Have you got some quick dating advice?

Question

I have been having a relationship for a couple of weeks and I have now come to the conclusion that he's using me, and I'm not playing anymore
I have decided to get out and start dating, and meet new people,
Have you got some quick tips on how to meet new people
And how to date without getting hurt or too involved

I've been single for a year and a half
Not desparate I just wok up and smelt the coffee

Answer 1

1.-You need a time alone because they see you desperate to not be alone it is easy to make you fool.

2.-Analyze yourself

Answer 2

Flirting and a little touch, say on the arm or something like that. Flirting i find goes a long way! And not forgetting that smile, dont be too pushy though, as they might think you are going too fast. Why not start to go to the gym, dancing clubs etc. you can meet guys at these places. Always be wary though at least until you can put your faith in someone! . That way you wont end up hurting. Good luck! x x

Answer 3

Life is never without hurt or pain. What you have to do it learn from your experiences what you did wrong/ how it went wrong, and learn to accept what happened. Going dating without totally putting yourself out there is bad for not only you but it's not fair to he guy. He's putting himself out there to be broken and hurt, yet you're only putting part of yourself out there? Not fair.
To meet new people, go to respectable fun places. Try not to go to clubs (if you do) b/c more than likely you won't find a respectable guy. When you meet a guy, just be yourself and try to see if he's real with you. But don't let that get in the way of the relationship just be on alert. Hope this helped and good luck!

Answer 4

Speed Dating

Answer 5

I'm sorry to hear that you got used. I'd say find out as much as you can about the guy when you are on a date with him. If he makes you pay for the date to begin with, I'd say that's a bad sign. If he rushes you into things, he could be using you. You can meet people lots of ways, internet, bars, malls, clubs, through friends. Hope this helps!

Answer 6

It is difficult to date without getting too involved. My advice is to listen to instinct. The moment he does or says something that makes you suspicious of his intentions, the moment he hurts you in any way and is not remorseful, leave the relationship.

As far as getting out and meeting people...try joining some clubs or participating in activities in your area.

Answer 7

While dating, we need to confront some problems and it is just that everything have got to get thru. Yours is just like the other oneyou really wanted to and i hope this helps you. Have a nice day.

Answer 8

Don't get too involved too quickly this is how you will get hurt. There are no good places to meet the right person he will jump out at you when your least expecting it. It will be spontaneous. I believe the right person finds you and that you don't have to go looking for them. Happy Hunting Hun! x

Answer 9

pass with the lady you like maximum and the single its maximum possibly to final with, relies upon if there is distinctive distance in contact with jazzmin, if it is the case then this could carry approximately issues. If its basically simply by fact of activites you the two do on your life then see in case you could set aside time a week the place you could connect up....i used to be certain my ex boyfriend on a thursday afternoon and a sunday ....attempt and organize different events around the time set aside for you 2.

Answer 10

just b urself..let ppl see who u are. dont get used again. make sure ppl know ur an independant person n dont need no one but that ur more then a door mat. sometimes when things end. or we find out things like this it does hurt. dont mean it wont hurt later on when something else happens to u but its how we learn n grow

Answer 11

Good for you. If you're around Chicago, give me e-mail. My advise, take things slowly, don't be in a rush to get to deeply involved. Good relationships take time to develop.