How would you cope with a massive life changing decision?

Question

In 29 days I leave all my family and friends and basically everything I have ever known in my life to go move to the other side of the world in Australia. Although i am very excited at a new chapter of my life is opening I am also very scared of the unknown and have huge fears about that, i've tried talking to my family but they just get upset as do my friends so I am asking on here instead. Thanks

Answer 1

Laney, I am about to close my business on 30th June 07 after 15 years and have a career break for me and do some Oz travelling too. I am 36 and do plan to come back to England but my world will also be upside down. I have some reservations too and certain fears but as long as you are doing what you want then no matter how scared you are, your passion and desires for your new life will over come that. Have fun, be true to yourself and remember to smile for all the opportunities you (and me!) are about to have. See you there! :~)

Answer 2

Well this is a BIG question and going to be a major stress factor in your life. Having said that, it should be considered a major opportunity and life is indeed simply too short not to take it. And remember, the world is shrinking due to cheaper long haul flights and the internet so you will never be out of touch. And, if it doesn't work out, you will still have options. But I would add that it should also be filled with excitement, hope and opportunity. And, remember, home is what you make it, home is where you make it and your best friends right now were once complete strangers. I simply suggest you retain that excitement, look forward to the adventure and fill you life with new things and people. Allow yourself time to settle in and I suspect everything will be great. Just make sure you tune into Eastenders now and again!!
Good luck ...

Answer 3

Instead of thinking about the unknown think about what good might come from It the opportunities you might get from going to Australia it may be the est decision you make. You will still be able to keep in contact with your friends and family and if all else fails you can always go back home

Answer 4

It's normal to feel stressed about a big move, but focus on the positive that will come from the move. Try to anticipate possible problems, and make contingency plans to deal with them.

The unknown doesn't necessarily have to be scary. If anything, all the wonderful new opportunities ahead of you is very exciting. You are stepping into a whole new world with new experiences awaiting you, and with new friends on the horizon.

Answer 5

The thing to remember is that whatever you do, is not the end of the story. Your family and friends are still there.

I have worked abroad twice and both times didn't know if I was ever going to come back. It so happens I did for various reasons. I am glad I took those opportunities though, and may take further opportunities in the future. That's what makes life exciting.

Answer 6

I made the same change - Europe. So the only advise I can give you is to keep in contact with your family as much as possible (email, skyp, phone, etc) because you will miss them allot, and meet people by either:

- joining a gym
- volunteer work
- visit your local city hall for activities
- seek an American society and become a member
- take up group sports
- take a dance class
- take an art class

Good luck and take advantage of the opportunity.

Answer 7

I have never done this, but look at it this way you are yopung and the whole world is there. Austrlia is a marvelous counrty for a young persom i have been thereon holiday. But do not become a Whinging Pom they hate it look always for the positive and don't offer advice if you see something you don't like, When people respect you they wil ask, and you will be tactful. Using perhaps it may be an idea if ------ but not in UK we -----------

Answer 8

Make sure you have something to fall back on. Example would be to have enough money in the bank to fly back home if you find it was a wrong move.

Apparently your family and friends donut want you to go but are tired of arguing with you. Why don't they want you to go?

Gather all of your information before you make such a big decision.

Answer 9

You obviously have something going for yourself, I mean youre moving to Australia. That in it self is a good thing. Give it a try for at least a year. Then if things arent what you thought , then you can try something else. Show em all, make it happen. Chin up.Good luck!

Answer 10

You never know where life will take you. Good luck with your journey. It isn't to deal with a massive life changing decision. It is LIFE CHANGING. Is your trip to Australia very important to you? I hope it is...