When i was born my fathers parents my grandparents brought me up as a child untill 13years old then my parents took me back and moved to another country and i do not get along much then i would love to with my parents also siblings and things with my mother arent good either we argue constantly and i have left home several times because of this now i have a child and its kind of difficult
2007-06-10 02:27:52 · 6 answers · asked by ahylei17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can't really "get over it". They are human, they messed up. You can't change who they are. Just love the parts of them that are positive and if you are not getting along with them consider moving out or moving in with your grandparents.
2007-06-10 02:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first thing you need is someone to help guide you. I would recommend finding a church where you feel welcome and can find guidance. If not, there are usually free community programs to help you become a better parent.
You also have to face the things that you hate/hated about your parents and recognize when you are doing them to your children. Hopefully your grandparents could also offer you some guidance. Contact them and ask for help. Good luck.
2007-06-10 09:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by K Michelle K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking with them? Don't you wanna know why did they leave you with your grandparents on the fisrt place and then took you back? Don't make it an arguement.
It just seems to me that you don't know exactly what is it that happened... just try to show the how they make you feel and try to come to an agreement with them that will benefit all.
2007-06-10 10:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by mackenzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can ever get over it. If you could live near your grandparents that might help. It would give you a feeling of security and peace. Good Luck.
2007-06-10 09:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get help. You don't want to bring your child up in that situation. You know how life was for you, so you don't want that for your child. You need to find a way to get out of this situation. You need to seek therapy, because it sounds like you really have some issues that need to be dealt with.
2007-06-10 09:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by ransdoll90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same up bringing... i was raised till 13 by grand paretns... i adored them! i had such a better life because of them! be thankful!
2007-06-10 09:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋