Family & Relationships - 12 June 2007

My husband loves to argue,fuss, not physically fight. He loves to confront people about whatever, he has embarrassed myself and our two kids to the point we can not even hold our heads up in our own neighborhood. Everyone knows he is an A hole. Peolple know that I am totally opposite. I am a peace maker, I let things roll easily, but I am not a push over. I just do not like trouble all the time. And when there is a situation I handle it with character and ethics. My husband is a redneck, for those of you not sure about what a redneck is, a beer drinking,cursing,confrontational loose cannon.Does not matter if women are present and sometimes children.Sometimes I think he's own something.I've tried everything, begging pleading, he thinks I should back him. He's got to be kidding.Help. Any advice.

2007-06-12 00:28:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I actually came home and discovered them in bed... going at it! I think she is truly sorry and just got caught up in the passion. Have any of you actually caught your spouse or lover with another person? How did you react?

2007-06-12 00:26:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am now making close to poverty wages...maybe $12,000 or so?

2007-06-12 00:24:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i been see this girl for a long time and we've said we love each other but i don't know if she's really telling the truth or if she just trying to hurt me again.

so how do you really know.

2007-06-12 00:21:19 · 24 answers · asked by Mana 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been going around for 4 years now and my bf wants to break up now...and i dont want to ...he comes up with lame reasons every now and then.
Last time the excuse was my weight and i lost the extra pounds and am just the perfect weight according to my height and age now...He used to pester me for losing weight infact make me feel bad in public and i used to be so depressed all the time.he assured me that if i lose weight he will love me again ( i know that was one hell of a mistake to believe him).
Then somehow it went alright for a few months...
it was going on fine and now he comes up with another excuse to break up saying he is leaving for australia in december and he wants to break up now coz it will be hard later on...
I dont understand one thing...
If he talks about break up why cant he just do it ..why does he come back into the relationship after sometime...i guess its my fault also that i let him do this again and again with me...
am confused ???

2007-06-12 00:19:37 · 7 answers · asked by blue 1 in Singles & Dating

We got a phone call last weekend from my sis in law, for fathers day he wanted some bushes planted. I told my hub I did not think he meant us (me and 2 kids) my hub wanted us to come. So we did. It was horrible. I was so right he did not want us there. The kids were not even allowed in the house, except to use the bathroom. I am a very experienced gardener and when I went to grab a shovel to help, my sis in law shook her head no. I have never felt so unwelcome anywhere in all my life. At one point my daughter, who is two went for the landscaping rocks and grandpa flipped. telling her he was going to smack her.. a bit later my hub put some rocks into my nieces lil wheelbarrow and grandpa freaked on him, don’t f$%^ing give them rocks I am going to kill someone if I hit them with a lawn mower.. the last straw was when my 2 yr old hopped off the patio, onto his new “dirt” bed and grandpa started screaming for the switch…any advice?
thanks...

2007-06-12 00:18:29 · 5 answers · asked by sobe29 2 in Family

Me and my bf have been dating for 2yrs now.I really love him but i fell like he doesnt loves me anymore.He always picks me up after ball pratice and we hold hands and talk on the way home.Lately he turns up the radio and dont say a word.We use to go to each others house and chill.When i go over to his house hes on his phone and laughing and talking like he use to talk to me.Same when he goes to my house.I told my friends and they said he is just going through a change.I dont know.When i try to talk to him about it he walks out really mad.He has never acted like this before.I really need help on what to do.


plz answer.

2007-06-12 00:14:58 · 5 answers · asked by Baby girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-12 00:11:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am very sad tht i am always socked. i am not benifited for any work. Strat always beter but finished not so good. Now what can i do this time?

2007-06-12 00:11:35 · 8 answers · asked by Shohanur Rahman 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad loves marvel comics so i thought of getting him one for old times sake.

2007-06-12 00:10:56 · 14 answers · asked by UltimaFenrir28 3 in Family

2007-06-12 00:10:49 · 4 answers · asked by ccop 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do women (not all but a lot) get angry when a man doesn't say it first and why do men take so long before they say it? Does it really make any difference? Does it mean the woman loves him more because she said it first? Or that the man loves her less? Or is it that men just don't like expressing how they feel?

2007-06-12 00:09:45 · 19 answers · asked by Pyro 3 in Singles & Dating

Let me just start out with the basics. I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months, we now live together. I am trying to figure out if the following are something I should "follow"?
I have respected his wishes thus far.

- No hanging out with people we have been sexual with.
- No hanging out with exes. No talking, nothing. (Same for above.)
- No "Myspace" (Our profiles have been deleted from over a month. Note: "Myspace is how we met")
- Let each other know where we are going, who we are with, when we will be home, etc...

Honestly, this list continues...But I'm running out of space here...

Also:
I have been married, and I have a little girl from that marriage. The marriage wasn't exactly "sane" and the limits were non-exsistant.

(As you might see from my previous questions, I am a bit -- A lot confused by this current relationship.)

Thanks a bunch!
Angela*

2007-06-12 00:08:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with my best friend, but she's a girl and straight :S

2007-06-12 00:07:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I've been going out with my girlfriend for just over 2 months now. We'd known each other a bit longer than this but it was only a couple of months ago that we first made the committment and became exclusive. Anyway, before she came along I had pretty been been fairly cynical about the whole love and emotion thing. I was in a previous relationship for about 3 years and ended up feeling very trapped by it all.

I know its very cliche, but since being with my new girlfriend I couldn't be happier. Without even trying she has made me feel complete and I find myself lost without her around. All those old statements about true love that I used to ridicule now make so much sense to me... I've never felt a connection like this before and things just keep getting better and better. Although I know what I feel, I don't always manage to say it...without it coming out in a complete jumbled mess! Although I believe she feels the same spark that I do, I don't want it to seem like I'm...

2007-06-12 00:06:33 · 6 answers · asked by Crisimn 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean lesbianism

2007-06-12 00:06:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf works with a load of eastern european men(polish) and they said that "irish women are sexy but wear too much fake tan and are selfish", "thay are very very selfish woman". can anyone relate to this or disagree. I am Irish and i like different cultures. But i didnt appriate that remark.

2007-06-12 00:03:40 · 6 answers · asked by galwaygirl 1 in Singles & Dating