Family & Relationships - 12 June 2007

How do you choose who you invite? I have a lot of people that I want there but, I don't want to hurt their feelings. I just feel that it is unfair to not invite. I'm really torn over this. Advice please.........

2007-06-12 03:41:27 · 12 answers · asked by Kristina O 2 in Weddings

I and my long D ex, after a year on and off, we finally compromised to be friend for now. I did not really call him since then, as I think we are just normal friend now. Few days ago when I got the news that something bad happened in his home country, I was worried about his family there. I decided to call him and tell him that he should call his mom and see if things there were okay. The first time I called, he answered but he said he couldn't talk and will call back. So finally, I just text him and asked him to call his mom, then I went to bed. He called me back one hour later while I was asleep, I was half awake and can't remember clearly what he said. He said something like his mom was okay, thanks, where u got the news...I am just thinking if I did the right thing to call? or I should just cut the connection with him as he indeed hurt me a lot before.

2007-06-12 03:41:18 · 15 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-12 03:40:52 · 19 answers · asked by girly GuRl 2 in Friends

2007-06-12 03:39:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The dad is a pushover, His son is a habitual liar,and the girlfriend is trying to push everyone around. She is only 16. The son is 18. The son works fulltime but does not pay for anything in the house and gets his dad to buy his cigarettes and gas and insurance. The girlfriend gets money sent every month from her dad for food etc but does not buy anything. Execpt for gifts for the boyfriend. But they all seem to have rules and regulations for my daughter. So what am I to do. The dad pays all the bills and the mortgage etc. They pay nothing. Then the son complained the other day because my boyfriend bought my kids a new bike and he didnt get one.

2007-06-12 03:39:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a girlfriend who is 26 yo. We are planning for marriage in 2 years, but I helping her to save about $100 to $200 per month. I had a hard time convince her to save up for our future. But she secretly spending away the saving account, giving excuses that she sometimes need money to buy clothes and pay her bills. And telling me that it is ok. When I hold on to atm card to prevent her from withdrawing. And sometime when ask her to put money into it. (I have no access to her account)She will say I am extorting her and say it is none of my concern. What would you do if you will me. In Singapore buying house and marriage need lump sum of money. If I don't help her save, end of the day I will be paying for everything, right. (Cost of living is high) Feeling helpless...

2007-06-12 03:38:20 · 6 answers · asked by ButterMilkQueso 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I tell my mom that I am still getting married?

Okay! Me and my fiance have been together nine years and we decided last year to get married and through this big wedding. Well we where making plans and around then end of January we go into this big fight and he left the house, well like most couples we made up. For three months we didn't talk much to family because we decided to focus only on our relationship. Well, after we started going to churc and talking things out we decided to go ahead with our plans and get married. Well, we decided to have a small ceremony in another state with just us and our two children. We said that we where going to have a family event at our home when we returned. How do I tell my mom so that she won't think I am trying to keep her from sharing my day? I will have all the pictures, dvd's, etc... but we decided we didn't want the family pressure or drama. Please help. P.S. my mom got married when I was 19 and she didn't invite us to the wedding.

2007-06-12 03:37:07 · 4 answers · asked by april j 2 in Weddings

Is it normal to be best friends with your first love after you have split up. My GF is says her best friend is her ex of 2 years and ive never heard of anyone being in this situation before and im worried caus i think he still loves her.

2007-06-12 03:36:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with me, I hope world doesn't have different in life, no problem , no jealious, no war..

2007-06-12 03:33:39 · 8 answers · asked by linh h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was seeing this girl for a while, and she was not my girl we just liked being together and we had sex a couple of times...The thing is, she is known to be a promiscuous person all over campus, and I hate to hear people talkin about her. I just told her we shouldn't be together anymore even though we did nasty!! I don't wanna be with her because she is known to be promiscuous, but other than that she is great!!

2007-06-12 03:33:05 · 31 answers · asked by iMack 1 in Singles & Dating

I am black but I love latins girls, and have dated white, mixed, and asian. My family are not racist but want me to find a girl within my race. I am not prejudice agianst black girls and most girls i date are black. I just like who ever i am attracted to. is that a problem?

2007-06-12 03:31:33 · 18 answers · asked by playa4life01 2 in Singles & Dating

Where getting married last minute, we had planned on getting married but with family circcumstances they will all be here the first weekend of july so I need to find someone to finace me money for rings, andyone know who? Where?

2007-06-12 03:31:04 · 10 answers · asked by babymay1011 2 in Weddings

2007-06-12 03:30:47 · 34 answers · asked by ♥saLsa Lady♥ 2 in Friends

2007-06-12 03:28:17 · 16 answers · asked by wcf888 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a teacher who love us girls. it is so gross. hes like 60 yrs. old. we tried to tell our princapal but she didnt do anything. he get pics of his female students and keeps them in his desk. dont u think t his is wrong.also when the prettiest girl got sick he brought food and flowers too her house.isnt this wrong

2007-06-12 03:25:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I failed to get any results after search for any adult content on all search engines such as Yahoo, Google, AltaVista. msn etc. I had turn off all filters and still no results. any help

2007-06-12 03:25:01 · 2 answers · asked by innocent 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it normal for a husband/boyfriend in long term relationship to masturbate and fancying other strange women (in magezine, TV, Movie, past lovers, stranger on the street...)? why they doing this? the strangeness turns him on? do they just use their wife/girlfriend's body and fancying having intercourse with other women's images in their mind?

2007-06-12 03:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by sabella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

All the dishes were dirty....

What should I do?

2007-06-12 03:21:44 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do for our 1 year anniversary, it's this weekend and I want it to be perfect

2007-06-12 03:20:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with my partner for at least 20 years, and lived together in my house for the last 5yrs.he is a carer on nights working only with women . it has now been brought to my attention that he is having a great "social" time there. I feel really gutted and used...and would really like a little revenge, whatdo you think?

2007-06-12 03:19:27 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is the best way for me to handle the my husband wanting a divorce. he will not consider counseling at all.I am already looking fo an apartment to move at the end of June. I love him dearly and he says he loves me but my trust issues are too much an he cant handle it. I am really trying not to call him or text him and tell him that I want it to work .but I aslo think he may think I dont care. so I dont know what to do. should I just take a sit back and let things and watch things unfold or shoul i acctively tell him I want it to work. I dont want to froce or crowd him and yet I want him to know I dont want to leave.help.

2007-06-12 03:17:55 · 10 answers · asked by praise t 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex bf beat me up which is how i met the police man. hes been round a few of times for different reasons. hes seperated from his wife and im pretty sure he likes me, he says stuff like youve got muscey arms and i wouldnt complain if you had no clothes on, i think hes flirting with me. well today he has been round but hes not anymore as there is no need. how can i tell him i like him when all i know is the station he works at and which school is children go to. xxx

2007-06-12 03:16:08 · 15 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I always seem to meet guys that have not got over their ex's or have completely mentally scared them for life!! We meet up and we go out then a few dates later its usually i have got back with my ex or i am not ready for a relationship. I am beginning to wonder if its something to do with me?? and will i ever meet a guy that is over his ex i am 27 and it keeps happening!!

2007-06-12 03:14:56 · 30 answers · asked by british gurly 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up a year ago after 5 years together. He dumped me for some girl he works with. I was so hurt and cried for 8 months. I was finally moving on when he contacted me to tell how much he misses me and how much I still turn him on and he wants to get together to... you know, but he's still with this other girl!! They live together. I don't know what to think. I still love him so much. If his relationship with his new girl was so great, he wouldn't be willing to risk their relationship to mess around with me, right?? Now I'm sad again and I don't know what to think. I want to be with him again so badly, but is he just using me or could he have relized he made a mistake??

2007-06-12 03:14:43 · 19 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-12 03:13:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is adopted and certainly has issues being in bio family for the first 2 years of her life. We have given her much love and consider her our daughter. She is sexually active, doing drugs, and just about kicked out of school. All of our discipline stategies have failed. She is now walking out of our home. She is staying with an older daughter, but I need to know if there is anything family court is able to do so we can get her into some sort of facility to help her. thank you

2007-06-12 03:12:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We broke up last night because he had seen something on the news about a 17 year old guy was dating a 15 year old girl and the parents pressed charges. i just want him to know that theres nothing to worry about. if there is no law against us dating.

2007-06-12 03:11:30 · 21 answers · asked by green bean 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am this long distance relationship and he is 6 yrs older than me. im not ready for sex but he is and he really respects that im not and im glad cuz not many guys do. (i get to see him on the weekends) but everynow and then when he is just dyin to have sex he will break up with me just for the week or a little longer. then when he is done with his wild week we will start goin back out. (im just glad he does that instead of cheatin on me when he wants to.) what should i do? should i stay with him or next time he breaks up with me leave him for good?

2007-06-12 03:11:28 · 14 answers · asked by STiLL<3HiM 2 in Singles & Dating

I am an entrepreneur; lately I have been looking into websites i.e. Milf Hunter and Bang Brothers and it is obvious the whole thing is a set up, I know this idea had been conquered but I would like to make it reality.

I want to pull random women on a street and offer them; if she takes an offence; my co-workers will be recording her and we will display that on the website too.

But I got a question for you; would you be willing to sleep with a handsome stranger for £1000; so strings attached and satisfaction guaranteed?

BE HONEST; its an idea, nothing else.

2007-06-12 03:09:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I with this guy for about 2 yrs. he refused to give me his cell#. t i was so sad and mad. I told him. I want nothing to do with him, moving forward with my life. then he started to call me from his cell phone.. like 10 times a day. I don't know if I should keep him as a good friend or not.????. Im just so confuse.. please help...

2007-06-12 03:06:12 · 10 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce