbioguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes, why wouldn't you? Maybe your a little scared or can you afford more children?
2007-06-10 19:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely! I would make sure that all the kids feel love and are involved in helping with the new baby.
2007-06-10 19:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by specialkisskel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋